Backstory - DD is 5 months old next week and has an extreme feeding aversion (absolutely hates her bottle) finally was diagnosed with a cows milk allergy and given prescription milk which helped to some extent but the aversion is still there. We've been cleared by dietician to start purées to help sustain weight (please don't attack about starting solids early I feel bad enough) so we have been going very slowly with this, not forcing foods, taking it very gently as we don't want her aversion to start on foods too. MIL has always been pushy around DD, forcing her to feed from the bottle (we now don't allow her to feed her) and offering her foods after we have said what our plans are, she either doesn't listen or knows best. Today she decided it would be a good idea to give DD some of my nieces fruit pastille ice lolly, DH told her not to and she left the room we assume embarrassed as this was in front of company. I read the ingredients and it say may contain milk, it probably doesn't but it's not the point.. its also full of other things she hasn't ever had before.
I'm annoyed that we want to introduce textures, tastes etc slowly as not to pass on the aversion but MIL doesn't listen, I now won't allow DD round there on her own.
Aibu?