Yes, I'm happy for those people to be paid but I think if they're being paid there should be some sort of auditing. So there's a care need, a relative has said they'll meet that need and they're able to demonstrate they are carrying out those duties to a minimum level. No problem with that, but if you're being paid it should be monitored.
Here’s an easy form of monitoring for you - I have looked after DD for upto 10 months at a time, and claimed carer’s allowance. Then I usually suffer carer breakdown, due mainly to exhaustion.
DD is deemed to need 1:1 care all her waking hours, and 2:1 in the community (although they can’t staff that). A care home has to employ 3 full time care workers to provide 1:1 care. Then she gets 1:2 care at night. I don’t know how many night staff they employ, but I guess they need 3 to provide back up in case of sickness. So DD needs 4.5 full time care workers to do what I do, although admittedly I do go to sleep at night, and we leave all the doors open, so we can hear her at night.
Five years ago, the care home quoted £175,000 pa for her care - I don’t know what they charge now with inflation. Social Services tells me £5,000 - £6,000 per week (ie over £300,000 pa) is reasonable for someone as complex as DD!
So auditing what a carer does at home for £76 a week is sensible, if the carers all give up, and say I am not jumping through any more hoops for this shit - my relative can go to a care home?
(Incidentally if I were going to audit anything, it would be the care homes, who employ 1 care worker to look after 8 elderly, frail people at a time; to see how much care residents are actually getting - because having visited a relative in a care home, with that care ratio, it was like being on the Marie Celeste. It was quite hard to find any care worker to come help our relative with a hoist; and they didn’t help her with eating, drinking or going to the toilet. She simply went without.)