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Neighbours kids

64 replies

Lazym · 25/06/2023 09:20

Hi, i know I'm going to get mixed comments on this but aibu for expecting a bit of peace on a Sunday morning until 10? Already, neighbours one side have been out moving cars about to clean, young daughter has been out on her bike and ringing the bell. The other side who are just selfish tossers anyway have had their small kids outside banging, screaming before 9am and our bedroom window, which is right by their garden, is open because of the heat, (still hear them even if the window was closed anyway). So aibu to expect them to keep it down a bit or is it just a case of "oh well we're up and awake so f* anyone else?" When my kids were younger, not long ago, I wouldn't dream of letting them out before a reasonable time.

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bringincrazyback · 25/06/2023 13:03

Quinoawoman · 25/06/2023 09:25

I would say a reasonable time is more like 8am rather than 10. Almost half the day is over by then!

Don't be ridiculous. Half the morning's over, but not half the day. Different people sleep and wake at different times.

Fairydustandsparklylights · 25/06/2023 13:05

I have two young dc and do agree that people need to be more considerate, especially in the summer when people have their windows open. I have the rule of no being outside before 9am on a Saturday and 10am on a Sunday. Sunday is easy as they’re allowed unlimited tv / iPads until 10am whilst it’s a bit more rationed on other days. We did this when they were younger so we got peace and quiet. Our dc aren’t particularly noisy but they do annoy each other. I find it irritating to listen to so I wouldn’t subject my neighbours to do that either super early on a Sunday morning.

Redebs · 25/06/2023 13:07

Since it's so hot, 8am is probably the better time for kids to play out.
Dog barking is a different issue. That's not ok at any time.

MumUndone · 25/06/2023 13:08

I try to keep mine inside until 9am. It's Sunday morning, people want to relax and have a lie-in, I would too if I didn't have young kids!

Mylifeislikeaboatrace · 25/06/2023 13:30

10 o'clock until I could go into the garden and do stuff on a sunday? I don't think so, 8.30 imo. But there is never any excuse for screaming kids, revving up motor bikes or cars for no apparent reason [other than acting like a dick] and the irritating men who insist on making loads of noise with angle grinders for hours on end. I really believe some of these men are lacking and have to prove themselves by making shit loads of noise to compensate.
Thankfully I moved away from all that shit and where I am now is very quiet. You could hear a seagull fart.😀

MrsSkylerWhite · 25/06/2023 13:31

I think 9 is reasonable in the summer.

Screwballs · 25/06/2023 14:17

Lazym · 25/06/2023 10:09

You're post is a bit contradictory, as in I'm supposed to be ok to listen to banging and screaming a few feet from my bedroom window on a Sunday morning but hearing a ball being kicked for an hour isn't ok with you? At least your annoyance stops, I have it on an off all week. Best of luck to you.

Not contradictory, I'm saying that's life and I'm saying it from a POV where I'm semi rural and it's still an issue. But it is life and you can't go around dictating others.

otherwayup · 25/06/2023 16:42

Quinoawoman · 25/06/2023 09:25

I would say a reasonable time is more like 8am rather than 10. Almost half the day is over by then!

I'm howling at half the day is over by 10am!!

JamSandle · 25/06/2023 16:48

We live in a family are but one of our neighbours have really noisy kids and a noisy dog. They drive many of us bananas. I think a lot of parents just don't know how to tell their kids no.

Yes have fun and play but don't shriek and don't be inconsiderate of others around you.

mbosnz · 25/06/2023 16:48

LOL, one thing I didn't take into account when we shifted, was that the church has bells. Lots, and lots, of bells. Weddings. . . funerals . . . call to worship on Sundays (pre 9.00am tune up). . . practice. . .

Oh well. It still beats living opposite a full fricking pipe band practicing for three hours of a Wednesday evening!

Screwballs · 25/06/2023 16:51

otherwayup · 25/06/2023 16:42

I'm howling at half the day is over by 10am!!

If I get up at ten, I feel like I've lost a morning, so I understand the sentiment.

SnowFir · 25/06/2023 17:06

Yanbu. I didn't let mine disturb people before 10 at the weekend and luckily my neighbours are the same. People might want a lie in after working all week, and that's ok.

GoodChat · 25/06/2023 17:23

SnowFir · 25/06/2023 17:06

Yanbu. I didn't let mine disturb people before 10 at the weekend and luckily my neighbours are the same. People might want a lie in after working all week, and that's ok.

Other people might have worked the previous night so a 10am start would still be shit for them, or working the following night so kids playing out at 5pm might be. You can't please everyone.

SnowFir · 26/06/2023 00:49

GoodChat · 25/06/2023 17:23

Other people might have worked the previous night so a 10am start would still be shit for them, or working the following night so kids playing out at 5pm might be. You can't please everyone.

Irrelevant as my neighbours work standard hours.

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