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Sick of some Cornish people bleating on as though they are the worlds only tourist destination

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Endlesssummer2022 · 29/05/2023 19:12

Just read the article below and found a few gems such as these:

’ have you ever wondered where the local people live? Or have you noticed that many of your holiday neighbours are recognisable in the narrow lanes of the pretty fishing villages because they are the same people you live near in London?’

and…

‘Despite what you may have read, we Cornish do welcome visitors and are happy to share our love of our land with you. But it might help if you do a bit of research – Cornwall is fiercely independent and has a proud and unique history and heritage…* *And try not to be rude to local people. If you’ve been asked to not drink from a glass bottle on the beach, there is a reason for that. Don’t forget to tip waiting staff. ‘

What patronising bollocks. So Londoner’s (as those are apparently the only people who visit Cornwall) are so untraveled and boorish we need to be told not to be rude to people, pay tips, not to smash glass bottles in sand, that we’ve bought all of their houses, that it’s ‘their’ land and we’re the ones who are rude?

I’d already decided I wouldn’t go back there after how some of them carried on during Covid but this article has pissed me off. Why would anyone go there when they can go to equally lovely places in the UK/World and not be treated with contempt?

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2023/may/29/welcome-to-cornwall-please-dont-ruin-it-for-us-local-people

Welcome to Cornwall! Please don’t ruin it for us local people | Natasha Carthew

A little consideration can mean a happy holiday season for everyone, says author Natasha Carthew

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2023/may/29/welcome-to-cornwall-please-dont-ruin-it-for-us-local-people

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ThisNameIsNotAvailable · 29/05/2023 21:11

Having lived in Cornwall for a short while, and a number of other tourist destinations at other times I totally agree OP.

It’s an unfriendly place, tourists are judged by the behaviour of the odd few and there is a sense of superiority which comes from many of the people who live there permanently. Those who were friendly and open were certainly in the minority.

Much moreso than any of the other places I’ve lived.

NoTouch · 29/05/2023 21:11

There are some places in the UK where tourism levels during peak periods are now too high and impacting locals. The Scottish islands and Edinburgh also have the same problems with over crowding in tourist seasons. Some people are making money from it but for your average local, entitled tourists in holiday mode make day to day life very unpleasant.

Saz12 · 29/05/2023 21:13

The problems arent unique to Cornwall - try anywhere pretty in Scotland. People just genuinely dont appear to understand the concept of common decency, basic hygeine, etc. If you understand that youre supposed to clean up after your dog, why is it a leap to clean up your own shit? Literally. Privacy, courtesy, personal safety.... nah, youre on holiday so don't bother.
3 non-swimming kids and one drunk adult on an inflatable paddle board without life jackets on a large loch, what cokld wrong? Someone will help uf you get stuck.
Fancy hillwalking in flip flops, no map, no clue, no waterproof or warm layers? Just call mountain rescue if you get tired at 8pm.
Want to take photos en route? Hold your phone out the drivers side car window and snap away,.

UnRavellingFast · 29/05/2023 21:14

The villages on the coast in Cornwall are pretty. The interior is quite depressing, very miserable looking villages etc. it’s really not all that. I wouldn’t waste my holiday pennies on such an overpriced place. And now we know the locals hate visitors so much, definitely not! I wonder what their other sources of income are, apart from tourism?

Arewehumanorarewecupboards · 29/05/2023 21:15

In the same way that all tourists aren’t the devil not all Cornish are bad. Some of us are quite nice and welcoming. Please don’t assume that we are all unfriendly and rude!

Yes it’s busier in summer but you allow extra time, yes the shops are busier but you just go elsewhere (Bodmin Asda for example does not attract tourists but I would avoid Newquay, Wadebridge, Helston etc), if the beaches are ‘too busy’ you go to the less popular ones, if you see rubbish you pick it up and don’t assume that it’s a tourist!

I love that people obviously like the place enough to come on holiday, it makes me appreciate where I live. If I didn’t live here I would holiday here.

WordsandSentences · 29/05/2023 21:16

Seashor · 29/05/2023 19:40

They’ve got a point though haven’t they. People actually DO need it spelling out . The English on holiday are just awful whether they are in Cornwall or anywhere else in the world and it’s bloody embarrassing.

The sort of people that need it spelling out are immune to things being spelt out.

fliptopbin · 29/05/2023 21:16

All I can say to those complaining about tourists is, try living anywhere near York!

Teddypops · 29/05/2023 21:18

UnRavellingFast · 29/05/2023 21:14

The villages on the coast in Cornwall are pretty. The interior is quite depressing, very miserable looking villages etc. it’s really not all that. I wouldn’t waste my holiday pennies on such an overpriced place. And now we know the locals hate visitors so much, definitely not! I wonder what their other sources of income are, apart from tourism?

Cornwall is rife with successful small businesses. National companies don't do that well down here and so therefore smaller businesses thrive.

WestwardHo1 · 29/05/2023 21:18

Yes but then you get this at your local beach.

This doesn't happen in the winter.

Sick of some Cornish people bleating on as though they are the worlds only tourist destination
Tegrate · 29/05/2023 21:19

NoTouch · 29/05/2023 21:11

There are some places in the UK where tourism levels during peak periods are now too high and impacting locals. The Scottish islands and Edinburgh also have the same problems with over crowding in tourist seasons. Some people are making money from it but for your average local, entitled tourists in holiday mode make day to day life very unpleasant.

Londoners put up with it all the time - they maybe don't do enough public whinging though!

PoppyTries · 29/05/2023 21:19

Tr1skel1on · 29/05/2023 20:25

Makes me realise how lucky we are to have the TT. Our island population increases by 50 per cent this time of year. I have never had to deal with the kind of stuff previous posters have mentioned, I'm not a biker but our TT fans are great, a real asset to our island and wouldn't dream of causing the havok that is happening in Cornwall

Spent a week on your island with my mum, all the locals were absolutely lovely! We were not there during the TT, but I promise we behaved and did not litter.

Heliotroper · 29/05/2023 21:19

The guy comes across as very small minded and parochial. Does he realise that vast numbers of Londoners can no longer afford to buy houses where they grew up? He has a warped view that all visitors are absurdly rich and out to buy houses, most just want a cheap holiday and not to have it ruined by chippy locals

1dayatatime · 29/05/2023 21:20

Just to clear up a few myths:
"Cornwall is dependent on tourism "
tourism in the UK contributes 9% of GDP whereas in Cornwall it is 12%.

On jobs yes 20% of jobs are in tourism but these are seasonal jobs. Compared to 12% working in the food processing industry and and 5% in agriculture which are year round jobs.

"It was the greedy locals who sold the houses to the second home owners " - well if you are lucky enough to own your own home in Cornwall and want to move then you need to sell it for the best price in order to afford the new home. In cases where a property is sold on probate then the executors of the will are under a legal obligation to get the best price for it.

The offensive descriptions and labelling of Cornish people in this post were they applied to any other national minority in the UK would rightly be called out as xenophobic or racist.

4 million tourists visit Cornwall each year (mostly in the summer and mostly English) which has a population of 560k so yes it does feel crowded.

Freeballing · 29/05/2023 21:21

Sallyh87 · 29/05/2023 21:02

It’s a weird attitude, I grew up in a seaside touristy town in Ireland (Tramore if anyone cares). Tourism provided me and all my siblings with summer / weekend jobs from the age of 15. It provided jobs year for some of my colleagues. Yes some tourist customers were rude but some customers are always rude!

I think the Cornish people shouldn’t bite the hand that’s feeding them!

Also, only the Americans ever really tipped 😂

I grew up in a tourist spot in Ireland too. I don't recall people shitting everywhere and leaving rubbish everywhere and acting like arseholes though. Some of the behavior mentioned on this thread is really awful. Ireland is really 'cliste' when it comes to tourists though, we know how to schmooze them and live up to that land of 1000 welcomes. Also there was a bit of attitude towards the Jackeens with the second homes rather than the foreign tourists that everyone would fawn over and I think that echos the attitude towards Londoners being mentioned on this thread.

DdraigGoch · 29/05/2023 21:21

Croissantsandpistachio · 29/05/2023 19:44

I really confuse people because I'm born and bred Cornish but have lived in London for 20 years and am just as much of a Londoner these days. People behave like idiots when they come to London too. Plenty of Cornish have sold their house to the highest bidder.

The blame has to (mostly) lie with Cornwall council who have totally failed to introduce any progressive taxation on holiday homes and tourism which leaves the locals struggling with a total lack of infrastructure. It is completely beyond me why they haven't levied a tourist tax.

Do they have the power to?

Paperlate · 29/05/2023 21:21

Cornwall is not cheap though. It's a rip off mostly.

Heliotroper · 29/05/2023 21:21

fliptopbin · 29/05/2023 21:16

All I can say to those complaining about tourists is, try living anywhere near York!

I had a friend in London who was always moaning about tourists, I told him it was better than living somewhere rubbish that nobody wanted to visit.

Livelovebehappy · 29/05/2023 21:22

Gingerwright · 29/05/2023 19:23

Can't speak for Cornwall, but I'm from an unfortunately pretty place in the Scottish Highlands. Regrettably, tourists do need to be told how to behave. Normal decent people must turn into selfish careless horrors while o. holiday!
Just this week I would have liked to tell tourists not to kill me with their cars, urinate against the wall of the local shop whilst 50feet from the public toilets, park on the pavement, park horizontally across the main A road (blocking both directions for ten minutes), etc etc. I could go on.
The tourists we used to get here were nice and I liked them, but something has gone very wrong with the attitude of a good number of them in the last few years. I sympathize with the Cornish.

And how do you know that the person urinating against the shop, or the pavement Parker is a tourist? Surely you’re not saying that all the locals are well behaved all of the time? Don’t you have any dickheads living amongst you? Any wayward teens, trouble makers?

Paq · 29/05/2023 21:22

@TheFleetFoxes it's a bit more nuanced than that. The "incomers" don't understand how they are affecting the local community and some of the locals are trying to ignore the inevitable changes to their village/life.

But MN threads don't require so nuance.

gogohmm · 29/05/2023 21:22

I'm in another (less prestigious) tourist area and tourist s littering does my head in, the beach 10 miles south of us could be an amazing affordable place for families to holiday but it's filthy, so much litter that it's wherever you look on the sand. You couldn't let a child play with the sand safely

Paq · 29/05/2023 21:22

*do

Lordofmyflies · 29/05/2023 21:22

People can be dicks - especially on Holiday when they 'switch off'. They perhaps do things that they wouldn't at home, like litter, park arrogantly, drive recklessly and drink too much. Unfortunately, as a tourist destination, Cornwall has a higher proportion of visiting Dicks which annoy locals.

This is in a County with ridiculous property prices, congestion, expensive services, poor infrastructure and the lowest wages in UK. It can cause resentment and conflict of interests. People just need to be considerate and realise that Cornwall is not an amusement park but workplace and home to some.

Lolaandbehold · 29/05/2023 21:23

Lots of tourists in London. More than Cornwall. We don't treat them all like shit. "Non-locals" buy up a considerable amount of the real estate, pricing out "locals". We don't actively despise them.

Having said that, I've only been to Cornwall twice (Fowey and Padstow) and found it to be lovely and don't recall the locals being rude. Friends of mine bought a place in Fowey and have had a slightly different experience from some residents.

Croissantsandpistachio · 29/05/2023 21:23

Haha @ShakeYourFeathers they definitely do walk in the middle of the road in London (also standing on the left on the escalator). There are also plenty of people who come to London on a night out or stag who wee everywhere.

I'm Cornish expatriated to London- both have their issues. Most Londoners can't afford to buy houses where they grew up either. It drives me mad when I go home to Cornwall to be told 'Londoners are like this'- I know it's a convenient shorthand for 'not from here' but I find it deeply rude. Cornwall gets the local politicians it votes for- a better local authority could tackle loads of the issues by progressive taxation and investment in infrastructure.

gogohmm · 29/05/2023 21:24

@CanofCant don't get me started on tides! The poor lifeboat crew are rescuing people who wouldn't have had an issue if they simply checked

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