My boyfriend plays cricket every week, I’ll go and watch him most Saturdays depending on the weather lol.
I’ve been going through a bit of a hard time recently and I’ve been worried he’s going to go off me because of it; but he promises he hasn’t.
Today, I go to watch and I can’t find the ground anywhere. His team were batting but he wasn’t in yet, so I tried to ring him a few times and left a message as I was panicking and couldn’t find the entrance.
Anyway, I find it and get there fine. He went in to bat, got out and came back. I made a joke about how I went to go hug him before he went into bat, and he didn’t hug me back. He said sorry, he didn’t see me. He made a joke about “well it’s breaking superstition, I did well last week and didn’t hug you”. But he didn’t say it in a joke way, so I said “are you serious?”
He told me to calm down, it was a joke, then said I “am beginning to stress him out on a Saturday”. He has a game to focus on, he wants to concentrate on that, he can’t put full focus into the game if I’m nit picking him.
He also said seeing his phone to loads of missed calls and messages when I was lost, he “can’t be doing with”. I said it’s because I got lost, and he said “but you’re not understanding that I am playing cricket and am focusing on that”. He said I should have known he wouldn’t have his phone on him, and I could’ve rung someone else.
I must mention that he is captain and does need to keep an eye on the game.
Am I being harsh or is he being unfair?