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For this to have given me the serious ick?

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March12th · 27/02/2023 18:48

I was friendly with a 28 year old man. Long story short - he wanted to date me but I wanted to keep it just friends. The thing is - he never had experience with relationships and/or sexual experience - but that's not the main issue - the issue is this - he kept on saying - in the context of talking about his attitude to life - "my dad (he still lived with parents) says that I'm often a negative-saurus but sometimes I can sometimes be a positive-saurus". was like wtf??! This is the language primary school teachers used to use to us when we were 5! More red flags than a Marxist convention!

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ironhelp · 27/02/2023 20:12

FuckoffeeBeforeCoffee · 27/02/2023 19:35

Imagine getting into it with him and he saying "aren't you a hornisaurus!"

Omg this made me burst out laughing!!!

WhatInFreshHell · 27/02/2023 20:19

Cocobutt · 27/02/2023 19:20

He is 28, living with his parents and has never had a relationship or sexual experience - of course he’s immature, surely you could have guessed that without the negosaurus reference.

Negosaurus is so much better!!!

SingingSands · 27/02/2023 20:24

He sounds like Ross from Friends😁

Ludo19 · 27/02/2023 20:40

ItchyBillco · 27/02/2023 19:32

Sounds like he’s going to have to be a Wankysaurus for a little bit longer, doesn’t it?

🏆 🏆 🏆 🤣🤣🤣

JMSA · 27/02/2023 20:45

neverknowinglyunreasonable · 27/02/2023 18:50

I think saying things like that might be linked to having no sexual experience

This Grin

Kangarude · 27/02/2023 20:47

Using the word 'ick' is on a par. You could have been a match made in heaven

NCSQ · 27/02/2023 20:54

yes I found love - and not in a 'hopeless place' as Rihanna would have us believe

I was on your side until this OP. Bit pot kettle black to call him twee.

FionaMac64 · 27/02/2023 21:09

NCSQ · 27/02/2023 20:54

yes I found love - and not in a 'hopeless place' as Rihanna would have us believe

I was on your side until this OP. Bit pot kettle black to call him twee.

@NCSQ - forgive me - o was trying to grow a sense of humour ..

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