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The word 'belly'

198 replies

eighteentwentytwo · 27/04/2023 18:24

I'm a southerner in the north and I'm wondering if 'belly' has the same awful connotations that it has where I came from.

My son is using it all the time and I hate it! I would prefer he said 'tummy'. AIBU?

OP posts:
Toottooot · 27/04/2023 18:36

Hope your geet doesn’t start using a word you don’t approve of relating to farts. 💁🏻‍♀️

JenniferBarkley · 27/04/2023 18:37

SapphosRock · 27/04/2023 18:30

Awful connotations?!

People might think she's <whispers> working class.

SapphosRock · 27/04/2023 18:38

Unless OP means the awful connotations of having a beer belly or a bad bellyache

NeatCompactSleeper · 27/04/2023 18:39

I 'tummy' is quite cute when a child says it.

When an adult says it, I cringe myself inside out.

NeatCompactSleeper · 27/04/2023 18:39

*I think

SallyWD · 27/04/2023 18:40

I thought it was a harmless word like "tummy" but my (now deceased) grandmother thought it was an incredibly rude and vulgar word! She was deeply offended by it. She was born in 1910 so I assumed perhaps it used to be more vulgar than it is now.

WestendVBroadway · 27/04/2023 18:42

This is probably not regional, but rather class or culture. I dislike the word lounge as in living room. I also have dinner, while my DH who is enjoying the same meal will be having tea😄😄

Luredbyapomegranate · 27/04/2023 18:42

eighteentwentytwo · 27/04/2023 18:26

Really not a nice word, not polite

It’s nothing to do with being from the South, or not being polite. It’s just one of those words some people don’t like, like moist.

It’s quite.. earthy I suppose

Oysterbabe · 27/04/2023 18:42

Do you have a belly button or do you call it something else?

BeetleBailey · 27/04/2023 18:42

No idea why the word belly is an issue, standard drip feeding post

Tummy is a word for very young children to use. Adults using it is embarrassing

Squidger45 · 27/04/2023 18:42

eighteentwentytwo · 27/04/2023 18:26

Really not a nice word, not polite

Eh? This is the most absurd thing I've ever heard 😂😂

I'd say 'I've got belly ache', I'd refer to it as a belly button - what are you calling it? A tummy button? A stomach button?

Northerner, by the way.

Okunevo · 27/04/2023 18:44

WomensLandArmy · 27/04/2023 18:35

Also raised in the south and dislike the word for being 'common'. Prefer tummy when talking to children and stomach when talking to adults and medical professionals. 'when the baby was in my belly' kind of sentence really makes me cringe. No idea why.

But what word do you use for adults when you don't mean the stomach? Like inside but a pain in an organ below your stomach, or outside, the bit you show in a bikini?

custardbear · 27/04/2023 18:44

Southerner here too and I hate it too. Some people used the word for a vagina where I lived (south east)

WotNoUserName · 27/04/2023 18:45

I'm a southerner and I've never heard of belly to have awful connotations and to be not polite. I don't use it often, I usually say tummy or stomach, but I wouldn't notice or care if others used it.

Tradescantia252 · 27/04/2023 18:45

I wouldn't say "awful connotations" but growing up it certainly was considered less polite than "tummy" and I would have been corrected if I had used it.

toottootpipip · 27/04/2023 18:45

Northerner. I use tummy and belly interchangeably and would see neither as crass or childish. Just informal words for stomach 🤷‍♀️

FlounderingFruitcake · 27/04/2023 18:46

Okunevo · 27/04/2023 18:44

But what word do you use for adults when you don't mean the stomach? Like inside but a pain in an organ below your stomach, or outside, the bit you show in a bikini?

Can’t speak for all southerners but I’d say abdominal pain

VoldemortsKitten · 27/04/2023 18:46

WomensLandArmy · 27/04/2023 18:35

Also raised in the south and dislike the word for being 'common'. Prefer tummy when talking to children and stomach when talking to adults and medical professionals. 'when the baby was in my belly' kind of sentence really makes me cringe. No idea why.

Same. My mother hated us using it! Something crude about it but I can't place why

Tradescantia252 · 27/04/2023 18:46

Squidger45 · 27/04/2023 18:42

Eh? This is the most absurd thing I've ever heard 😂😂

I'd say 'I've got belly ache', I'd refer to it as a belly button - what are you calling it? A tummy button? A stomach button?

Northerner, by the way.

Always a tummy button.

WomensLandArmy · 27/04/2023 18:47

Okunevo · 27/04/2023 18:44

But what word do you use for adults when you don't mean the stomach? Like inside but a pain in an organ below your stomach, or outside, the bit you show in a bikini?

Probably lower abdomen or near my bikini line?

Okunevo · 27/04/2023 18:48

FlounderingFruitcake · 27/04/2023 18:46

Can’t speak for all southerners but I’d say abdominal pain

I would too, it was just obvious that you couldn't use stomach. What about what you see in a bikini? Surely that is a belly?

FredaFox · 27/04/2023 18:48

gooseduckchicken · 27/04/2023 18:27

I don't know the connotations of belly but the word "tummy" turns by stomach (pardon the pun!) when said by anyone over the age of 5.

Similarly "veggies" [shudder]

agree, I never say tummy
It's childlike to me

TheReverendBeeb · 27/04/2023 18:50

I know I will be accused of terrible snobbery but I find it v vulgar too. Born and raised middle class and would never have heard or been allowed to say belly, unless with button or dancing afterwards. Certainly would never have used to describe tummy ache 😁

AwaaFaeHom · 27/04/2023 18:50

Belly and stomach (or urgh tummy) are not synonyms.

Okunevo · 27/04/2023 18:51

Tummy just sounds very young to me, like 'poorly', I can't stand it when adults say that!

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