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To think it’s shocking how bad Britain has fallen apart compared to other European counties

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TheColourofspring · 14/04/2023 06:56

I am in Spain at the moment in one of the big cities. It’s clean, modern, well maintained. Transport is cheap, food is cheap, healthcare seems to work pretty well (from talking to local). Parks are noticeably well maintained- even saw park keepers! Clean & tidy.

Pensions higher, if you lose your job you get a portion of your salary in unemployment benefits while you look for another and there are no penalties. Based on the premise that if you have paid in, you will get looked after if you are in need.

I am not saying it’s perfect- no country is but it was the same when I was in France last summer.

In Britain, everything is underfunded and close to the edge. Schools, the NHS, local authorities are all at breaking point. My local parks look shabby & there is very little maintenance. Roads have pot holes. Yesterday I read an article about pharmacies being the latest at ‘crisis’ point with major drug shortages (thanks to brexit). Queues at borders, people can’t heat or eat properly, food banks, housing is ridiculous for many people.

I think it’s just so noticeable when you go to other places just how run down Britain is.

Finding it shocking and a bit depressing - like I said, all countries have their issues but I think Britain really has been pillaged by the tories & Brexit really is a disaster.

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signalsnap · 14/04/2023 07:57

10 years of austerity and the country looked it - shabby and run down. Then Brexit and the pandemic. All led by a conservative government, that daily Mail readers and the well off will continue to vote in.

Hardbackwriter · 14/04/2023 07:57

I don't know why agencies and organizations (including the EU itself) put so much time and energy into collecting detailed statistics that allow you to compare across countries. Clearly, you could just ask someone who has a mate who lives there instead.

Bloopsie · 14/04/2023 07:58

begoneday · 14/04/2023 07:53

You will have different to your friends on what you’d like your tax money to be spent on. You are a tourist, not a tax payer there. It’s once we see the corruption of governments wasting our money that we start to see the cracks.

Are you trying to desperately defend decades of british goverment failures or what?

lagging ambulances,failing dental and health care etc is a fact, run down buildings,roads,schools etc.-its there in plain sight

before you say about living elsewhere well i did 20 years and have had over a decade
of living in the uk experience, cant get fairer than that when i have an opinion right?

Felixss · 14/04/2023 07:58

COVID was really expensive excessive money was printed. No other country copies the NHS , the tax burden is getting higher, skilled workers are retiring less tax receipts. People want highly funded public services but don't want to pay the tax needed. They also don't want to pay for any private healthcare or social care so this is where we are. I don't think even labour can fix the NHS not going to happen.

Reallifelurker · 14/04/2023 07:59

@Reallifelurker its not a brexit thread
i rather think it is

and maybe there are brexit threads because people can see what an effing disaster it is
but there’s a whole board dedicated to Brexit. Why not post there?

Emigratingimmigrant · 14/04/2023 08:00

CatherineMaitland · 14/04/2023 07:55

I agree. Just look at litter. I've been in France for a couple of weeks (Brittany) and there is effectively no litter - whereas every British roadside is choked with it. The difference is extremely striking.

Just one example - but it doesn't have to be the way it is. It goes back to austerity as well as Brexit although Brexit is a huge exacerbating factor.

Brexit has nothing to do with dirtiness of UK. It's always been visible that people here don't get what bins are for or that you actually can physically take rubbish with you until you find bin. Like from parks and beaches... Austerity also doesn't take away ability to bin rubbish

Simonjt · 14/04/2023 08:00

cocksstrideintheevening · 14/04/2023 07:45

The tax rate in Sweden is over 50% from memory.

It depends on your income, mine would be 39.2%

MarshaBradyo · 14/04/2023 08:00

begoneday · 14/04/2023 07:56

Go visit the slums in Paris where they put their immigrants and then tell me the UK is doing better. Go see how Muslim women are treated there if they want to wear their religious attire. We’re not doing particularly well here, but no where is at the moment.

That’s a bit too real for mn. Also agree with Hardbackwriter

NOTANUM · 14/04/2023 08:01

Reallifelurker · 14/04/2023 07:42

What’s with all these Brexit threads in AIBU lately? Is the Brexit board dead?

Well Brexit was always going to go mainstream when we could talk about it without screaming. It’s only now we’re seeing they we are on a gradual decline worse than EU countries because, well you know.

Starmer would walk the next election if he wasn’t Starmer. But he’s too weak and uninspiring. We need a Burnham or a Cooper - someone you could see running the show without refusing to say what they think. (99% of women have a penis).

Felixss · 14/04/2023 08:01

We need to choose which way lower taxes but you will be forking out for more things or much higher taxes. This in the middle isn't going to work much longer.

DanglingMod · 14/04/2023 08:02

The NHS is a shitshow (dentistry already has been for 20 years)
Education is a shitshow
Public transport is a shitshow
Social care is a shitshow
Childcare is a shitshow
Extreme poverty is a reality for more people than in a long time
No libraries
Potholes literally everywhere

No dogshit near me that I've noticed
No rubbish in streets or roadsides that I've noticed
High Street still busy/diverse/affluent/pleasant to spend time there
Lots of new play parks (that is down to parish council funding and/or specific grants)

It's not great is it (understatement)? But I don't recognise every single thing in your OP in my area and I do have European (Spain, Italy and Poland) colleagues who say they still won't move back home as job prospects are still better here and they want their children to grow up here (not sure whether that might change in near future)

QuentininQuarantino · 14/04/2023 08:02

I don’t think you can decouple Brexit from
the rest of the political and financial decisions made in the UK, as the impact is obviously far reaching, so in that sense, everything is a Brexit thread.

CatherineMaitland · 14/04/2023 08:03

"Brexit has nothing to do with dirtiness of UK. It's always been visible that people here don't get what bins are for or that you actually can physically take rubbish with you until you find bin. Like from parks and beaches... Austerity also doesn't take away ability to bin rubbish"

It is, because the systems we have in place to clean up are too strained due to decades or more of austerity and the various constraints of Brexit. And this is happening in all of our social systems. Like I said, it was just one example.

woodhill · 14/04/2023 08:03

I think it depends where you are. NHS is fairly good here and I could get a doctors appointment

I also have an NHS dentist

Badgerstmary · 14/04/2023 08:03

In France the riots are full on. The price of food has shot up & is now incredibly high & the amount of beggars following you & continually approaching people is worrying. To many people France looks clean with wide empty roads but like the UK it too has many problems.

Emigratingimmigrant · 14/04/2023 08:04

CatherineMaitland · 14/04/2023 08:03

"Brexit has nothing to do with dirtiness of UK. It's always been visible that people here don't get what bins are for or that you actually can physically take rubbish with you until you find bin. Like from parks and beaches... Austerity also doesn't take away ability to bin rubbish"

It is, because the systems we have in place to clean up are too strained due to decades or more of austerity and the various constraints of Brexit. And this is happening in all of our social systems. Like I said, it was just one example.

Poorer countries to uk manage to use bins. The problem is "someone else will clean it" attitide imho.

teezletangler · 14/04/2023 08:05

I was recently in the UK for 2 weeks (we live abroad) and bar the weather it was delightful. Spent most of our time in Berkshire and Oxfordshire and they were as charming as ever. The main difference I saw from two years ago was much more homelessness in London and Oxford Street is looking shabby, but nothing else was that different. TCR station is amazing!

Do people not see how this tourist view of a place is not the day-to-day reality for the people who live there? Yes the UK has many problems at the moment and the government needs to be held to account, but so do many, many other countries. All this "Spain is so clean and the rioting in Paris is wonderful and the UK is the worst place on earth" is absolutely ridiculous.

Reallifelurker · 14/04/2023 08:06

Well Brexit was always going to go mainstream when we could talk about it without screaming

????

MarshaBradyo · 14/04/2023 08:06

teezletangler · 14/04/2023 08:05

I was recently in the UK for 2 weeks (we live abroad) and bar the weather it was delightful. Spent most of our time in Berkshire and Oxfordshire and they were as charming as ever. The main difference I saw from two years ago was much more homelessness in London and Oxford Street is looking shabby, but nothing else was that different. TCR station is amazing!

Do people not see how this tourist view of a place is not the day-to-day reality for the people who live there? Yes the UK has many problems at the moment and the government needs to be held to account, but so do many, many other countries. All this "Spain is so clean and the rioting in Paris is wonderful and the UK is the worst place on earth" is absolutely ridiculous.

It really is.

notimagain · 14/04/2023 08:07

I agree with the idea that you only see some cracks in some countries when you are resident, but OTOH being resident also allows you to see when that country's situation is being inaccurately reported in another country's MSM.

For example lots of people in France don't like the proposed pension changes but I'd certainly caution the idea that seems to be doing the rounds that the whole of France has been striking and rioting 24/7 for the last three months over the issue.

begoneday · 14/04/2023 08:07

Bloopsie · 14/04/2023 07:58

Are you trying to desperately defend decades of british goverment failures or what?

lagging ambulances,failing dental and health care etc is a fact, run down buildings,roads,schools etc.-its there in plain sight

before you say about living elsewhere well i did 20 years and have had over a decade
of living in the uk experience, cant get fairer than that when i have an opinion right?

It is of course right and fair that having lived elsewhere, you prefer it, and think it a better place to live than the UK. My point is that we all have different priorities as tax payers. I choose to live here because in my experience, subjectively, I think it is a better place to live than other countries I have lived in.

begoneday · 14/04/2023 08:08

I value safety over easy access to dentists for example. We all have different ideas of what is important to us.

QuentininQuarantino · 14/04/2023 08:13

begoneday · 14/04/2023 08:08

I value safety over easy access to dentists for example. We all have different ideas of what is important to us.

Yes! But the tories cut all the police, and the ones left are struggling to recover the public trust with scandal after scandal.

Simonjt · 14/04/2023 08:14

begoneday · 14/04/2023 08:08

I value safety over easy access to dentists for example. We all have different ideas of what is important to us.

So do we, which is why we decided leaving the UK was what we needed to do.

Simonjt · 14/04/2023 08:15

begoneday · 14/04/2023 08:08

I value safety over easy access to dentists for example. We all have different ideas of what is important to us.

So do we, which is why we decided leaving the UK was what we needed to do.

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