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to ask why people don’t reverse in?

430 replies

Divorcedalongtime · 25/03/2023 22:16

to parking spaces…
i know the safest is to reverse in and
drive out, so why do 95% of all cars drive in?
every time I go shopping I see cars desperately trying to get out of their parking bay with cars and walkers going past, whilst if they had reversed in they would get out so easily.

it makes zero sense.

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FurnitureUpcyler · 26/03/2023 19:05

Hardbackwriter · 26/03/2023 17:57

But you're driving blindly at pedestrians when you reverse out and - and I'm sorry to shout but I'm incredulous this has to be said at all but this thread shows it does - PEOPLE MATTER MORE THAN CARS.

@Hardbackwriter I have been driving since 1985 & I can assure you I do not "drive blindly at pedestrians" when reversing out 🙄 Please do not judge everyone else by your own standards.
And no need to shout, I neither require a sight test nor a hearing test 😏
Thank you!

Hardbackwriter · 26/03/2023 19:56

Rosula · 26/03/2023 18:45

I struggle to believe that reversing in is as easy as people claim. If it's that easy, why am I regularly help up be people in car parks making a massive meal of it?

Because they're shit drivers. If you can't reverse into a space without making a massive meal of it then I don't actually think you're safe to drive at all.

Antiquiteas · 26/03/2023 20:10

Hardbackwriter · 26/03/2023 19:56

Because they're shit drivers. If you can't reverse into a space without making a massive meal of it then I don't actually think you're safe to drive at all.

I agree. It’s basic. There’s a reason it’s a standard manoeuvre in a driving test.

Sweetpeasaremadeforbees · 26/03/2023 20:13

There’s a reason it’s a standard manoeuvre in a driving test.

It wasn't when I passed. Neither was parallel parking. I did have to reverse round a corner and do a three point turn, both of which I find easy.

Antiquiteas · 26/03/2023 20:16

Sweetpeasaremadeforbees · 26/03/2023 20:13

There’s a reason it’s a standard manoeuvre in a driving test.

It wasn't when I passed. Neither was parallel parking. I did have to reverse round a corner and do a three point turn, both of which I find easy.

It was when I did mine. They could pick and choose various manoeuvres, but reverse bay parking in the test centre was non-negotiable.

Jontysquirrel · 26/03/2023 20:20

Unfortunately, most supermarket car parks are not designed to help the shopper. You will be unable to load your shopping because you are backed up against another vehicle.

Sweetpeasaremadeforbees · 26/03/2023 20:26

Well I passed in 1986 and you definitely didn't have to then. I think it changed in about 2016.

Sweetpeasaremadeforbees · 26/03/2023 20:28

So there's probably a hell of a lot of us who weren't taught how to!

HoppingPavlova · 26/03/2023 20:49

I agree. It’s basic. There’s a reason it’s a standard manoeuvre in a driving test

Another who definitely didn’t have it decades ago while doing mine, nor did any of my kids who have done it quite recently (we are in Aus).

Im one of those shit drivers that while driving safely for 40 odd years with a great record can’t either reverse into a parking space or reverse parallel park. It’s moot though as cars have driver assist these days. Reverse camera, while not enough to enable me to reverse park, definitely shows any pedestrians nearby as you reverse out of the car spot including small children lower to the ground. What’s more if they are close enough the alarm goes off. Then there’s cross traffic alert so you can’t reverse out into a moving car coming through behind you. I’m guessing it’s why they don’t require it or have it in tests? It all works, I went to reverse out of my drive one day and the alarm went off like nothing else (different tone/urgency for different things) and it was next doors dog had wandered up right behind the car. No way I could see that dog in my rear view mirror /side mirrors but the sensors picked it up, then it grinned at me on camera. Then I had to yell at neighbour to take their freaking dog so I could leave🤣.

blebbleb · 26/03/2023 21:38

Reversing into a space isn't a standard manoeuvre in a driving test. I did mine in 2021. You're tested on either parallel parking which isn't reversing into a bay as such, parking and reversing out or pulling up on the right and reversing on a straight line. A lot different to reversing into a small space in a car park.

MistySkiesAreGone · 26/03/2023 21:43

I can't forward park. Very good at reversing as my car parking space requires it, so I do it every day. Forward parking, terrible.

Doomscroller · 26/03/2023 22:40

I imagine some people prefer to drive into the smaller space where they can perhaps more easily judge the space between them and the cars either side, and the reverse out into the much larger area, where the moving things like people and other cars can clearly see you are moving and adjust course, which parked cars can't do. Plus shopping or buggys or wheelchairs to unload etc.

prescribingmum · 26/03/2023 22:41

blebbleb · 26/03/2023 21:38

Reversing into a space isn't a standard manoeuvre in a driving test. I did mine in 2021. You're tested on either parallel parking which isn't reversing into a bay as such, parking and reversing out or pulling up on the right and reversing on a straight line. A lot different to reversing into a small space in a car park.

From https://www.gov.uk/driving-test/what-happens-during-test

Reversing your vehicle
The examiner will ask you to do one of the following exercises:
parallel park at the side of the road
park in a parking bay - either by driving in and reversing out, or reversing in and driving out (the examiner will tell you which you have to do)
pull up on the right-hand side of the road, reverse for around 2 car lengths, and rejoin the traffic

It can be part of the driving test - the examiner will pick which 2 of the 3 manoeuvres you need to perform. This was the case when I did my test back in 2003 (and I did reverse into a bay as part of my test)

Driving test: cars

When to book your car driving test, what to take with you, what happens during the test, major and minor faults, and what happens if your test is cancelled.

https://www.gov.uk/driving-test/what-happens-during-test

Talkingfrog · 26/03/2023 22:51

I reverse into my drive, but front onto mist other spaces because otherwise it is hard to get into the boot.
Once saw someone reverse into a parking space leaving about 4 foot behind them so they could get a pushchair our of the boot, when there was a car in the space behind them. The car bonnet was sticking out into the road. This was in a Tesco car park with lots of empty spaces.( by lots I mean half the car park in a tesco extra). They could have parked fully in a space and had access to the boot if they had picked a different space. It wasn't if they chose that one because it was a child space or close to the door- it was a normal space at the opposite end of the car park.

Antiquiteas · 26/03/2023 23:13

prescribingmum · 26/03/2023 22:41

From https://www.gov.uk/driving-test/what-happens-during-test

Reversing your vehicle
The examiner will ask you to do one of the following exercises:
parallel park at the side of the road
park in a parking bay - either by driving in and reversing out, or reversing in and driving out (the examiner will tell you which you have to do)
pull up on the right-hand side of the road, reverse for around 2 car lengths, and rejoin the traffic

It can be part of the driving test - the examiner will pick which 2 of the 3 manoeuvres you need to perform. This was the case when I did my test back in 2003 (and I did reverse into a bay as part of my test)

At my test centre it was standard. Maybe they just did that to shorten the tests as it was one less manoeuvre on the road. No idea. Everyone had to, though, it was the last thing in your test.

My instructor was a former trucker and was an amazing teacher. Had loads of tricks for parking, like lining up your back seats with the rear of the car you’re trying to parallel park behind would put you in exactly the right place to put on full lock and turn. And if you want to reverse into a bay, pull up so you the driver is level with the third line up from the bay you want, then by the time you’ve got full lock on, you should arc more or less right into the space, allowing for mirror alterations.

I’m a tremendous parker and love driving and I know it’s because I was taught so well.

SandraTeaspoon · 26/03/2023 23:15

So much easier to reverse in

blebbleb · 26/03/2023 23:23

@prescribingmum I passed 2 years ago and was only asked to bay park by driving in and reversing out. You're only asked for 1 manoeuvre now. It's changed since 2003.

blebbleb · 26/03/2023 23:25

Perhaps you could reverse in but it was never taught or asked. You're asked 1 of 3 on the test plus possibly emergency stop (which I wasn't asked)

WitheredandOld · 26/03/2023 23:35

I reverse in as I do all my grocery shopping online. When I had a pram I would go forward in but I hated it as it really is dangerous reversing out with pedestrians including children everywhere.

Divorcedalongtime · 26/03/2023 23:39

JarByTheDoor · 25/03/2023 22:21

Because major difficulty for future-me doesn't weigh as heavily on my mind as minor difficulty for present-me? I mean, that's her problem Grin

I like this comment and imagine this is true for many actually.

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PurpleHippo83 · 26/03/2023 23:53

SisyphusDad · 25/03/2023 22:57

Apparently, in a number of companies with large fleets of vehicles, it is a disciplinary offence not to reverse in to a space because statistically a lot of accidents are caused by people reversing out and it costs them money. If you're not comfortable reversing in then learn. If you reverse out and hit something then, from an insurance perspective, it's your fault. Convenience in loading the boot is not an excuse.

My company has this as a policy at all sites and I got so used to doing it I now always reverse park. Is a bit more awkward now with a 7 seater with huge boot door but I’ve only had someone back so close to me that I couldn’t get it open once and by the time I came back to the car after I’d finished shopping they’d gone. So much easier pulling out forwards!

mumlikeaboss · 27/03/2023 00:14

MissTrip82 · 25/03/2023 23:25

When you reverse out you wait for a gap in traffic. When you reverse in you make traffic wait for you. It interests me how many men feel very comfortable holding up traffic to do an exaggerated reverse.

Can’t fathom why people’s lives are ‘at risk’ from reversing out but not in to a carapace.

If you're walking through a supermarket car park, you are very aware of the moving cars - ie the ones driving up and down the lanes looking for the spaces. They're already moving, so you're aware they're about to be manoeuvring into a space and you're generally alert and aware to make sure you're not in the way when they do so.

On the other hand, there is usually a much larger number of parked cars that you're walking past, and you're more likely to be caught off guard if one of them suddenly reverses!

I hate reversing out of spaces. The visibility just isn't anything like as good as if you're facing forward... Obviously!

Newer cars with fancy cameras would admittedly be a bit safer.

ScrumpyTree · 27/03/2023 00:15

Because you can't get to the boot if you reverse in?

I'll reverse in if I don't need the boot.

Can't say I've ever had an issue in a car park big enough to be able to recall it now.

If I see reverse lights and I have space to I let the person out and I'm grateful when others do the same.

AspiringMermaid · 27/03/2023 00:22

Parking camera + sensors, both ways are easy I just prefer to park forward and reserve out

prescribingmum · 27/03/2023 07:02

@Antiquiteas ditto. My instructor was fabulous and insisted on teaching to drive rather than teaching to pass the test. I knew all the manoeuvres inside out and it has helped me so much over the years. He made me parallel park on a busy high street/busy car park when learning (obviously once I’d already mastered it in quiet places) so I understood how to behave with pressure of other cars around

@blebbleb Im fully aware the manoeuvres will have changed in the past 20 years hence quoting and posting a link to the current requirements. I was simply making a point to the PP who tried to claim it wasn’t required 2 years ago that it very much has been required for more than 20 years and just wasn’t the chosen one assessed for her test

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