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To be upset that DH bought DS's birthday gift early

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Nerd3 · 18/06/2023 10:48

Our DS will be 2 in August. He is obsessed with bikes whenever he sees one, so we thought it would be a great idea to get him a balance bike as a birthday gift. I also wanted to get him a helmet at the same time so he knows from the beginning that you ride only with the helmet on.
This morning DH took DS to the shop, let him try on different bikes and just got him one while they were there, so obviously it's no surprise now and he is using it already.

AIBU to be upset about this? I was really looking forward to do it as a birthday surprise and seeing his reaction and do the unpacking and first rides together.

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TeaKitten · 19/06/2023 14:12

Jesscococolake · 19/06/2023 12:24

Well it did . So clearly you are bonkers !

It actually didn’t, he pranked her. Not that you could possibly no the truth either way if she’s lying.

MarigoldGlove · 19/06/2023 15:00

I’d be delighted DH took the initiative and that he paid ! Seriously, it’s a lovely thing to do

Being delighted that a person pays for their own two year olds birthday present is bonkers if anything is bonkers. How is it a lovely thing to do?

LT1982 · 20/06/2023 06:56

Jesscococolake · 19/06/2023 12:24

Well it did . So clearly you are bonkers !

No it didn't. Clearly you didn't read the update before insulting people. Who looks bonkers now 🙄

TheseThree · 20/06/2023 15:17

I hope the two of you are accustomed to such pranks because that would have irritated me to no end.

I do think now would be a better time to give that gift (while he is still obsessed and in most places this is bike riding season) but it needs to be done together - and yes, with the helmet.

I’d have him go back without DS and bring it back and surprise him together that he gets to keep it, because the excitement is definitely something you should both be a part of!

Opaque11 · 20/06/2023 15:20

Nerd3 · 18/06/2023 11:29

Thanks all, so just an update, he's pranked me! He's sent me photos and videos from the shop with the ds riding it and that he's bought it.. Now they are back and it turns out he didn't as he knew I'd be livid 😅
Your comments made me think though we may actually want to buy it early to get most use out of it in summer!

You both sound so immature if this stuff is amusing. Your poor bike crazy ds must have felt awful.

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