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to wonder why people are so horrible to cyclists that are not breaking the rules?

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DataColour · 30/04/2023 17:08

Even I get irate at cyclists who go through red lights, pedestrian crossings etc. But how about those that obey the road rules?

This afternoon, cycling with DS14 and DD12, one car honked us whilst overtaking. No reason, apart from the fact that they were delayed by a few seconds as they couldn't go past me within inches to spare. I was riding in the middle of the rode and DD to my left, which is perfectly within the rules.
Minutes later, a road which I always ride in the middle because, if even half a chance, vehicles will overtake without giving any space. A group of pedestrians, shout at us, saying "you should be riding behind each other, what's wrong with you?"??
WTAF???

Why are some people such twats? Luckily (or unlikely) my DCs are used to this, so weren't bothered. Some driver gave my DD (11 at the time) the finger whilst cycling to school. A grown man trying to get one up on a 11yr old girl.

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Devoutspoken · 01/05/2023 11:06

So you agree, it wasn't the cyclists who were the problem

curlywhirled · 01/05/2023 11:08

I'm a cyclist myself but when I'm in a car trapped behind them on a hilly windy road o really get the rage. I keep it inside though.

Still, when you live in an area like I do it's frustrating. I've been late for many a work appointment due to being stuck behind one slow cyclist on a country lane. At least tractors regularly pull over.

Devoutspoken · 01/05/2023 11:10

Reality25, just turning your flimsy argument back around, why are such dangerous vehicles allowed on the road? Should pedestrians get off the road too?

MockneyReject · 01/05/2023 11:11

Devoutspoken · 01/05/2023 11:06

So you agree, it wasn't the cyclists who were the problem

Eh?
When inconsiderate cyclists are holding everyone else up, yes, it's the inconsiderate cyclists who are the problem.

QuintanaRoo · 01/05/2023 11:13

MockneyReject · 01/05/2023 11:11

Eh?
When inconsiderate cyclists are holding everyone else up, yes, it's the inconsiderate cyclists who are the problem.

The less cars on the roads the less traffic jams there would be. 99.9% of the time if I’m held up driving it’s other cars holding me up

pfftt · 01/05/2023 11:13

Devoutspoken · 01/05/2023 11:10

Reality25, just turning your flimsy argument back around, why are such dangerous vehicles allowed on the road? Should pedestrians get off the road too?

Pedestrians walk on pavements not the road. They cross the road when it clear or at the lights. Or at least they should. If pedestrians were running around in the road in swarms some undertaking whilst others were overtaking and walking slowly whilst a backlog of traffic built up behind them then yeah, that wouldn't be ok

Xenia · 01/05/2023 11:15

The first post is not cyclists behaving well, is it? It is a road hogger who could indeed go near the curb rather than choose the middle, and even if it is lawful to go two by two that does not mean it is kind to drivers to do so.

QuintanaRoo · 01/05/2023 11:17

Xenia · 01/05/2023 11:15

The first post is not cyclists behaving well, is it? It is a road hogger who could indeed go near the curb rather than choose the middle, and even if it is lawful to go two by two that does not mean it is kind to drivers to do so.

Did you miss the bit where she said her young dd was on the inside?

did you miss all the posts explaining why the primary position is safer to discourage unsafe overtakes

sylvandweller · 01/05/2023 11:17

8810F · 01/05/2023 10:55

@sylvandweller

Something like 50% of car journeys are under two miles too.

You do like your data and statistics don't you?
It doesn't really matter how long people's car journeys are if we are playing the "everyone has the right to use the road" card. They have just as much right to be on the road as cyclists without being labelled as fat, lazy etc. You have no idea why people choose to drive this sort of distance and they don't need to offer you an explanation as it is their business.
On the topic of data and statistics, your claim of five cyclists a day being killed X 365 = 1825 each year. The government site states that the average PER YEAR is just over 100 about 109-111) at the last data collection point. This is still 109-111 too many as any amount of deaths is both tragic and horrific but if we are going to use data to add weight to a POV then it would be better for it not to be so misleading.

I said five people.

Data & Statistics are what good government policy (inc transport) should be based on.

Why do you think that more cycle lanes are being put in? Why do you think they're bringing in 15 min cities? Why do you think that so many cities are making their centres car-free?

Do you not think there might be a reason??

DataColour · 01/05/2023 11:17

I couldn't go near the curb even if I wanted to. There were parked cars there taking up half the road.

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DataColour · 01/05/2023 11:18

Yes DD was to my left too

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sylvandweller · 01/05/2023 11:19

DataColour · 01/05/2023 11:17

I couldn't go near the curb even if I wanted to. There were parked cars there taking up half the road.

People really do expect us to risk getting a door in the face so they can illegally overtake us.

That is reality.

sylvandweller · 01/05/2023 11:21

Actually, cyclists actually have more right to be on the road.

Drivers are there by revocable license.

Cyclists are there by right.

Americano75 · 01/05/2023 11:23

I love these threads because they remind me to have a bit more patience on the road. Sure, it's frustrating if you're in a hurry and you're 'stuck' behind a cyclist but you don't take it out on the cyclist!

DataColour · 01/05/2023 11:24

sylvandweller · 01/05/2023 11:19

People really do expect us to risk getting a door in the face so they can illegally overtake us.

That is reality.

I've been knocked off when a door opened on me, so I'm very wary of cycling too close to parked cars.
Can't cycle next to the curb, can't cycle next to a car, can't cycle in the middle of the road, can't cycle in a cycle lane when they are mostly parked on. What on earth are we meant to do 🤔

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DataColour · 01/05/2023 11:27

DH was knocked off by a van door opening. He had to go to hospital, his hand was degloved (don't Google it!!). This was nearly a year ago and he still as issues with that hand.

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Reality25 · 01/05/2023 11:27

Devoutspoken · 01/05/2023 11:06

So you agree, it wasn't the cyclists who were the problem

  1. It is not safe for cars/motor vehicles and cyclists to share the same roads in Britain.

  2. Cars/motor vehicles are much much more important for society than cyclists.

  3. It would be prohibitively expensive to upgrade all roads to be safe for motor vehicles and cyclists to share safely.

  4. Ergo cyclists should not be allowed on the roads. OR if we still want to allow cyclists on the road then we should be consistent and repeal most car-safety legislation, and allow economics to be the dictator rather than safety.

You agreed with point 1) and then your lack of sense came at point 2). That's at least better than Frabbits whose lack of sense is still stuck at point 1).

TooBored1 · 01/05/2023 11:32

MockneyReject · 01/05/2023 11:00

On a thread where the OP asked why people get annoyed at football fans holding them up? Yes, that would make sense.
Were they being inconsiderate, though? Could they have moved aside to let you pass, if they'd wanted to?
Inconsiderate cyclists don't cease to be annoying, just because football fans also sometimes hold others up. Your logic just doesn't work.

No matter how you try to spin it, you are fundamentally letting your entitlement show. Your version of inconsiderate (just being a cyclist on a road when you want to go somewhere) is not a reason to be pissed off with someone.

If you are unhappy with being held up, you should be unhappy with all the other people holding you up. But you're not. The only person you are pissed off with is the cyclist. And that's because you fundamentally believe cars have more rights than bikes.

You've shown clearly that yours is the narrow minded sense of entitlement that can't even begin to reflect on why they they have such a knee jerk reaction to someone just going about their day, so I'm out.

Hope you enjoy your day in bed.

sylvandweller · 01/05/2023 11:37

@Reality25

So the Netherlands doesn't exist then?

MockneyReject · 01/05/2023 11:39

QuintanaRoo · 01/05/2023 11:13

The less cars on the roads the less traffic jams there would be. 99.9% of the time if I’m held up driving it’s other cars holding me up

But the OP asked about people getting cross with cyclists.
During lockdown, there was much less traffic, of course. But even if it were just me and the group of cyclists blocking the road ahead, I'd still be stuck behind them. And I was, frequently.

TooBored1 · 01/05/2023 11:44

DustyLee123 · 01/05/2023 11:03

Many cyclists don’t use the cycle lanes provided. I was driving down a dual carriageway yesterday that a cycle race was using, yet they didn’t use the lovely wide cycle Lane that is provided, it’s physically separate from the road so lovely and safe. Why ?

Without knowing the route, I can only offer some general reasons:

  1. The cycle route isn't as lovely as you may think. The ones near me that are alongside the main roads are often full of debris, eg wing mirrors etc. They often go months or years without being cleaned, so are slick and dangerous.
  1. They force you to cross lots of side roads, so can be inconvenient and dangerous as cars are focused on joining the main road, not looking for cycles.
8810F · 01/05/2023 11:44

@sylvandweller

My bad...I apologise for misreading your post.
On the subject of cycle lanes, that might well be a case of light the touch paper and stand well back.😬 I have read threads where cyclists come up with every excuse under the sun (some sensible and understandable and others just wildly ridiculous) for not using them.
I am glad that you seem to approve of their existence though (at least I hope that you do) as good cycle lanes must surely alleviate a lot of the issues raised on here.

TooBored1 · 01/05/2023 11:46

Americano75 · 01/05/2023 11:23

I love these threads because they remind me to have a bit more patience on the road. Sure, it's frustrating if you're in a hurry and you're 'stuck' behind a cyclist but you don't take it out on the cyclist!

Thank you! That is so kind of you.

Reality25 · 01/05/2023 11:48

sylvandweller · 01/05/2023 11:37

@Reality25

So the Netherlands doesn't exist then?

Put some effort into the question and I'll bother with a response. Otherwise it's just a waste of time.

Whichnumbers · 01/05/2023 11:48

Economically where safe cycling infrastructure has been placed it’s better as cyclists stop & spend. It’s easy to stop as the number one barrier for stopping in a car is storing it and at maximum capacity there isn’t easy parking in U.K.

people on bikes do stop and shop more frequently and will not be tied by parking restrictions either, so spend longer and spend more

thete have been numerous studies on this, not just in U.K. but other places. It’s easy to google Here is an example And herr

https://content.tfl.gov.uk/walking-cycling-economic-benefits-summary-pack.pdf

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