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DH and his bloody running

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SpaghettifingerFusillitoe · 02/04/2023 16:12

Our DC is 2 and a great napper. Today napped for 3h. DH had his lunch and a nap himself during this time, I was in the garden. He has been saying several times in the morning ‘I’m going for a run later’.

He pops down in his running gear to tell me he’s off as DC has awoken thus waking him from his nap. I commented I’d prefer if he didn’t wait until they awoke to disappear and now he’s got all sniffy that I ‘never told him’ he had to run while they were napping, which no, I didn’t. I just assumed he would. Not the first time it’s happened, aibu to go for a run myself bang on bedtime because he hasn’t told me that’s rather unhelpful…

OP posts:
SpaghettifingerFusillitoe · 02/04/2023 19:22

God no but I remember that post- that guy was a psycho!

I’m gonna talk to him tonight. A few things have changed recently and cumulatively it’s cut a lot of my free time right down. I hadn’t really realised until I laid it all out.

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TheGoodEnoughWife · 02/04/2023 19:27

Hope the talk goes well - best try and get this sorted.

LuckySantangelo35 · 02/04/2023 19:46

@SpaghettifingerFusillitoe

why don’t you take up running too op? It’s mint!

and then you can take it turns so it’s fair

billy1966 · 02/04/2023 20:02

SpaghettifingerFusillitoe · 02/04/2023 19:22

God no but I remember that post- that guy was a psycho!

I’m gonna talk to him tonight. A few things have changed recently and cumulatively it’s cut a lot of my free time right down. I hadn’t really realised until I laid it all out.

Good.

Don't have another child with a selfish avoidant man.

Life only gets a LOT worse.

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