I think your viewpoint on this depends on your age and life experience.
My earliest childhood memories are moving to a new home that I now know was completely affordable for my parents (late 1970s, dad working, SAHM). It was amazing.
Then all of a sudden, 1980, it wasn’t affordable. My Dad did his day job and his night job. He worked 19 hours a day. Us kids got out of bed, and put in the one car we could afford because we had to pick him up at midnight. My mum then worked 12 hours stocking shelves through the night at weekend so they didn’t lose the house.
It settled again until 1987, when mortgage interest rates were 15%. I can remember my parents’ worried faces and it has had a lasting impact. They decided to move to a smaller, cheaper house to avoid the stress.
I/we have never over extended ourselves and live quite modestly according to our means because I have always done the sums and not assumed that everything will always be rosy. Because it it never is.
So no, I don’t see why the money I pay in tax for public services should be spent on helping people with mortgages they might not be able to afford in the longer term. It pays for healthcare, education and the social
care we might all need one day.
I pay tax for the public services that people often complain about. I think they will get much worse if we have to pay mortgages that people take without an eye on the medium or long term view.
I want there to be public money for people who aren’t fortunate. I’m happier to live smaller and pay more so there is more
money for those who need help.
House prices are an aligned issue but also a separate argument. People wanting everything and being unwilling to sacrifice anything is another.
I see a lot of people living beyond their means and find it quite worrying. I’m much older than the most of Mumsnet so maybe that makes as difference?