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Married colleague bragging about cheating on his wife

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Zipa · 23/05/2023 16:19

My senior colleague (senior to me job wise and also 10 years older) has been telling me that he's planning on meeting up with someone for sex next weekend. Says he's done it before too.

I do not know why he's told me this, he's always been a bit flirty/ inappropriate toward me but I just brush it off because I'm used to it and I don't want any negative consequences at work. He could make life very difficult for me.

My problem is (apart from not wanting to know about this!!) that he is married with 3yr old twins. I'm friends with him on Facebook and see all these lovey dovey posts from his wife saying how great he is.

I feel extremely guilty that I know what he's up to and she has no clue. I know I should probably stay out of it but I can't stop thinking about her. If it was me I'd want to know.

What would you do?

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Fandabedodgy · 25/05/2023 00:03

I'd go to HR.

No need to be having to listen to his sexual exploits in the office. It's a form of sexual harassment and it's completely inappropriate

lljkk · 25/05/2023 06:42

Wotta total creep.

I have a "no work colleagues" policy on my Facebook friend list.
My 1st thought was to unfriend him on FBk, and tell him he's outrageous to give you this bombshell info. why the hell did he do that?

If you can't face confrontation, I'd still be job hunting. Wotta total wanker.

Sigmama · 25/05/2023 07:28

Tell his wife

MrsElijahMikaelson1 · 25/05/2023 07:32

I’d set up a fake account on Facebook and message his wife about where he will be in the weekend and who he will be with ; she can see for herself then

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