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to throw baby's clothes away if soiled?

228 replies

inftup · 14/04/2023 11:28

Putting in the washing machine seems gross!! DH says most people wash anything a baby has used but I can’t think this would come out clean?! We have an eco friendly machine that doesn’t go higher than 60 degrees and below 90 just makes me even more nervous about it.

OP posts:
EmilyGilmoresSass · 14/04/2023 14:23

Absolutely ridiculous. What a waste of money and material.

SpideysMummy · 14/04/2023 14:25

Baby poo is water soluble pre-weaning. It’s really very easy to wash in a machine. If you’re worried use bio detergent.

EnjoythemoneyJane · 14/04/2023 14:25

FFS, they’re all out today. First someone starts a gleeful thread about buying new crockery every week and chucking it in the bin after dinner bc she literally CBA to rinse it, then people chime in with how they always buy new socks as it’s too much of a ball ache to wash and pair up used ones, so they just chuck them away. And now this.

With the planet dying on its arse and a lot of families living hand to mouth, even in this country, I can’t believe how fucking loathsomely wasteful, privileged and tone deaf some people are.

Sorry if you’re an anxious new mum and all that, OP, but yes, people are questioning if this is real bc it sounds completely ridiculous. If you really can’t bear to wash and reuse, then wash and give it to a charity shop for their rag bin - they get paid by the kilo for bags of unusable clothing, so at least that way it’ll be partially recycled.

justanotherdrama · 14/04/2023 14:25

Shove them in with vanish and get on with it, if you binned everything soiled you'd spend a fortune!

Topseyt123 · 14/04/2023 14:29

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 14/04/2023 14:08

Worse than that, @Sugarfree23 - once dsis and I no longer needed the terry nappies, mum kept them and used them as washing up cloths! I think the last one gave up the ghost when I was a teenager.

I honestly can't understand someone throwing away perfectly good clothes because they have been soiled or stained - it is so wasteful of the planet's resources!!

My parents were the same. Some of our old terry nappies were cut up and used as cleaning cloths around the house.

My Dad also kept a couple that he used for washing the car. Especially the windscreen.

It all worked pretty well.

ThisIsWednesday · 14/04/2023 14:29

Line drying in the sun removes stains as does a Vanish Soap BAR (not the other stuff. They don't work anywhere near as well)
And a hotter wash seals a stain in, not removes them. It's a common misconception.

LIZS · 14/04/2023 14:31

Was napisan not developed specifically for this purpose!

Hellno45 · 14/04/2023 14:32

Use a stain remover powder vanish and fairy have good ones. I would prewash the soiled clothes and then put them on a properwash after.

Periodically, run your machine on a cleaning cycle. I do mine once a month. Also make sure you clean your filters regularly.

pizzaHeart · 14/04/2023 14:33

Meandfour · 14/04/2023 11:32

I bin heavily soiled items. YANBU.

I agree, I did the same. DD had very sensitive skin and eczema so I couldn’t use Vanish by the way , it’s too irritating and needed extra rinses which was not good for environment either so I just binned them .
save what you can save and bin what you can’t.

Wheresthebeach · 14/04/2023 14:34

It would be incredibly wasteful to do this. Stain removal and bio detergent should do the job.

Ithurtsthebackofmyeyes · 14/04/2023 14:34

I am a bit anxious about cleanliness though.

I think we can see that. Babies shit a lot, on everything, without warning.

It’s far less environmentally friendly to bin everything that gets poo on, and buy new. You must see that.

Detergent and not-that-hot water will kill any bacteria. Stains may remain but you can soak with a stain remover if that worries you. Stains aren’t ‘dangerous’ though. None of it is, really.

Just wash them as normal, and use them as normal. It’s usually the vests that bear the brunt and you can cover those up with other things if you’re worried how it looks.

Ithurtsthebackofmyeyes · 14/04/2023 14:36

However, if it’s head to toe caked in shit, then probably just Chuck it. But don’t make it your habit to bin everything that’s even slightly ‘soiled’.

Brieandcamembert · 14/04/2023 14:38

Milk poos are water soluble. It just washes away. I would get through an outfit a day if I did this. Look into the environmental impact of cotton growth before you throw away.

red78hot · 14/04/2023 14:38

Dettol laundry cleanser and Pink stuff stain remover, quick wash on their own then put in a normal wash with other stuff.
BTW Pink stuff stain remover is the business, it's removed all of babys apocalyptic arsehole events.

Nanny0gg · 14/04/2023 14:51

inftup · 14/04/2023 11:35

Sorry I meant poo. Sick or wee etc I am fine washing.

Rinse thoroughly. Soak in a solution of Milton and then wash.

If possible hang outside in sunshine to dry.

Will be fine

(And I used to have cloth nappies and breast-fed babies who could fill a babygro with poo)

Nanny0gg · 14/04/2023 14:52

LIZS · 14/04/2023 14:31

Was napisan not developed specifically for this purpose!

True, I put Milton in my post but Napisan probably better

JemimaPyjamas · 14/04/2023 14:55

Personally, I'd also probably move house.

More seriously OP, it'll be fine.

AD1996 · 14/04/2023 15:04

I washed all of mine which had poonami stains on them, which happened every other day. I would have never been able to replace them I couldn’t afford it! I think there was one I threw out because I couldn’t get that yellow tinge out.

readbooksdrinktea · 14/04/2023 15:09

More money than sense.

Albiboba · 14/04/2023 15:12

@pizzaHeart you can’t really say drain removers aren’t good for the environment but then bin perfectly good clothes!

BertieBotts · 14/04/2023 15:32

To be fair, whether or not a hot wash will remove a stain/cook it in depends on the stain.

It's true for blood stains and some other kinds of protein (egg and maybe sperm? For some reason I have a little Dr. Beckmann's stain remover bottle that claims to remove all these three) but for grease based stains it usually helps as it helps to dissolve the grease. And for fabrics in general it can help as it opens up the fibres more to help particles come away from them. Smells in particular come out this way I find.

And the hanging outside trick works in any weather, even moonlight will do it.

pizzaHeart · 14/04/2023 15:33

Albiboba · 14/04/2023 15:12

@pizzaHeart you can’t really say drain removers aren’t good for the environment but then bin perfectly good clothes!

no, of course not, I said that washing with Vanish required 2 extra rinses on top in my case due to DD’s skin sensitivity so I ended up using more water and electricity and THAT was not good for environment. My point is that every decision has some effect on the environment some more some less but none zero.

Sugarfree23 · 14/04/2023 17:26

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 14/04/2023 14:08

Worse than that, @Sugarfree23 - once dsis and I no longer needed the terry nappies, mum kept them and used them as washing up cloths! I think the last one gave up the ghost when I was a teenager.

I honestly can't understand someone throwing away perfectly good clothes because they have been soiled or stained - it is so wasteful of the planet's resources!!

I think my mum did similar. I used reusable Totsbots for my second and sold them on.

I just can't believe we live in such a disposable society where dirty clothes are thrown away. And people tell use we are in the middle of a COL crisis.

horridjobescapee · 14/04/2023 17:34

I’m currently using prefolds that first saw action with DS as floor cloths and when there’s a big flood (dishwasher I’m looking at you).

He is in his 30s.

Neverhappyalwayshopeful · 14/04/2023 17:37

My husband throws out clothes with poo on them. 😬 I try to stain remove poo and food but in all honesty, stains don't always come out. I've tried elbow grease, vanish, hand washing beforehand etc. Vests, babygrows and white t-shirts with stains tend to end up being binned.