On line guy closing off conversation for weekend.

[itsonlylove]

He is separated. Sees his kids every weekend for the whole weekend and just told me that he goes off grid every weekend despite is chatting all week long .
He doesn't live near where he works so travels a considerable difference to see them each weekend.
I feel insulted despite knowing how busy he is at weekends etc
What would you advise me to say?
How do I respond to that?

I don’t think he’s been truthful with you

He talks to you on his work phone that gets turned off and shut in a drawer over the weekend when he is with his wife and kids playing happy families.

Definitely still married.....i would cut him off

When you meet someone you think is great you get your act together so you don't lose them.

Liars and assholes always have complicated arrangements with their "ex" have a sad bollocks story about why the situation isn't sorted or can't be sorted and expect you to fit in or put up with this shit.

Move on.

A handsome, tall , fit forty something engineer .
From your other thread about this, you have only been in contact with this man this week, you haven't even seen a photo of him so you have no idea if any of what he told you is true. Who on earth describes themselves as handsome?!

Ireland may be a village (I am Irish) but you will come across as a weird stalker if you start hunting down his wife based on a couple of online conversations.

He 'works away' I am guessing?