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What things that were little luxuries when you were a child are now big luxuries due to cost of living?

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Holdontightly · 19/05/2023 01:07

When I was little, things like cinema tickets, or swimming lessons or owning a dog or cat were fairly routine parts of childhood. Most kids in my bog standard state school had treats on this level, cost wise - obviously there have always been a group of people that can't stretch to any of these treats, but it was much more unusual. They seemed very affordable.

Nowadays, all of these things seem vastly more expensive relatively speaking, imo.

Is there any stuff like this you have thought of?

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SisterWivesrus · 19/05/2023 18:24

Nothing that I could attribute to the cost of living crisis.

Lots of things that just got more expensive over time, as a lot of things do.

Holdontightly · 19/05/2023 18:25

Okunevo · 19/05/2023 18:19

I'm the same age and we hardly ever went to the cinema, only a handful of times in primary school, it was a big thing.

We didn't have takeaways other than chips (no fish). I went to McDonald's for a birthday party.

Swimming lessons we did do, and Scouts and so on.

Maybe it's just different priorities.

Yeah I mean, of course it will all vary as to what somebody's interests are.

All my family enjoyed the cinema, none of us were sporty so that was a shared pastime. So I grew up going to the cinema regularly.

My 4th birthday was my mum taking me and my best friend to the cinema.

I didn't have any interest doing something like Scouts, so have no way of knowing but would the cost of the weekly fee and the uniform and trips away roughly even out with the cost of quite a few cinema trips? Or is it a much cheaper hobby?

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ColdHandsHotHead · 19/05/2023 18:29

I'm in my 60s. I went to the cinema a total of four times that I can count, in the first ten years of my life. I got lemonade once a month, there was no chippy nearby except for when we visited my grandma and the only time we ever ate out was on day trips to the seaside. I only went abroad once as a child and that was a school exchange trip. I'd say we're going back to that situation now.

AuntieJoyce · 19/05/2023 18:29

I think the cinema must be an age thing. I am a child of the 70s and we went to cinema nearly every week for kids Saturday matinee for 50p

5foot5 · 19/05/2023 18:30

Cantrushart · 19/05/2023 17:54

Most of my experience is the other way round. Eating out, going abroad, electrical goods - generally unattainable luxuries in my childhood. Alcohol was more expensive, but I guess cigarettes were cheaper.

So smoking. That's now a big luxury.

Same here.
I was born in the early 1960s and my parents were not well off. Only one wage, which was normal then,and three children in the family.

Cinema trips were very rare. I could probably count on one hand the number of times I went while primary school age. We had one week holiday a year, always in the UK. Eating out almost never, apart from perhaps a snack in a cafe. I always longed to be able to buy more books so getting a book token was a luxury.

Rightnowstraightaway · 19/05/2023 18:30

I'd say cinemas changed around the turn of the millennium in my area. That's when a huge multiplex cinema opened and put the local small cinema out of business. I was really sad about it, because the new one charged twice as much.

PetitPorpoise · 19/05/2023 18:32

Definitely a Sunday Roast, especially roast beef. I never enjoyed it as my mum always made it quite dry, but I'd never buy a joint of beef for my family now. We sometimes do a chicken but it's not too worth it for all the faff and different components.

countrygirl99 · 19/05/2023 18:33

UnaLaguna · 19/05/2023 01:30

How old are you?

Going to the cinema was a huge deal when I was a kid, I probably went less than 10 times in total throughout my childhood.

Soft play didn't exist so wasn't a weekend or after school activity.

Eating out was a rare occasion.

Same here. Eating out was rare and something like the BHS restaurant. My parents would go out for a curry for their wedding anniversary and a Wimpy for a burger ora takeaway would be a birthday treat only.

midgemadgemodge · 19/05/2023 18:34

AuntieJoyce · 19/05/2023 18:29

I think the cinema must be an age thing. I am a child of the 70s and we went to cinema nearly every week for kids Saturday matinee for 50p

I suspect t I am similar age and we certainly didn't do cinema yearly !

I suspect that there will be a huge variation - and you probably lived in a similar community so none of us are really aware of the average / norm for the country when we were children

MintJulia · 19/05/2023 18:36

Nothing. My parents were very low income. We have a much better standard of living now. DS is much better provided for. 🙂

SisterWivesrus · 19/05/2023 18:36

AuntieJoyce · 19/05/2023 18:29

I think the cinema must be an age thing. I am a child of the 70s and we went to cinema nearly every week for kids Saturday matinee for 50p

And with the advent of home video players, video rental and then satellite TV and then streaming services, cinemas became less popular, loads shut down and the ones that didn't had to charge more to cover their overheads.

Cinema prices have been high for years because of that. It's not a result of the cost of living crisis.

WellTidy · 19/05/2023 18:37

I was thinking earlier about the coat of renting videos when I was a kid in the 1980s. We used to rent a grown up film and a children’s film for the weekend most weekends. I’m pretty sure they were £1.99 each, so £4 in total. That would be £16 for the month, for eight films. Allowing for inflation, and compared to an annual Netflix subscription, or Amazon prime subscription, that would have been really expensive. Obviously you’d need Wi-Fi on top.

No doubt that many, many other things are a great deal more though.

riotlady · 19/05/2023 18:37

I’m 30, my local cinema used to be £3.50 “off peak” which was just over an hours wages for me when I was 14/15 so very affordable, we used to go quite often after school. Mind you the concept of having every Disney film ever made at my fingertips for £7 a month would have blown my mind so swings and roundabouts I suppose!

usernother · 19/05/2023 18:38

MrsRinaDecker · 19/05/2023 17:44

Our local cinema is £18 per ticket for adults (which includes dc if age 15 and up)! I only go on a Tuesday / Wednesday now when I can buy one get one free with meerkat movies. McDonald’s isn’t such a cheap treat anymore either.

18 quid!! Ours is a tenner and I think that's bad. When I was a child going to the cinema was a massive treat and we hardly ever went.

Okunevo · 19/05/2023 18:39

Holdontightly · 19/05/2023 18:25

Yeah I mean, of course it will all vary as to what somebody's interests are.

All my family enjoyed the cinema, none of us were sporty so that was a shared pastime. So I grew up going to the cinema regularly.

My 4th birthday was my mum taking me and my best friend to the cinema.

I didn't have any interest doing something like Scouts, so have no way of knowing but would the cost of the weekly fee and the uniform and trips away roughly even out with the cost of quite a few cinema trips? Or is it a much cheaper hobby?

I wouldn't compare Scouts to the cinema, as it teaches so many skills. I don't know what fees were then, I was paying £30 a term, so £90 a year for DS five years ago. Second hand uniform shirt. Camping gear he already had. DS isn't very sporty at all, which is why he did Scouts not a sport.

Swimming was seen as an essential skill and sacrifices would be made to afford it.

wildfirewonder · 19/05/2023 18:40

DontForgetToBreathe · 19/05/2023 18:18

Is it just me or was visiting family far away so much cheaper before?

Petrol was cheaper I'm sure.

Secondhand cars are apparently extremely expensive currently (someone was boring me rigid explaining why, I zoned out a bit).

PuttingDownRoots · 19/05/2023 18:42

I remember paying £1.50 a week for Guides 25 years ago.
Currently pay £35 a term for Scouts.

LysHastighed · 19/05/2023 18:43

It probably feels like that if your parents were quite middle class. Since mine definitely weren’t, and things like the cinema were not affordable for us in the 80s/90s, I feel better off now.

Hungryfrogs23 · 19/05/2023 18:43

Basic food shopping without having to choose cheaper options deliberately - my mum would fill one of the deep trolleys literally heaped full for under £100. Can't even fill a small shallow one for that now!

MummaHIB · 19/05/2023 18:44

Not even a pisstake, something as simple as fredos, the chocolate. The price of it now is a joke, even a packet of digestives at my tender age, £5.60!

RancidOldHag · 19/05/2023 18:46

Sunday roasts were bog standard on a Sunday but a beef roasting joint is so expensive now, so we have cheaper cuts instead

But it would feed a family for at least 3 days - roast on Sunday, cold sliced on Monday (possibly going in to sandwiches too), minced for Tuesday

Food shopping would not include anything like the amount of snacks, fizzy drinks, sweets, processed food in general, or out-of-season fruit/veg

bellocchild · 19/05/2023 18:46

This ages me...two cinema tickets and excellent Italian dinner for two in Soho for £5. Yes, really....

freelancefreda · 19/05/2023 18:47

UnaLaguna · 19/05/2023 01:30

How old are you?

Going to the cinema was a huge deal when I was a kid, I probably went less than 10 times in total throughout my childhood.

Soft play didn't exist so wasn't a weekend or after school activity.

Eating out was a rare occasion.

This.

SisterWivesrus · 19/05/2023 18:48

MummaHIB · 19/05/2023 18:44

Not even a pisstake, something as simple as fredos, the chocolate. The price of it now is a joke, even a packet of digestives at my tender age, £5.60!

Digestive biscuits are not £5.60 a packet.

RancidOldHag · 19/05/2023 18:49

wildfirewonder · 19/05/2023 18:40

Petrol was cheaper I'm sure.

Secondhand cars are apparently extremely expensive currently (someone was boring me rigid explaining why, I zoned out a bit).

Petrol shot up in price with the OPEC embargo 1973-74

I can remember the shock when it first went over £1 per gallon

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