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Oh fuck I forgot to vote

104 replies

Icedlatteplease · 05/05/2023 00:30

Left home for work before 7am have s long commute and the car is messing up a previous back injury so came home exhausted and in pain.

I just completely and utterly forgot.

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ObfuscationWithMenaces · 05/05/2023 07:00

DisquietintheRanks · 05/05/2023 06:12

For the first time ever I decided not to vote. Couldn't bring myself to mark x for any of them. Sad.

It's as if women's sufferage never happened

AHulaHula · 05/05/2023 07:05

Same OP and I always vote. Was an work event, didn’t get back until late 😣

I always do postal vote and haven’t received anything in the post which is worrying. Luckily I vote Lib Dem and it’s a safe in my area so 🤞 but I need to understand what’s happened with poll cards.

Wrongsideofpennines · 05/05/2023 07:14

My dad used to tell us he didn't care who we voted for as long as we put a ballot paper in the box. He was a firm believer that people had fought for us to be able to vote and even if we put a blank ballot paper in it was better than ignoring it.

Obviously if you forgot then you forgot. The winning candidate last time in my area won by 16 votes so it was super close. Every vote counts!

Seymour5 · 05/05/2023 07:17

DisquietintheRanks · 05/05/2023 06:12

For the first time ever I decided not to vote. Couldn't bring myself to mark x for any of them. Sad.

Me too. Over fifty years of voting and I’ve never felt so disinclined.

PoseyFlump · 05/05/2023 07:19

Miscellaneousme · 05/05/2023 06:53

I grabbed DH passport instead of my own by accident after a nightmare of a work day and then didn’t have time to go back with the correct ID, so I’ve not voted for the first time ever.

I wonder which members of society are less likely to have a passport and how this might benefit the tories? 🤔

Theunamedcat · 05/05/2023 07:21

The last time I used a postal vote they registered it as fraudulent and didn't count it they sent me a letter to tell me this

blibblibs · 05/05/2023 07:23

We moved not long ago and I didn't receive a polling card. I could have gone back to my previous polling station to see if I was still registered there but somehow that seemed a bit wrong.
Today's job is making sure I'm registered correctly as I do not want to miss voting again, despite having no clue which shower of shite I would mark my X at.

Jolenetookmyman · 05/05/2023 07:24

ObfuscationWithMenaces · 05/05/2023 07:00

It's as if women's sufferage never happened

Utter Bullshit. Choosing not to vote because you don't like the candidates vs never having the opportunity to vote is completely different.

PsychoHotSauce · 05/05/2023 07:26

Seymour5 · 05/05/2023 07:17

Me too. Over fifty years of voting and I’ve never felt so disinclined.

Someone tried this emotional blackmail on me once. I politely told them that with the right to vote came the right to choose not to if all the candidates were an absolute shambles.

Men don't get pushed into spending part of their day spoiling their vote to make a point.

PsychoHotSauce · 05/05/2023 07:27

Sorry, wrong quote, was for @ObfuscationWithMenaces

Ostryga · 05/05/2023 07:35

PoseyFlump · 05/05/2023 07:19

I wonder which members of society are less likely to have a passport and how this might benefit the tories? 🤔

Well it’s not benefitting them today!

SisterMaryLoquacious · 05/05/2023 07:39

PsychoHotSauce · 05/05/2023 07:26

Someone tried this emotional blackmail on me once. I politely told them that with the right to vote came the right to choose not to if all the candidates were an absolute shambles.

Men don't get pushed into spending part of their day spoiling their vote to make a point.

I never hear anyone telling working class men this. The long and sometimes bloody struggle for the working class vote is completely forgotten in this country.

VisionsOfSplendour · 05/05/2023 07:46

PoseyFlump · 05/05/2023 07:19

I wonder which members of society are less likely to have a passport and how this might benefit the tories? 🤔

Just in case you think you need a passport to vote, you dont, there are lots of other acceptable ID things and you can apply for some kind of certificate too

I agree that it's can disenfranchise people but if the message isn't getting out its not only passports it needs to be better communicated

PsychoHotSauce · 05/05/2023 07:48

SisterMaryLoquacious · 05/05/2023 07:39

I never hear anyone telling working class men this. The long and sometimes bloody struggle for the working class vote is completely forgotten in this country.

I must add this one to my repertoire, thanks!

BettyfromBristol · 05/05/2023 07:57

A friend of ours has counted votes in the past. He says they do read them all.

I wrote a short essay on my ballot paper, DH used a short snappy sentence.

It's so frustrating that no party is worth voting for.

gazpachosoupday · 05/05/2023 07:58

If your choices were anything like mine, I wouldnt worry about it

HappilyContentTheseDays · 05/05/2023 07:59

I'm another person who has a postal vote for this very reason. And fortunately I did, because I had an interview in another part of the country yesterday and wouldn't have been able to go to a polling station even if I'd wanted to anyway.

redspottedmug · 05/05/2023 08:38

If your postal vote didn't arrive, why on earth would you wait until polling day to gripe about?
For future reference, you have until 5pm on polling day to arrange a replacement voter pack.

In my polling station the town hall officials actually delivered the replacement pack to the voter. Amazing service.

redspottedmug · 05/05/2023 08:40

Also you an arrange an emergency proxy if you are unexpectedly away eg for work or in hospital. The election team work tirelessly to enable everyone to vote. Saying 'I forgot' is pathetic IMO.

CodeBlue12 · 05/05/2023 08:45

ObfuscationWithMenaces · 05/05/2023 07:00

It's as if women's sufferage never happened

So because of womens suffrage women have no choice now? Not sure that's what they were fighting for but you do you 🤷‍♀️

FeeFiFoFumble · 05/05/2023 08:47

I wouldn't worry too much - 70% of people in my local area also "forgot" to vote 😅 Shockingly low turnout!

LadyKenya · 05/05/2023 08:48

ObfuscationWithMenaces · 05/05/2023 07:00

It's as if women's sufferage never happened

People have the right to choose whether they wish to vote, or not. They have a choice!

NyanBinaryJohn · 05/05/2023 09:17

I was unexpectedly not around to vote.

Not that I care much about my local area. For the town council my ward only had 2 labour and 2 Tory candidates. For the district council (or whatever it is called) those same four town council candidates, as well as two people from parties I have never heard of: Heritage Party and Reform UK, both of which appear to be the right wing populist kind.

So basically I vote labour and shit on women, or vote anything right wing and shit on those less fortunate and the NHS.

Icedlatteplease · 05/05/2023 09:21

ObfuscationWithMenaces · 05/05/2023 07:00

It's as if women's sufferage never happened

There is an argument that the right to vote also is the right to chose not to vote. Free country and all that

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Icedlatteplease · 05/05/2023 09:25

PoseyFlump · 05/05/2023 07:19

I wonder which members of society are less likely to have a passport and how this might benefit the tories? 🤔

Never made any sense to me that I could walk into a voting station say I was joanna bloggs down the road and noone could say otherwise. Also then if Joanne bloggs did turn up to vote later there would be bugger all you could do about it.

Photo id to vote just makes sense and should have been done years and years ago

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