Name changed for this post !
My ex DP and I have been in a situationship for numerous years, he's recently moved back to his parents house and stays with me on weekends which suits me.
During the last few years , he's been happy for us to live as a family we've helped each other out financially/emotionally but he's been sneakily (I don't have an issue with the for the record it's the lies that irritate me!) Sleeping with other women etc anyway we carried on as we were as I felt no point arguing as we weren't in a relationship
Anyway, fast forward to this week, there has been a huge shift in energy, messages left unread, no calls, I recognise these signs so under no illusion their is a new female on the seen again fine I'm not bothered
My AIBU is I have recently applied and been accepted for car finance for a vehicle for him (long story) and them sat me down on Saturday evening and proceeded to list every single thing I did in the past when we were together that he has now decided he is angry about and can't see past? My worry now is that if I go ahead with the replacement vehicle I will be shafted and left with the repayments at some point , so AIBU to cancel based on his behaviour towards me? Side note we also have DC so he said by having a vehicle he can see them more frequently