I feel as if I'm not being unreasonable but I just wanted to check.
I call all 3 of my children the pet term "baby" - 19 year old son, 14 year old daughter and 5 year old daughter.
I met an old friend recently and when I referred to my 14 year old as this she looked me horrified. And asked if I said this to all my children. I said yes, it's just a habit really and they don't mind/don't notice me doing it at all.
She said I should have stopped for my teens ages ago, and should be considering stopping for the 5 year old as none of them are "babies" and this is a term used with relationships.
I don't agree personally because of course I know they're not babies but they'll always be MY babies. And if her argument is that surely it makes no sense to use this term in a relationship because your partner is not your baby??
Please tell me if I'm wrong though and I've missed something.
AIBU?
"Baby" as a petname for my kids
ourflagmeansdeath · 18/03/2023 22:23
Am I being unreasonable?
329 votes. Final results.
POLLnc13467 · 18/03/2023 23:11
So were you addressing your teen dc as "baby" in the presence of your friend, as in "baby can you pass me the spoon please?" And your friend overheard?
Or we're you having a conversation with your friends and refer to you teen DC as a baby?
IMO the first is totally normal/acceptable, latter is a bit cringey. It's personal taste but I'd find it a bit "icky"'
FunnysInLaJardin · 18/03/2023 22:34
I call my DS's baby, treasure, chicken and my love. They are 13 and 17
HowcanIgetoutofthisalive · 18/03/2023 23:28
I use the terms baby boy (ds21) and baby girl (18). Neither one of them cares 🤷♀️
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