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Sometimes feel that colleagues don't want to work with me

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Gooooo · 03/04/2023 06:54

It's in a care home setting, several of them do but I've noticed that it'll always be the same friends working together.
We have residents who require two carers, known as the 'doubles' and then the 'singles'.
I've been there a few months and there are people who've been there a few years but who also socialise outside of work together.
On many shifts it'll be them two who say to me 'We're going to do the doubles together, could you do the singles."

Or if I offer to do the 'doubles', they will just say 'No it's ok, we'll do them.'

I don't think I'm awful at the job and surely would have not been kept on if I am, and people say I'm hardworking.
I think it is just a case of friends wanting to work together which seems very juvenile and school-like, I don't really care who I work with.

It can just be a bit isolating sometimes as I am working on my own most of the time. Which I don't mind, but it would be nice to build connections and work with people a bit more.
Care homes can be very cliquey sadly, not sure what I could do.

OP posts:
Lmber · 03/04/2023 23:50

Hospital care work can be a bit better managed ime. But unfortunately the sector is a bit like that.

TortolaParadise · 04/04/2023 00:10

AnnoyedFromSlough · 03/04/2023 19:07

It's only appalling management if it's done badly. Done well, and people enjoy good job satisfaction as they are doing what they excel at.

And as far as cliques go - have you been outside of a clique at your work and thought they were the people you would want to spend your time with? I never have. The kind of people that are unwelcoming to newcomers have never come close to being people I want to spend time with.

If you are at a workplace where everyone is part of a clique where your face doesn't fit, then I would suggest hunting for a new place to go. It's unlikely to improve any time soon.

Yes. This is very accurate in my experience. A little off task but did you ever notice that the cliquey tone was set by the management and cascaded ?

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