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Lockdown report/Covid enquiry - if you supported lockdown do you regret it?

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Hell121 · 06/06/2023 09:46

I haven’t seen a thread on this so sorry if it has been done. In light of the report yesterday I wander if people have changed their minds on whether lockdown was a good idea. I remember the threads of utter lunacy on here and the mask hysteria/schools debate. I was against lockdowns and masks very early on but complied - I don’t think I’d ever do it again. I genuinely think it was a massive overreaction which has damaged things in this country irreparably and left many children and adults far worse off than they were pre covid.

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SunnyEgg · 06/06/2023 11:52

Rockybooboo · 06/06/2023 11:50

Quite a few children died because of lockdown. Star Hobson. Arthur Labinjo-Hughes come to mind. Trapped with their abusers and invisible to society.

Medics raised what they called the silent pandemic in July 2020

Harm to children. In the BMA journal. Largely ignored, by many deliberately

GlomOfNit · 06/06/2023 11:53

TequilaNights · 06/06/2023 11:07

No, we did what we thought was needed at that moment, nobody knew what the outcome would be.

Although I do appreciate that I have a larger family and a garden, we all still went to work, so not a lot changed for us.

I overhead a little old dear in the GP office this morning talking about how covid stole 2 years of the life she had left and totally changed the quality of that time she had left, that was so sad to hear.

That is indeed really sad, TequillaNights, but I just hope the old woman you overheard in the PO remembers that the reason we were locking down was to protect the most vulnerable (eg, people of her age) and ensure that she DID have more life to enjoy!

And of course it stole 2 years from lots of groups, didn't it? Think of the school children who had 2 years taken from their social lives at primary. The kids who had to cope with the GCSE debacle. The kids who couldn't cope with being without their peers for that long. The disabled people who couldn't visit day centres. It wasn't all about the aged. And yet I still think this was the right decision to make, based on the knowledge we had at the time and the need to stop the NHS from collapsing entirely. We would, quite literally, have had those bodies stacking up that BJ is often quoted as mentioning.

Swrigh1234 · 06/06/2023 11:53

The fact that there are still people defending lockdowns, even after everything that’s out in the open, shows that there is no shortage of stupid. And to think that these people have the vote.

StormShadow · 06/06/2023 11:53

SunnyEgg · 06/06/2023 11:51

The left tended to go harder, particularly if linked to union strength as seen in Chicago (?) or wherever it was that closed schools for 18 months

Florida had a different tack, MPs here voted differently in that second winter what was it 99 who said no. And you could pretty much draw a line on here to lockdown supporters and Labour supporters in many cases.

I do take the @Hell121 point on Jeremy Hunt though, I felt some great annoyance at him too

Eh no, not really. Sweden, for example, famously didn't lock down at all and they had a left wing government. In the anglosphere yes, sure, but that's only a small part of the picture.

Iwasafool · 06/06/2023 11:53

Sunshine0x · 06/06/2023 11:23

I know no staff who died or were severely infected with covid 19 and we had wards of dying covid patients. I never got infected either that I know of and I tested pretty much everyday.

One of my family who is a doctor cared for a colleague and a retired colleague and held at least one of them when they made their final ipad call to family. The mental scars for some are truly horrific.

I'm glad you didn't have the same experience.

pinboardwizard · 06/06/2023 11:54

SunnyEgg · 06/06/2023 11:35

Did you think about children and adults suffering during lockdown though?

Surely that self interest goes both ways

I didn’t agree after the first few weeks, I did largely comply though even though the fear factor was gone and I could see the damage the restrictions were causing

Of course I thought I thought about adults and children suffering, those without gardens , those with mental health issues etc, but as a society we had to contain the cases as much as possible.

My point still stands, people didn't comply or stopped complying with lockdown, not due to some great insight on the long term societal issues it would cause, but because they were personally inconvenienced and didn't like it.

Lockdown, masks, and vaccines - I've seen sides of friends that I never suspected they had over these issues.

followtheyellowbrick · 06/06/2023 11:54

Agree OP. Lots at the time, and now said 'we only followed the science' which was of course not true at all (in fact, the pandemic readiness plan we had together with some Northern European countries was what many leading scientist in the pharma industry wanted but politicans bowed to the masses).

Yes, first lockdown, got that as the pictures and initial data was streaming in from China/Italy and we simply didn't have much data.

But, for anyone keen to explore further to listening to the news or reading newspapers, you could look at data in other countries from May-time 2020 and very early it was evident that primary school children, for example, was at minimal risk (in fact some countries kept them open) and that certain conditions e.g. asthma was in fact NOT associated with increased risk unless other co-morbidities and that actually age or living in a care / old people's home was the real issue in most cases!

Had many conversations and some people were hysterical. I stopped after a while....

x2boys · 06/06/2023 11:54

Rockybooboo · 06/06/2023 11:50

Quite a few children died because of lockdown. Star Hobson. Arthur Labinjo-Hughes come to mind. Trapped with their abusers and invisible to society.

They died because they had abusive parents. Step parents ,lockdown didn't cause.them to be abusive .

Malificent1 · 06/06/2023 11:56

x2boys · 06/06/2023 11:54

They died because they had abusive parents. Step parents ,lockdown didn't cause.them to be abusive .

Lockdown allowed them to get away with their abuse.

SunnyEgg · 06/06/2023 11:56

StormShadow · 06/06/2023 11:53

Eh no, not really. Sweden, for example, famously didn't lock down at all and they had a left wing government. In the anglosphere yes, sure, but that's only a small part of the picture.

Well you’ve only mentioned one country. And I’ve mentioned various factors so yes I stand by it.

StormShadow · 06/06/2023 11:56

My point still stands, people didn't comply or stopped complying with lockdown, not due to some great insight on the long term societal issues it would cause, but because they were personally inconvenienced and didn't like it.

They're not two separate, discrete issues as you suggest here.

Part of the reason I didn't comply is because it was clear to me that my DC were suffering, and they weren't going to be collateral any more than I could help. There was nothing I could do about them being considered unworthy of schooling, but I could at least make sure they had socialisation.

The impact on children is something that was obvious pretty early on, but it's not like most of us can do anything about the wider societal issues. As a person who was concerned about the welfare of DC, the only ones I was in a position to have any influence on were mine and those I'm close to.

spuddel · 06/06/2023 11:57

Swrigh1234 · 06/06/2023 11:53

The fact that there are still people defending lockdowns, even after everything that’s out in the open, shows that there is no shortage of stupid. And to think that these people have the vote.

100% this.

Lockdowns went against every pandemic plan in place. A total power grab and when every major world leader started banging on about Build Back Better, only a raving lunatic would fail to see it was all planned for a very long time.

L1ttledrummergirl · 06/06/2023 11:59

I supported the first lock down, I saw what was happening in Italy and think we reacted too slowly. Anyone who left the house had a bottle of handgel until the shops ran out.
I thought then and still think now that masks weren't needed as nobody wore them in a way that would stop infection. The queues outside supermarkets were ridiculous. Sending elderly ino homes without quarantine was criminal. Whoever made that decision should be jailed.

Eotho shouldn't have happened.

The amount of money wasted and given to their mates by the government was criminal. They took advantage to raid the public purse.

The NHS staff I know are still traumatised from what they saw, and still have anxiety in public spaces as a result.

EmpressMoo · 06/06/2023 11:59

It's not a report, it's a book, @Dahliasrule.

https://iea.org.uk/publications/did-lockdowns-work-the-verdict-on-covid-restrictions/#:~:text=The%20results%20of%20our%20meta,role%20in%20mitigating%20the%20pandemic.

Here is the original paper and the second revised version, after the first paper was criticised. Neither are peer reviewed.

https://sites.krieger.jhu.edu/iae/files/2022/01/A-Literature-Review-and-Meta-Analysis-of-the-Effects-of-Lockdowns-on-COVID-19-Mortality.pdf

https://mpra.ub.uni-muenchen.de/113732/

I would caution you with this quote taken from The Guardian article:

"At the time, Dr Joshua Sharfstein, vice dean of the Johns Hopkins School of Public Health, distanced the school from the work, saying it was not a peer-reviewed scientific study and that “serious questions” had been raised about its methodology."

A Literature Review and Meta-Analysis of the Effects of Lockdowns on Covid-19 Mortality - II Munich Personal RePEc Archive

https://mpra.ub.uni-muenchen.de/113732

Hell121 · 06/06/2023 11:59

@Rockybooboo indeed - and I don’t think we should forget Sarah Everard either whose killer was able to use lockdown rules as part of his evil plan.

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lovescats3 · 06/06/2023 12:00

We should and could have locked down earlier it would have saved people's lives .we needed lockdowns because we didn't have vaccines.

pikkumyy77 · 06/06/2023 12:00

Masking was necessary and had a major effect on transmission. Lockdown could have been handled differently but also was a major firebreak in the battle to keep people alive and conserve medical resources until vaccines came on line.

Fightyouforthatpie · 06/06/2023 12:00

SunnyEgg · 06/06/2023 10:45

Discussion on a big event that impacted nearly everyone I suspect

Sorry I should have been clearer - why bother soliciting people to say they were wrong about something in the past and OP was right? What possible good can it do - or is it just so OP can say "I told you so"?

Thesunnymood · 06/06/2023 12:00

spuddel · 06/06/2023 11:57

100% this.

Lockdowns went against every pandemic plan in place. A total power grab and when every major world leader started banging on about Build Back Better, only a raving lunatic would fail to see it was all planned for a very long time.

Are you suggesting all this was some kind of worldwide leader's plan spanning njmerous leaderparties in that "long time" to... What?
Or am I misunderstanding

StormShadow · 06/06/2023 12:01

SunnyEgg · 06/06/2023 11:56

Well you’ve only mentioned one country. And I’ve mentioned various factors so yes I stand by it.

No, I've mentioned two. The same as you, I think. England, which had a totally rudderless left and a lockdown imposed by a right wing government is the other. There are of course many more countries than either of us have mentioned: ROI, Russia and India are all examples of right wing governments that imposed lockdowns. There are left wing ones too, of course.

Ultimately, if you want to prove lockdown support was a left wing not a right wing thing, you're going to have to do a lot more than you have.

Hell121 · 06/06/2023 12:02

Nope @Fightyouforthatpie and I’ve explained why upthread. Would you ask the same question of someone posting a “do you regret voting for brexit” thread?

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Soontobe60 · 06/06/2023 12:02

SamW98 · 06/06/2023 10:05

I also had one like this who posted nasty comments about anyone who dared to leave their house. And if anyone challenged her she cried ‘bullying’

She even made anonymous calls reporting mutual friends - though made them from her own phone so was found out very quickly.

Ivd seen her since and she totally blanks those of us who didn’t share her OTT views - oh well

Found out by whom?

justteanbiscuits · 06/06/2023 12:04

Swrigh1234 · 06/06/2023 11:53

The fact that there are still people defending lockdowns, even after everything that’s out in the open, shows that there is no shortage of stupid. And to think that these people have the vote.

Aren't you a fucking delight.

PonkyPonky · 06/06/2023 12:05

taxguru · 06/06/2023 11:27

Trouble is that lots of people wouldn't have bothered social distancing. I remember when Boris announced on a Friday that pubs would have to close that day. Our village pub was absolutely rammed with people wanting "a last drink" before it was closed for an unknown number of weeks. People were queuing outside and drinking on the street, so much so, that the police had to come and instruct the pub to close as the drinkers were blocking traffic on the road! Those who did that, i.e. choosing to go into a crowded pub when they knew we had a pandemic were just plain stupid. Unfortunately, legal lockdowns/restrictions were needed to stop that kind of stupid behaviour.

Likewise, on the day our village primary school had to close, the headmaster got all pupils, staff, teachers, etc into the school hall for a final assembly. They even put up pictures on social media. Of literally 300 kids, and a couple of dozen staff, all crammed into a small school hall, standing room only, and the pictures showed the doors were closed too! Just what planet was the headmaster on for doing that when he knew schools we being closed to stop the spread of a contagious disease!

Sadly, you can't fix stupid, so you do need laws and restrictions.

But none of those things would have happened without a pre lockdown panic. People wouldn’t have rushed to the pub, people wouldn’t have crammed onto trains and planes to get to loved ones. People wouldn’t have piled into care home for one last visit. There wouldn’t have been the mass craziness in supermarkets. Of course there would be a large number of people who wouldn’t do common sense at all. But most would have made slight adjustments and everything could have been fine.

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