I was treated amazingly by the NHS through all of my pregnancies and I have absolutely no complaints.
First pregnancy, scanned at 6 weeks due to severe cramps, no heartbeat, offered counselling.
Second pregnancy, scanned at 6, 7 and 8 weeks, no heartbeat at 8 weeks, referred to recurrent miscarriage clinic. All tests normal. Offered counselling.
Third pregnancy, emergency scan at 5 weeks due to cramps, confirmed ectopic, referred straight to EPU. Had fantastic treatment there.
Fourth pregnancy, scanned 6,8,10,12,14 weeks at EPU, then at 20,24,28,32 weeks, and twice weekly until 40 weeks. Referred for free hypnobirthing and counselling with a recurrent miscarriage specialist midwife.
Fifth pregnancy, chemical pregnancy, bloods taken by EPU even though j didn’t meet the criteria.
Sixth pregnancy, ectopic discovered at 6 weeks. Referred back to recurrent miscarriage clinic. Tested positive for antiphospholipid syndrome. Referred to fertility clinic, had whole raft of tests done there too.
seventh pregnancy, scanned weekly through first tri and third tri.
I was absolutely supported through all my pregnancies. I’m sorry your situation wasn’t as good as mine but I don’t think you can generalise like you are here.
Antiphospholipid syndrome isn’t 15% of the 1%. It’s 15% of the 35% of the 1%.
1% of couples have recurrent miscarriage.
25% of the 1% have a known cause.
15% of the 25% of the 1% have antiphospholipid syndrome. It has an incidence rate of between 5 and 50 per 100,000 and is more common in the elderly than in those of reproductive age. You can also be positive for the antibodies for it for short periods of time, even if you do not have APS. It is a rare condition and OP has absolutely no reason to suspect this is the cause. It’s absolutely ridiculous, to be honest.
It’s akin to someone having the cold and it being suggested they have leukaemia.