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I witnessed a retail employee being absolutely vile to an elderly man today

389 replies

Greenfinc · 06/07/2023 14:54

This afternoon in a small branch of Lidl at the self service checkouts. Nobody was on the actual tills so no option to use them instead.

An elderly man needed some help scanning his shopping and was explaining to the employee overseeing the checkouts that he was partially sighted and was struggling to find the bar codes.

The employee was absolutely horrible to him saying being partially sighted doesn't mean he can't see and that there's a difference between being partially sighted and blind. Her attitude was vile.

She begrudgingly scanned his remaining items, as though he'd asked her to pay for them herself, and as he was collecting his change from the machine she sarcastically said "oh you managed to see that well enough did you"

I asked him if he needed any help and if he was ok and he explained that he'd had two surgeries on his eyes and couldn't see very well, and that he was only able to get about to the shop on his own as he knew and was used to it but struggled with the bar codes.

I told him I'd heard everything that woman had said to him and that I'm going to contact the head office about her and report exactly what I'd heard. He said he didn't want to make a fuss and that she was clearly just looking for an argument.

WIBU to report her to her employer regardless? I feel really sad about it and don't think somebody like that should be in a customer facing role working with members of the public. Horrible bully.

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BringMeTea · 08/07/2023 14:52

Is 'report her' the new 'cancel the cheque'? OP's posts are helpfully highlighted...

Ginburee · 08/07/2023 16:24

You were 100% in the right, absolutely report her.

CD2 · 08/07/2023 16:36

Well done OP, this is a result tbh

pastypirate · 08/07/2023 16:55

Disability discrimination very clear cut in my opinion.

LaDeeDa123 · 08/07/2023 17:01

Which branch was this?

Greenfinc · 08/07/2023 17:07

LaDeeDa123 · 08/07/2023 17:01

Which branch was this?

Sydenham, S.E London

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Peppermintpatty24 · 08/07/2023 18:11

Now that we know which branch it is, we should all write in and complain 🙂.

Beaverbridge · 08/07/2023 18:33

That shop is obviously needing a severe overhaul from manager down... Absolutely disgusting vile specimen.

Rosmarina · 08/07/2023 19:37

Yes please report that horrible woman to customer service , if there is one at Lidle or try the website. This is the same as being racist, just as bad . This nasty ignorant person ought to get the sack. That poor man must have been so hurt with this incident . Kindness is essential in Society particularly in shops dealing with the public.

Solonge · 09/07/2023 00:21

Ho the hell are the 1% that voted YABU? Some real weirdos on MN.

SK20772M · 09/07/2023 00:59

@Solonge I think some people vote "YABU" by accident, and dont realise you can just change your vote by clicking "YANBU" (hoping that is why anyway)

RachaelN · 10/07/2023 05:26

Please report her. She was verbally abusive towards a vulnerable person. We have to look out for each other when bullies are concerned.

whynotwhatknot · 15/07/2023 13:34

any update op?

CrashyTime · 30/08/2023 15:32

jc12689 · 06/07/2023 14:57

I would have called here out there and then while she was doing it.

So would I, then ask her to get some checkouts open or you will go elsewhere (not that she probably cares)

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