Meet the Other Phone. A phone that grows with your child.

Meet the Other Phone.
A phone that grows with your child.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

I do not understand snacks

392 replies

Yellowdaffodila · 27/03/2023 10:52

So I'm not from the UK and I hear and read about the snack thing all the time.
What is a snack? When I take my children out I'm asked to bring snacks. They will be home for food after our trip. They eat breakfast. Why a snack?

OP posts:
TheSoapyFrog · 27/03/2023 12:20

Well sometimes some people get hungry between meals and like to eat a little something to keep the hunger at bay.
Children tend to burn a lot of energy and need to refuel more often.
It's also thought to be better to eat smaller meals more frequently rather than not eating for several hours and then eating heavily 3 times a day. Although some people do prefer 3 Square meals a day.
I hope this thread has helped you to gain the understanding you need for this most important matter.

PinkPatches · 27/03/2023 12:20

This reply has been deleted

This has been deleted by MNHQ for breaking our Talk Guidelines - previously banned poster.

TaLooLaBell · 27/03/2023 12:21

Aye right CakeCakeBiscuitBiscuit

PlateBilledDuckyPerson · 27/03/2023 12:21

OMGitsnotgood · 27/03/2023 12:20

Pathetic

What's pathetic is faux naivety.

Emmamoo89 · 27/03/2023 12:21

This reply has been deleted

Message deleted by MNHQ. Here's a link to our Talk Guidelines.

kirinm · 27/03/2023 12:22

@ChristmasKraken yep. Good point. I wouldn't have called a banana after the gym a snack but it is. I'm not sure what I would've called it tbh.

Itsgottobeme · 27/03/2023 12:23

This reply has been deleted

Message deleted by MNHQ. Here's a link to our Talk Guidelines.

kirinm · 27/03/2023 12:23

Badbudgeter · 27/03/2023 12:19

My youngest, thinnest, child loves to snack. She has been known to stand up from the table where she has just eaten dinner and ask for a snack as she’s still hungry. Eat more dinner then!

My DD will eat a salmon fillet, rice and veg and then say 'can I have something else' until she goes to bed. She doesn't stop. But is tiny.

JenniferBarkley · 27/03/2023 12:24

This reply has been deleted

This has been deleted by MNHQ for breaking our Talk Guidelines - previously banned poster.

At 11 months he absolutely should be having snacks - the gaps between meals will be too long at that age with a small stomach, and the dependence on milk should be reducing at this age.

Emmamoo89 · 27/03/2023 12:25

JenniferBarkley · 27/03/2023 12:24

At 11 months he absolutely should be having snacks - the gaps between meals will be too long at that age with a small stomach, and the dependence on milk should be reducing at this age.

Not for my son he's a boobie monster 🤣

PinkPatches · 27/03/2023 12:25

This reply has been deleted

This has been deleted by MNHQ for breaking our Talk Guidelines - previously banned poster.

Emmamoo89 · 27/03/2023 12:26

This reply has been deleted

Message deleted by MNHQ. Here's a link to our Talk Guidelines.

MaryMcCarthy · 27/03/2023 12:27

It's part of the instant gratification culture really isn't it?

We rarely had snack between meals as kids. We waited until meal times.

We didn't have so many obese kids back then either, funnily enough.

Quite insidious really because kids, used to getting what they want whenever they want it, tend to carry that attitude over to other aspects of their lives.

LaPerduta · 27/03/2023 12:27

premicrois · 27/03/2023 11:05

You don't understand snacks?

Me neither. I tried to have a chat with my olives the other day but they just talked gobbledygook.

Couldn't understand a thing.

Maybe they were stoned?

Namechangedforthisonetoday · 27/03/2023 12:30

Course you don’t hunny 🙄 Let me guess, you’re 5 stone wet through and exist on a teeny tiny kidney bean garnished with a single herb from the mixed spices. This is enough to sustain you all day. Anything else would be positively piggy.

IncompleteSenten · 27/03/2023 12:30

A snack is a small amount of food eaten between meals. A cereal bar for example. Or a piece of fruit. Something small and eaten with the hand rather than eaten off a plate or with cutlery.

It's not mandatory. If your children don't have snacks that's fine. Don't worry about it.

MyOldFriendTime · 27/03/2023 12:31

Yellowdaffodila · 27/03/2023 11:48

To people saying the snacks of Sri Lanka they are we call tourist snacks.
As a country we are poorer so those snacks for you would be meals for locals if meat based.

Maybe it is a money thing as well.

Maybe it’s a money thing as well? Or maybe it’s just a fat fucker thing? Just say it OP, go on you know you want to - why are all you fat bastards out there with your fat fucker kids feeding them every hour, on the hour? 😆😂🤣

What is it with all the food obsession threads on here lately?
‘I’m 6 foot 4 and 6 stone and look sooooo fat’. ‘I’m 4 foot 2 and 20 stone but I look amazing’. ‘It’s all about your BMI you know’. ‘BMI doesn’t work when you’re a rugby player’ Blah blah blah…

iamnottoofatiamjusttooshort · 27/03/2023 12:31

I had a snaccident earlier and ate a whole pack of biscuits with my tea

I blame MN as I was scrolling mindlessly reading crap that people write on here

Devilledchicken · 27/03/2023 12:32

Get away, I see plenty kids coming out of school in Sri Lanka and hanging around the local small shops buying the 'snack' size packets of sweets/savoury treats then walking home.

Or those sitting along Galle Face green eating the short eats or fried seafood from the vendors.

Funkyslippers · 27/03/2023 12:33

I live to eat so I snack every day. I'd be in a heap on the floor if I didn't. I'm also underweight but do exercise a lot

Wishawisha · 27/03/2023 12:34

helpfulperson · 27/03/2023 11:42

Why does mumsnet have such a hard time understanding that other countries or cultures do things differently. Its fairly obvious you don't mean you don't understand what a snack is but you mean why do we snack so frequently?

It is a fairly recent phenomenon to the extent it happens now. In the 70's we maybe had a snack after swimming but not everyday after school or every time we went to the park.

I think it's tied in with parents wanting to be their child's friend so they give them what they want.

It’s not tied into that for me at all.

It’s tied into the fact that I was brought up typical 80s/ 90s style with being made to eat three square meals a day and finish my plate. I struggled to do that and would frequently be at the table hours and hours later staring with resentment at the quarter of the meal I couldn’t bring myself to finish. I dreaded meals.

As an adult I am happier and enjoy food a lot more eating whenever I feel like it in whatever quantity. So if I’m doing that for me wouldn’t it be weird to deny my DC a sandwich at 3 or 4pm and insist that they wait until 6pm and then eat everything in one go? Why would I do this when I don’t do it myself? And why would I do it myself when I’ve always been slim?

Emmamoo89 · 27/03/2023 12:35

This reply has been deleted

Message deleted by MNHQ. Here's a link to our Talk Guidelines.

takealettermsjones · 27/03/2023 12:37

LaPerduta · 27/03/2023 12:27

Maybe they were stoned?

🏆 👏👏

crackofdoom · 27/03/2023 12:42

Problem with "each to their own" is that if your kids aren't snackers, used to being offered nothing but boring toast or apples between meals at home, and you're out and about with other people who are constantly bringing out bagfuls of exciting stuff like biscuits and crisps, which they then offer to your kids, who wolf them down with glee, is that a) your kids won't then eat their nutritious dinner, and b) you look like the tight one who never brings the snacks 🤦‍♀️. It's so bloody normalised, and the processed food companies are laughing all the way to the bank.

Itsgottobeme · 27/03/2023 12:43

I'm baaaaack.just asked my Sri Lankan friend.
He said fuck off with you.we eat snacks and are food lovers. Usually called short eats. Which actually is way cuter so I might adopt it.
Will I be less of a greedy,fat fucker, over weight,murdering my child penguin or kit kat, abusive, bmi boulder if I call it short eat?
Or can people just eat.
Like food.
Not make food a fucking morality issue.
Maaaaaybe this is why we have a "problem with obedity" wah wah fucking wah.

Swipe left for the next trending thread