She does get to talk about it. Correct.
I’m glad you agree.
You can certainly discuss how she runs her school. Someone might actively not choose that school based on it, which is up to them.
Some of it though, all the narcissist, entitled, self publicist stuff is similar to the Meghan Markle threads, some object but I don’t think they’ve been stopped yet.
I probably would take care with non anonymous platforms though, as JP should. Hopefully a bit of a wake up on how not to speak to black women where the latter might have her own view on how belittling she found it.
Re your ds, surely his view on whether or not he found it belittling would be more relevant.