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Please tell me where all these cushy, well paid jobs are...and how I can get one!

228 replies

malificent7 · 11/07/2023 08:41

Working in health care ...love it but high stress, poor pay. Not getting any younger.

Someone on the work thread said they know lots of people in cushy, well paid jobs. Posting here for traffic...where are they?!
Disn't have to be interesting or worthy...just cushy and well-paid!

OP posts:
Gemst199 · 11/07/2023 17:55

I'm a insurance pricing analyst and would consider my job well paid and 'cushy'. I'm not rich a all but I earn slightly more working 16 hours a week than I would full time in a minimum wage job which I'm happy with. No management responsibilities and a workplace focused on good mental health and work,/life balance.
How did I get here? 8 years at university studying mathematics and 10 years building skills and experience. And the luck of having a natural apptitude in maths and a stable home situation which encouraged me to get educated to a high level even though my parents didn't have it themselves. I'm definitely privileged I that way.

horseyhorsey17 · 11/07/2023 17:56

Madamecholetsbonnet · 11/07/2023 17:43

@horseyhorsey17 mine is. £100k FTE and I do very little. I spend a lot of my working day travelling on trains and in meetings.

Maybe some people would absolutely hate that, I can understand it’s not for everyone, but having been a teacher previously, to me it’s incredibly cushy.

Interesting - what do you do within the sector? I looked at transitioning into charity comms - which I'd actually really enjoy - but it would mean at least a £10K pay cut. No can do!

Madamecholetsbonnet · 11/07/2023 17:57

Events management. I love it!

Madamecholetsbonnet · 11/07/2023 17:59

Theonlyreason · 11/07/2023 17:48

@Madamecholetsbonnet

Ive has some cushy charity jobs where I’ve done sweet FA. This is why I don’t donate any money to charities.

Me neither! Unless you count the National Lottery!

England101 · 11/07/2023 18:02

JauntyJinty · 11/07/2023 08:48

You have to be an incompetent white male with zero personal awareness, then you just need to find someone who falls for it when you talk about how great you are.

TBF there are plenty of white women who are incompetent and are at the top. In the NHS, people are often mediocre but are promoted up and out of the department as a way of getting rid of them. But for the private sector it seems as though you have to be the right ‘fit’ usually white and middle class, know the right people and be willing to do anything to please share holders and make them money.

rigamortiz · 11/07/2023 18:04

Madamecholetsbonnet · 11/07/2023 17:57

Events management. I love it!

I organise events as part of my job (I don't work in anything related to events or marketing) and it's stressful as hell. Maybe you've hit the jackpot and found a hard job that comes naturally to you!

3BSHKATS · 11/07/2023 18:05

I think sadly the truth is you have to put the hard yards in the beginning which is annoying because that’s when you want to be having most fun. But yeah I’ve worked incredibly hard to do this little

Bogeyes · 11/07/2023 18:07

It's not what you know....its who you know!

Beaconofasseptability · 11/07/2023 18:09

My job looks cushy and well paid now. I earn the lower end of 6 figures. Wfh. And knock off at 5/5.30.

what you don’t see is the brutal jobs I did before the at as a single parent to 3 to get me where I am. The retraining (degree, masters and professional qualifications) with kids and working in a minimum wage job to get there.

Madamecholetsbonnet · 11/07/2023 18:09

rigamortiz · 11/07/2023 18:04

I organise events as part of my job (I don't work in anything related to events or marketing) and it's stressful as hell. Maybe you've hit the jackpot and found a hard job that comes naturally to you!

That’s a really valid point that applies across the board. I am ridiculously well organised, to the point it annoys/amuses friends and family.

So yeah, do what comes easily to you to be able to find your job cushy.

Aprilx · 11/07/2023 18:16

I have taken a step back now, but I have had well paid jobs, as in six figures since I was in my mid 30s, twenty years ago. I don't know what you mean by cushy, I suppose there can sometimes be a bit more flexiblity than with more junior jobs and I have travelled overseas a fair bit. But the flexibility is a two way street and I have always been expected to work whatever hours are required, answer out of hours emails etc. I also worked hard and studied for years to get there in the first place.

ImNotHeartlessHonest · 11/07/2023 18:16

I am a data protection specialist.

Loads of organisations need them, and the pay is decent, especially once you have some experience.

Everyone in management is legally required to take you seriously, but they won't generally get het up or excited about your work, so it's low stress. Especially good if you like reading and detail work.

I basically fart around making recommendations, and my company remains legally on the hook for implementing them.

(I do actually add value, but I don't have to. The idea of fretting over who will cover for my role or when I'll take holiday is alien to me. That is what makes it cushy to me.)

Bringonthepitchforks · 11/07/2023 18:17

You've got to find what you enjoy and look into the career path to get to the money.

If you're doing a job you enjoy and paid well for it it'll be cushy.

Letsgotitans · 11/07/2023 18:17

JauntyJinty · 11/07/2023 08:48

You have to be an incompetent white male with zero personal awareness, then you just need to find someone who falls for it when you talk about how great you are.

Well that's incredibly sexist and racist

AyayaPushover · 11/07/2023 18:18

I’m 34 and blagged my way into a 40k job (was on 21k) 5 years ago. I had extremely little experience in my field but have a great ability to digest information and become an “expert” overnight (thanks ADHD). I now actually know what I’m talking about and am on 60. About to start a law degree part time (complements the job) so my earning potential is around 100k when I finish. I just don’t like to be static, I constantly need to be better. Love my career though!

DodoOnHoliday · 11/07/2023 18:20

In my company I see two types of these roles. The first is the global account manager. From what I can see, this role involves lots of travel and events with customers and listening to their complaints. You then instruct other people to deal with these. It sounds fantastically cushy to me and I’m sure comes with a whopping salary, but it’s extremely hard to become one so they’ve paid their dues going up the sales ladder which is definitely not cushy.

The other type of cushy job is the layer of senior experts brought in to enact various strategies. These don’t seem to do a huge amount other than delivering presentations about said strategies and building little empires. I’m unenvious of these roles as they’re vulnerable when change is in the air.

Beaconofasseptability · 11/07/2023 18:28

Also. I contracted for a few years to build lots of experience in different orgs quickly. And that sucks.

MrsMontyD · 11/07/2023 18:29

@Letsgotitans But absolutely true, we've all seen very average white Men being promoted above their competence because they have more self confidence than ability and aren't afraid to talk themselves up.

Dragonfly97 · 11/07/2023 18:33

JauntyJinty · 11/07/2023 08:48

You have to be an incompetent white male with zero personal awareness, then you just need to find someone who falls for it when you talk about how great you are.

I know one of those 🙄

YeCannaeChangeTheLawsOfPhysics · 11/07/2023 18:33

I have a cushy well paid job but its taken me 27 years of building my career to get to this point. It still has loads of stress but the hours and salary compensates for that.

I needed a degree, lots of training, and lots of gaining knowledge and experience over 2 and a half decades.

If I had chosen a different degree - law, accountancy etc then I could have achieved that many years ago.

catgirl1976 · 11/07/2023 18:34

JauntyJinty · 11/07/2023 08:48

You have to be an incompetent white male with zero personal awareness, then you just need to find someone who falls for it when you talk about how great you are.

So much this. Just seen it in action yet again today at work. Gives me the rage 😤

alwayslearning789 · 11/07/2023 18:37

RebelR · 11/07/2023 09:38

I think they get "cushier" in terms of workload, actual tasks, the more senior and experienced you get, but that comes with more responsibility, which some people thrive on and others would see as stress.

I currently manage a team of 20 people all doing jobs that I once worked very hard in. I have things running smoothly, my team are well managed and performing well, I'm sure to many it looks like I don't do much, but if I wasn't there as a reference point, hadn't set up the systems that make it run so well l, resolving issues while they're still minor, supporting the team when they need it, it would soon fall apart.

Also, my experience means I know which elements of my job need lots of time and effort on them and which bits no-one really cares about, where when I was younger I'd have made sure it was all done to the best of my ability.

I don't think my job is "cushy", lots of the people who might wonder what I do all day would struggle with it, but it's not particularly challenging for me now.

Really good point well made @RebelR

GraysPapaya · 11/07/2023 18:46

What @JauntyJinty said!
In my experience my best paid friends knew the right people, as depressing as that is. I’ve started networking much better this year as a consequence of watching people get ahead so much from it. It is starting to work!
Also digital marketing pays very well for wage vs time spent!

LightBlueJeans · 11/07/2023 18:46

I'm an in-house lawyer earning 90k, I rarely work past 6.30pm and I only need to go to the office a couple of times a week. I am in my late twenties and hope to start a family soon.

I worked hard throughout school, university and my twenties, qualifying as a solicitor in a City law firm and working a LOT of hours as a junior associate for around 120k.

The (relatively) lower salary now has been so worth it for the reduced stress and more time for friendships, self care and hobbies. My long term career progression opportunities are likely more limited now though.

Mumsanetta · 11/07/2023 18:48

Lots of people saying their job fits the bill but not actually saying what their job is so of no use whatsoever to the OP 🙄