Longer version:
I don’t mean to sound ungrateful; I know I’m lucky to get anything.
I’m grateful to have a wheelchair, it gives me mobility, but as soon as my shoulders, elbows, wrists, or hands give out, it no longer does.
DWP says it means I can travel on public transport, but even in good condition I can’t get myself to (or from) that transport because of where I live. That is discounted because “someone could take you and collect you.” The carer can’t, and there’s no one else to.
The pain in my pelvis, sciatica, and tight swollen legs, from being stuck in it for between 12 and 16 hours all day every day, is considered something that shouldn’t interfere with my capability. (it does)
Carer has 30 min slots including a lot on their paperwork, their need for conversation, and can’t attend at times that would support work or education, or do more than absolute minimum. (I don’t mean to be ungrateful)
My workstation (which has specialist equipment on – not disability related) can have two disability adjustments applied. One causes injury and difficulty to my arms and shoulders, the other means I can’t fit under it, working bent across myself to reach it, causes injury and pain to my back and pelvis. TBF their answer is to say I shouldn’t use workstation and must instruct another person rather than doing the work myself. But, I’m not good at that and IMO it makes me less employable if another person is needed for me to be able to work, but according to their ‘social model’ my problems are overcome, not their fault I’m not good at instructing others in doing my role for me. (The adjustment I want would be the right height workstation and able to do my own work, but 'adjustments have already been made.')
I could go on and on with examples, but wonder if others recognize this sort of situation, and get told it's all 'social model' led, or AIBU?