'The problem is you're too lazy to be a good mother'

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DD (6m) has had 9wks of crap sleeping.

tried moses basket, cot in our room, cot next to our bed, cot in nursery, cosleeping but she still won't reliably go down till 11 or so and then wakes every hour.

have bought No-Cry Sleep Soln and am working through it steadily in effort to get her sleeping longer and in own cot

but judging by what dh said tonight it's not working

Choked on my porridge with rage AT. You sound exhausted.
Has your DH tried bundling baby up and taking her for a long walk? The fresh air might knock her out for a bit. It would get him off your case for a bit.
I found my DS slept much better when I fed him chamomile tea to wash down his solid food.
I'm sorry but I want to kick your man in the nuts for even THINKING that.