Said cat is a 15 year old female house cat.
We saw a vet in November of last year for her chronic diarrhea. After £100s spent on tests, they came back clear. We tried pastes and food and worming tablets.
I had to really push for my partner to make the appointment, because she is his.
Fast forward 7 months. Our cat still has chronic accidents on a nearly hourly basis. She leaks when she sleeps and our carpet is covered in stains. She is skin and bone despite being fed four times per day and she no longer cleans herself so we're having to. She doesnt play or run or do anything other than sleep, poo, and eat. She has four trays and is never more than 5 feet away from a tray.
This has taken a toll on me, im not going to lie. My days have been taken over by cleaning up poo, and I feel my partner is just willing to let her go on until she passes.
He thinks she is just old and that this is normal, but I'm thinking it surely cannot be?
I don't know how to bring up euthanasia without sounding callous, but to me, she has no quality of life.
Would I be speaking out of turn by asking this?