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someone tell me what crime has been committed?

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Weefreetiffany · 02/03/2023 07:15

Baffled by this story

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-11810311/Woman-49-convicted-manslaughter-raising-hand-elderly-cyclist-collision.html

on what grounds are the prosecuting the pedestrian? It seems an absolute stretch to think that her gesticulating and “radiant her hand” at a cyclist for driving towards her on a pavement is wilful manslaughter? I can see how it’s a tragic, very unfortunate accident but how did this make it to court?

The atmosphere is this country is so toxic to middle aged women at the moment- what is going on?!

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ivykaty44 · 02/03/2023 19:24

Judge Sean Enright, sentencing Grey to three years in prison, said “these actions are not explained by disability”.

He said that Grey, of Huntingdon, had no mental disorder or learning difficulties and he said the pavement was 2.4 metres wide at the relevant point, describing it as a “shared path on the ring road”.

This was the judges remarks - I guess they didn't know as much as those on this thread

FingerPuppet · 02/03/2023 19:25

The outcome of the incident is of course tragic, but I’m struggling to see how the partially sighted pedestrian with cerebral palsy is more at fault here than the woman cycling on the pavement?

Regardless of whether the cyclist should have been on the pavement or not, no one has the right to push anyone into moving traffic.

Why on earth would she not be at fault? She had other, more rational options, like moving out of the way. Just because she feels she shouldn’t have to move out of the way, doesn’t mean she can act with impunity.

The comments on this thread are shocking.

This woman screamed abuse at an elderly lady on a bicycle, pushed her into traffic and left her on the road to die after she was struck by a car. She then continued about her day and went shopping. That is not acting from a place of vulnerability, that’s rank entitlement.

If the pedestrian was 32 year Steven, no one would be defending him.

FrostyFifi · 02/03/2023 19:25

even if, as in this case, they’re on a shared pedestrian/cycle path?

Tbf no but I've growled at a few who seem to think a shared path means they have priority over me.

SomeareDeluded · 02/03/2023 19:27

I would have done exactly the same by telling cyclist to get off pavement. Sadly it seems everyone is looking for someone to blame.

I once asked someone to pick up their litter on the pavement. If it had blown in the road and they attempted to pick it up and got run down by a car - AM I Responsible?

Personally pedestrian needs to appeal. What the hell is this world coming to?

The pedestrian was possibly in shock, and not mentally competent to hang around after a serious RTA.

ReneBumsWombats · 02/03/2023 19:31

SomeareDeluded · 02/03/2023 19:27

I would have done exactly the same by telling cyclist to get off pavement. Sadly it seems everyone is looking for someone to blame.

I once asked someone to pick up their litter on the pavement. If it had blown in the road and they attempted to pick it up and got run down by a car - AM I Responsible?

Personally pedestrian needs to appeal. What the hell is this world coming to?

The pedestrian was possibly in shock, and not mentally competent to hang around after a serious RTA.

So you know it can easily result in a death but you'd still do it?

FingerPuppet · 02/03/2023 19:33

Disabled people should be able to walk down a footpath without fear of cyclists mowing them down.

Regardless of whether you should be able to walk down a footpath without fear of a cyclist mowing you down, you have no right to push that cyclist into moving traffic, and you will be punished for it.

And I hardly think a 77 year old cyclist was “mowing” anyone down…

Nooyoiknooyoik · 02/03/2023 19:33

ReneBumsWombats · 02/03/2023 19:31

So you know it can easily result in a death but you'd still do it?

It does not “easily” result in a death.
It was an accident.

SomeareDeluded · 02/03/2023 19:39

ReneBumsWombats · 02/03/2023 19:31

So you know it can easily result in a death but you'd still do it?

The pedestrian was partly sighted and probably very scared with a cyclist coming towards her. According to the council, they couldn't confirm it was a 'shared use' path.

Nooyoiknooyoik · 02/03/2023 19:40

Fladdermus · 02/03/2023 19:16

The woman did touch the cyclist. She admitted it in her police interview.

But whether she admitted it or not, the video shows that she didn’t.

GooseberryCinnamonYogurt · 02/03/2023 19:41

Mumsnetter police investigating another crime. They have so little to do - too much time on their hands.
Keyboard warriors.
Sad

jamimmi · 02/03/2023 19:42

Having watched the video I feel the pedestrian is not actually at fault and this was a tragic accident caused by shared spaces . Dh is sight impaired he has been knocked down twice on pavements by cyclists and.felled one. All quite obviously missed his white cane , in fact all yelled at him and said are u blind. The response of yes got further abuse in 2 cases. They all failed to spot his guide cane being use in a similar.way to this woman's hand but lower, how he was trained by the RNIB. It would have felled her in the same way. What would the response have been to that?

SomeareDeluded · 02/03/2023 19:42

The Highway Code states this more emphatically, stating in Rule 64 that “You MUST NOT cycle on a pavement”. It also advises that cyclists “take care when passing pedestrians, especially children, older or disabled people, and allow them plenty of room”.

SomeareDeluded · 02/03/2023 19:42

It was a tragic accident!!

Dutchesss · 02/03/2023 19:43

The cyclist failed to cycle with due care and attention. It was an accident. She didn't check the traffic before moving into it.

Have you seen the CCTV? She was pushed into it. The pedestrian admitted making contact, the contact caused the car accident.

Dominoeffecter · 02/03/2023 19:43

SomeareDeluded · 02/03/2023 19:42

It was a tragic accident!!

Fascinating that you know more about it than the judge and jury.

Fladdermus · 02/03/2023 19:43

Nooyoiknooyoik · 02/03/2023 19:40

But whether she admitted it or not, the video shows that she didn’t.

The videos shows that she did. Watch it again, the slow motion one. You clearly see in the last few frames the moment she pushes her and the cyclist falls off her bike as a result.

Nooyoiknooyoik · 02/03/2023 19:45

PlaitBilledDuckyPuss · 02/03/2023 16:53

Yes, I am certainly not against friends and family having a chance to speak, but it shouldn't form part of the court proceedings - it shouldn't be relevant to the guilt or sentencing of the perpetrator.

Absolutely! Always thought this.

Dominoeffecter · 02/03/2023 19:46

Nooyoiknooyoik · 02/03/2023 19:40

But whether she admitted it or not, the video shows that she didn’t.

🤯🤯

Nooyoiknooyoik · 02/03/2023 19:46

Weefreetiffany · 02/03/2023 17:16

I’m just not seeing in the video what others are convinced of, but @Xol has made the most sense regarding the case as a whole.

This earlier comment by @UthredofBattenberg speaks volumes to me:
”I know the cases aren't exactly aligned, but how can this man kill a teenage girl after shouting "move cause I'm not stopping" hitting her with his bike causing her death, get fined £2200 www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1032894/Parents-anguish-killer-cyclist-walks-away-just-fine.html

Yet, this lady gets three years in prison?”

it seems when a car or bike is used and causes death it is minimised away, yet this lady might have lightly touched someone she shouted at, is deemed to have caused manslaughter and gets three years. This is not to minimise the loss of the cyclist and the others involved in the event, but the justice system is unbalanced here.

Hear hear!
Bizarre and very troubling - both decisions.

OneTC · 02/03/2023 19:50

Nooyoiknooyoik · 02/03/2023 19:40

But whether she admitted it or not, the video shows that she didn’t.

Crikey

Playingchesswithpigeons · 02/03/2023 19:50

maddening · 02/03/2023 07:37

Tbh the waving was not wild, she just moves her hand back and forth in front of her body. She does not wave it in the path of the cyclist, her entire body is ij the path of the cyclist, the cyclist should of stopped, she left herself no choice but to either hit the pedestrian or move in to the road which she did without checking for cars, having seen the footage apart from saying loudly "get off the fucking pavement " I don't see how she is at fault, the cyclist should have seen the lady ahead and adjusted her speed or dismounted to walk past, she was literally cycling at the pedestrian who did not change her direction or speed and the waving did not take any extra space as it was in front of her body.

Fully agree with this poster. Having just watched news on catch up, I asked husband "why has the woman been prosecuted? on what grounds" Husband says " she made her cycle into traffic" she didn't she was being horribly aggressive and nasty.
Taught both my children, if you're cycling on a pavement near elderly, family, get off your bike and walk past, before riding again.
Devastating terrible news for the cyclist family.

xsquared · 02/03/2023 19:55

Nooyoiknooyoik · 02/03/2023 19:40

But whether she admitted it or not, the video shows that she didn’t.

The pedestrian is partially out of view in this video, but to me, it does look like she pushed the cyclist at around 15 seconds, causing her to fall into the road.

www.itv.com/news/anglia/2023-03-02/angry-pedestrian-who-killed-pavement-cyclist-77-is-jailed

Whether or not she should have been on the pavement, the pedestrian had no right to verbally abuse or touch the cyclist in any way, shape or form. Having done so, I think manslaughter is about right.

ThighMistress · 02/03/2023 19:56

@ReneBumsWombats - are you saying you should never remonstrate with a cyclist? I have, plenty of times, because I don’t relish the prospect of being bashed into at speed when I’m walking along the pavement.

The victim was a 77-year-old lady; I wonder what the consensus would be if it had been a 25-year-old man?

XanaduKira · 02/03/2023 19:57

maddening · 02/03/2023 07:37

Tbh the waving was not wild, she just moves her hand back and forth in front of her body. She does not wave it in the path of the cyclist, her entire body is ij the path of the cyclist, the cyclist should of stopped, she left herself no choice but to either hit the pedestrian or move in to the road which she did without checking for cars, having seen the footage apart from saying loudly "get off the fucking pavement " I don't see how she is at fault, the cyclist should have seen the lady ahead and adjusted her speed or dismounted to walk past, she was literally cycling at the pedestrian who did not change her direction or speed and the waving did not take any extra space as it was in front of her body.

Agree with this. I'm completely baffled how the pedestrian was found guilty and given a jail sentence. Sex offenders don't get such harsh treatment. It's outrageous.

Dominoeffecter · 02/03/2023 19:57

Nooyoiknooyoik · 02/03/2023 19:46

Hear hear!
Bizarre and very troubling - both decisions.

He should have got years more, doesn’t mean she should have got less.

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