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What things that were little luxuries when you were a child are now big luxuries due to cost of living?

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Holdontightly · 19/05/2023 01:07

When I was little, things like cinema tickets, or swimming lessons or owning a dog or cat were fairly routine parts of childhood. Most kids in my bog standard state school had treats on this level, cost wise - obviously there have always been a group of people that can't stretch to any of these treats, but it was much more unusual. They seemed very affordable.

Nowadays, all of these things seem vastly more expensive relatively speaking, imo.

Is there any stuff like this you have thought of?

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ThePersistenceOfMammories · 19/05/2023 18:49

I used to get £5 a week pocket money on a Saturday in the early 90s.
we’d buy a 1 day bus pass, go to the cinema and get a junior special from the chicken shop and that was all our money gone!

the bus fare now is more than the £5.

I remember being excited about getting new back to school bag/lunchbox/pencil case etc every September. It couldn’t have been a huge deal money wise - my mum was a single parent of 4 kids and we all got them as an extra, without going without anything else. I also have 4 kids and I had to dip into savings last year to replace theirs.

MummaHIB · 19/05/2023 18:49

@SisterWivesrus not in every shop, no.

Okunevo · 19/05/2023 18:52

SisterWivesrus · 19/05/2023 18:48

Digestive biscuits are not £5.60 a packet.

Chocolate digestives are 85p in Tesco

snowbellsxox · 19/05/2023 18:52

I do more now than what my parents could afford
Not so much cinema as my kids are 4 & 1 but sea sides, holidays, soft plays, aquariums, zoos etc
But my parents rented then saved for a house, they let us live with them for a couple of years pre baby to save up ££££.
If you're renting trying to save for a house must be hard or single parents all depends on circumstances.

snowbellsxox · 19/05/2023 18:52

And costs obviously it's ridiculous now!

GeraltsBathtub · 19/05/2023 18:52

MummaHIB · 19/05/2023 18:44

Not even a pisstake, something as simple as fredos, the chocolate. The price of it now is a joke, even a packet of digestives at my tender age, £5.60!

Was that in Harrods? Even for branded ones at Waitrose they’re only £1.60…

Lagershandy · 19/05/2023 18:54

wildfirewonder · 19/05/2023 18:08

A house Sad

I remember going out to the icecream van for a pretty small icecream, that seemed to be not a big deal. Loved hearing the tune Smile

As a child in the 60's I remember standing at the ice cream van and one our neighbours brought a dish and handed it to the ice cream man. The dish was then filled with ice cream, and our neighbour took it back home.
A whole dish of ice cream!!! Obviously it was to be shared with all the family, but that envy has never left me. I could buy my own ice cream van now, but as a child from a large family with no money to spare that full dish seemed so luxurious.

JemimaTiggywinkles · 19/05/2023 18:54

In my childhood the cinema (well, "the pictures" as my parents called it) were a treat - mostly for birthdays. Eating out as a family was very unusual, and I still see it as a treat now I'm an adult. We'd get a takeaway about once per month (almost always fish and chips) and a chocolate bar was twice per week. Snacks were generally not available but we did have yoghurts for dessert most days. We didn't have much money, but we weren't unusual in my state school. I was born mid 80s.

By comparison, when my younger siblings were older children / teens (born early 90s) cinema, chocolate bars, takeaway and eating out were much more ordinary. Again, they were normal amongst their peers.

I think there was a period from the mid 99s to late 2000s where prices of non-essentials were much lower than they were before or since. Or maybe food was cheap so non-essentials were more affordable.

Sissynova · 19/05/2023 18:56

I can’t think of an anything that works for. I’m the 90s going to the cinema was a rare treat. It was even rarer to be allowed drinks or food from the cinema! We used to go to the corner shop and get a 50p mixup and take it in.
If we had a day out at the zoo we always brought food.
We ate out but it was definitely a rare event for a treat/ special occasion.
I think proportionally things were at least just as expensive if not more.

Bohemond · 19/05/2023 18:57

budgiegirl · 19/05/2023 17:59

Most of the things my children did growing up over the last 20 years on a fairly regular basis (cinema, soft play, funfairs, day trips out, meals out) were definitely considered a luxury when I was little, growing up in the 70s and early 80s.

We probably went to the cinema once or twice a year, the fair for one afternoon in the summer holidays, there was no soft play, day trips were very rare, and a meal out was probably a couple of times a year. A trip to the Little Chef when on a car journey was so exciting! A Berni Inn was considered a huge treat. We were a fairly comfortable middle class family, and did more than a lot of my friends.

But I do think that things that I was able to afford for my children have now become very expensive. Eating out and takeaways have become so very expensive for what you get, that we just don't do it as often anymore

We are the same vintage. The Berni Inn was the epitome of luxury. Things like children’s clothes, stationery and toys were relatively so much more expensive in the 70s and early 80s than they are today. Supermarkets only sold food and a very limited range at that - orange or lemon squash only, Ribena if your parents were feeling flush!

BonesBrennanz · 19/05/2023 18:59

As a 90s child I didn’t go to the cinema till my teens when I chose to spend my pocket money on it. We ate out once a year and that was a chippy tea during our once a year seaside holiday.
My children don’t know they’re born, constant cake and soft drinks in cafes, loads of uk holidays and the odd one abroad each year.
The only thing my parents afforded that I can’t is a large house in the country with land. Our house is pokey in comparison and we all share one bathroom.

Sgtmajormummy · 19/05/2023 18:59

Comics, newspapers and magazines have certainly disappeared off the affordable list, whereas I got Twinkle, then Jackie, Smash Hits, Just 17, Cosmo, Prima, Good Housekeeping well into my 30s.
Now I just avert my gaze…

musixa · 19/05/2023 19:02

usernother · 19/05/2023 18:38

18 quid!! Ours is a tenner and I think that's bad. When I was a child going to the cinema was a massive treat and we hardly ever went.

Ours is £7.99 for a standard seat, £4.99 for a seat with a crap view and £10.99 for a VIP seat - larger and with best view. DH and I go maybe 3 or 4 times a year. We're not bothered about buying food and drink there so £16 - £20 for the two of us is affordable as an occasional pleasure.

Sissynova · 19/05/2023 19:02

MummaHIB · 19/05/2023 18:49

@SisterWivesrus not in every shop, no.

I honestly don’t believe chocolate digestives are £5.6 is any shop.

A Freddo was 10p in the 90s and is 25p now. Hardly unaffordable. The rise is near enough just exactly in line with inflation between 1995 and now.

strawberriesarenot · 19/05/2023 19:02

All the treats you mention were beyond us as a child. I remember 1 cinema trip, no meals out, 2 or 3 uk holidays. A budgie was the pet. Treats were days out at the seaside (with picnic) but bought ice cream. (Never the chocolate heart on a stick!), cream buns from the bakers, Brownie pack holiday was the most exciting thing ever.
We were pretty standard kids, I don't think anyone had much to spend.

I think it all swung too high, flights abroad shouldn't be cheap, for instance- the environmental aspect should make them rare. Small cars should be much more the norm, as they are in lots of European countries. I think we in the UK got very greedy and took too much for granted. I don't want the ability to have treats half as much as I want a decent government, clean rivers and beaches, and affordable housing. Because as far as I remember, we did have that.

LadyatLady · 19/05/2023 19:05

Cinema was a huge deal and I didn’t have swimming lessons. I remember having a friend who did dance lessons and really wishing I could do them. In fact my parents couldn’t afford any clubs. It’s sad thinking back on it as I see how much is out there for kids.

I went to the cinema once or twice in my entire childhood.

caringcarer · 19/05/2023 19:05

My family was not well off at all but my Mum cooked from scratch every day except Saturday when she shopped and bought fish and chips for herself, my Dad and 5 dc. It was cheap in those days now a portion of fish and chips cost £15. So today it would cost £105 pounds.

Gistbury · 19/05/2023 19:06

Going on holiday to a caravan park

Dodgeitornot · 19/05/2023 19:07

Cinema is cheaper now than when I was a kid tbh. Our local Vue does tickets for £5.99 everyday for everyone.
Swimming was practically free when I was a child. You could be at the pool all day in the half terms and summer holidays for £1. It's so expensive now for a short slot.
We're lucky that our local swimming club does lessons fairly cheaply, but I imagine that's not common.

musixa · 19/05/2023 19:07

Sissynova · 19/05/2023 19:02

I honestly don’t believe chocolate digestives are £5.6 is any shop.

A Freddo was 10p in the 90s and is 25p now. Hardly unaffordable. The rise is near enough just exactly in line with inflation between 1995 and now.

They're nowhere near that in Tesco.

What things that were little luxuries when you were a child are now big luxuries due to cost of living?
Bohemond · 19/05/2023 19:09

And we are all alcoholics now as you can pile wine and beer into your trolley and push it through the self checkout rather than having to go to a pub or your local off licence. My parents rarely drank as they wouldn’t have wanted anyone in the village to count the bottles.

Hungryfrogs23 · 19/05/2023 19:09

Kids magazines. We could get a comic/magazine for about 30-50p as kids.
Now they are £5?!!!

Bananas2 · 19/05/2023 19:11

For me I feel its the opposite (although the cinema is blooming expensive now) - all our holidays were to the caravan and now they're all luxury cottages or abroad, I probably only went to the theatre a couple of times through my whole childhood and now I go a few times a year, we only went out on special birthdays and if we did it would just be a cheap pub where now we eat out typically once or twice a week. Part of it is probably wage related as my parents weren't well off (I'm not either but comfortable), but I also think it just wasn't the done the thing where I'm from (working class north west mining town)

Madlymumming · 19/05/2023 19:11

Holidays! We were a family of 4 children born in the 50s and 60s, and every year we had a seaside holiday. Even staying in a hotel and travelling by taxi. Or renting a holiday home.

Always to Broadstairs or similar. We lived in Kent.

Dad wasn't in a well paid job at all but Mum always managed a 2 week holiday for us all.

Not a cheap option these days unless maybe camping or out of season.

RancidOldHag · 19/05/2023 19:11

I think it all swung too high, flights abroad shouldn't be cheap, for instance- the environmental aspect should make them rare. Small cars should be much more the norm, as they are in lots of European countries. I think we in the UK got very greedy and took too much for granted

Agree - holidays in the UK were cheap, and are now often a more expensive option. Nowadays abroad is cheap.

Which is wrecking the planet - as is the relative cost of driving v taking a train (rail travel having shot up in price)