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What will happen if I'm behind on paying for the trip?

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UndertheCedartree · 25/02/2023 10:17

Really worrying about this. I have spoken to school about it but not been given a response. So just wanted to see what is usual procedure.

In December I signed my DD up for the Y6 residential trip. In January we found out the cost - £350 😮 A payment plan was set up for those who couldn't afford to pay it outright. £50 in Jan, £100 in Feb, £100 in March, £50 in April and £50 in May. Trip is end of June.

I'm on a low income and I'm struggling with the payments. I've paid the £50 for Jan and I've saved up £30 so far for the February payment.

Will my DD not be allowed to go if I haven't paid it all by May or even June? It would crush her. I wouldn't not pay but I wish it could have been spread out longer to pay. £100 out of a month's budget is so much! It's my DC's birthdays in March and April and I had a large unexpected expense in January too 😥

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UndertheCedartree · 25/02/2023 11:46

Ayeitsme · 25/02/2023 11:19

I take it you've emailed them and not had a response? If that's the case, try not to worry, they are probably looking at working something out. Give them a call or grab a teacher on Monday

I messaged one of the pastoral care teachers on Monday. Followed up on Thursday. She did say she will see what she can find out. I've just been worrying. But will hopefully hear something next week.

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UndertheCedartree · 25/02/2023 11:51

Badhairday101 · 25/02/2023 11:19

I manage pupil premium at my school and it absolutely doesn't have to be used solely for academic purposes. You can find all the info on the pupil premium government website. I would definitely be taking this up with the school.

I've looked at the website and seems the school are right. It says PP should be spent on:

high-quality teaching, such as staff professional development
targeted academic support, such as tutoring
wider strategies to address non-academic barriers to success in schools, such as attendance, behaviour, and social and emotional support

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CantFindTheBeat · 25/02/2023 11:53

Ah, OP, I'm so sorry you have to worry about this.

Things that come up feel like the most important things in our child's world at the time, don't they, and we so want to make sure they get them. It's really hard.

You are being brilliantly proactive. I imagine there are many people who would out their head in the sand until the last minute (which can also be understandable).

You are doing the best you can and paying what you can.

A PP had a good idea to write to the Head, formally and in confidence, asking for a reduced rate or a longer payment plan.

You are taking positive action and that's the best thing you can do x,

UndertheCedartree · 25/02/2023 11:54

FoxInSocksSatOnBlocks · 25/02/2023 11:39

You can ask them to spread out the payments but if they won’t then of course they won’t let her go.

Luckily, it sounds as if that isn't the case in very many schools, so hopefully will be the case for DD.

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UndertheCedartree · 25/02/2023 11:55

IhearyouClemFandango · 25/02/2023 11:42

DD missed out on her yr 6 trip cause of COVID, but I remember at the time that DH paid for an extra couple of places (he was feeling flush at the time 🙄) to go into a pot for for those who were struggling. It all ended up coming back to us obviously but you may well find that there is a fund for helping.

I'm sorry your DD missed out. But that's so kind of your DH.

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UndertheCedartree · 25/02/2023 12:00

pensionconfusion · 25/02/2023 11:42

Set up something to raise funds. It could be a sponsored walk/run, bake sale, craft sale...whatever you think you could organise for as little money as possible.

Even sell old clothes on Vinted, Facebook and eBay.

It can be done but takes a bit of effort.

You reminded me I have been having a big sort out of books that I'm planning to sell on Ziffit - comes to about £30. My DD is just constantly growing at the moment. She has just increased her shoe size for the second time since September. I'm planning to sell her shoes as almost brand new - but tbh, I'll need that money for food.

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UndertheCedartree · 25/02/2023 12:04

pensionconfusion · 25/02/2023 11:44

For a trip my daughter had a few years ago I made little bracelets for around 30p each and sold them to family and on Facebook for £1.50 each. It soon adds up.

My DD actually loves making bracelets! She got a kit for Christmas! Wonder if they'd let her sell them at school?

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Trinity65 · 25/02/2023 12:08

No idea if it happens at your DDs school but its worth asking the SENCO at the school.
I had told my DS that I am sorry but he would not be able to go on the school journey as I just could not pay He was fine about it as it goes
Anyway, I was asked to see the SENCO one afternoon after school and she said the School had decided that funds would pay for my Son to go as he was a Loner and they felt it would do him good and he should go.
I was very grateful and , in the end, he did have a good time.
Best of Luck

UndertheCedartree · 25/02/2023 12:09

CantFindTheBeat · 25/02/2023 11:53

Ah, OP, I'm so sorry you have to worry about this.

Things that come up feel like the most important things in our child's world at the time, don't they, and we so want to make sure they get them. It's really hard.

You are being brilliantly proactive. I imagine there are many people who would out their head in the sand until the last minute (which can also be understandable).

You are doing the best you can and paying what you can.

A PP had a good idea to write to the Head, formally and in confidence, asking for a reduced rate or a longer payment plan.

You are taking positive action and that's the best thing you can do x,

Yes, I want everything for my DC. I never want them to have to miss out, I never want them to feel different from their friends and excluded 😥

Thanks for being so kind. It's actually made me cry. I am doing my best and I'm so grateful for all the advice on this thread. I feel I have a clearer action plan in my head and much closer to being able to make the payments.

Thank you, all.

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Poscapen · 25/02/2023 12:11

Speak to the school. Also read this - PP funding can be used for extra-curricular activities including trips. However it's worth being aware that PP isn't an individual grant for a specified child, parents don't have the right to demand that the funding their child attracts is spent only on them.

assets.publishing.service.gov.uk/government/uploads/system/uploads/attachment_data/file/1066915/Using_pupil_premium_guidance_for_school_leaders.pdf

UndertheCedartree · 25/02/2023 12:12

Trinity65 · 25/02/2023 12:08

No idea if it happens at your DDs school but its worth asking the SENCO at the school.
I had told my DS that I am sorry but he would not be able to go on the school journey as I just could not pay He was fine about it as it goes
Anyway, I was asked to see the SENCO one afternoon after school and she said the School had decided that funds would pay for my Son to go as he was a Loner and they felt it would do him good and he should go.
I was very grateful and , in the end, he did have a good time.
Best of Luck

Oh, that's brilliant and I'm glad he ended up having a good time ☺️

My DD is actually under the SENCO, so I could have a word with her.

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Poscapen · 25/02/2023 12:12

Your school probably has a Family Liaison Officer, who would be a good first point of contact.

countdowntonap · 25/02/2023 12:13

Apparently, the government now says PP has to be used for academics. This is absolutely not true. Is your school in a high deprivation area? Our school gets approx. £500,000 year PP funding, but it may be that your school receives much less and so the spending may have been used to cover TA costs. You will be able to see on the school website a breakdown of how the school spent their PP funding last year.

Hope your get the support you need from school.

UndertheCedartree · 25/02/2023 12:16

Poscapen · 25/02/2023 12:11

Speak to the school. Also read this - PP funding can be used for extra-curricular activities including trips. However it's worth being aware that PP isn't an individual grant for a specified child, parents don't have the right to demand that the funding their child attracts is spent only on them.

assets.publishing.service.gov.uk/government/uploads/system/uploads/attachment_data/file/1066915/Using_pupil_premium_guidance_for_school_leaders.pdf

Oh, I see it actually says trips. The wider areas that money could be spent on didn't sound like it included trips. Thank you for that, I'll see what school say. But as you say it isn't a personal budget and they may have just decided to spend it on different things now, rather than trips.

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Confusedteacher · 25/02/2023 12:20

At my school all students who qualify for PP automatically only have to pay half for trips. And in particular cases the school will pay more than that. I would keep asking the school and if they don’t give a clear answer maybe contact the governors?

user1494050295 · 25/02/2023 12:23

Tinkerbyebye · 25/02/2023 10:53

@user1494050295

Read the post

Ty. Missed this . Sorry. As others have said see if you can extend this

SpicedPumpkinLatte · 25/02/2023 12:23

UndertheCedartree · 25/02/2023 11:51

I've looked at the website and seems the school are right. It says PP should be spent on:

high-quality teaching, such as staff professional development
targeted academic support, such as tutoring
wider strategies to address non-academic barriers to success in schools, such as attendance, behaviour, and social and emotional support

Nope. It suggests that the PP is most effective when targeted at those interventions. You can 100% challenge the school on this. While they have no obligation to spend it on subsidising your DC's trip, it's extremely worrying that they are inaccurately interpreting guidance.

Badhairday101 · 25/02/2023 12:27

UndertheCedartree · 25/02/2023 11:51

I've looked at the website and seems the school are right. It says PP should be spent on:

high-quality teaching, such as staff professional development
targeted academic support, such as tutoring
wider strategies to address non-academic barriers to success in schools, such as attendance, behaviour, and social and emotional support

Trips like this are wider strategies and benefit pupils social, emotional, wellbeing and mental health. Pupils from economically disadvantaged households should have the same access to exciting and inspirational experiences in school as every other pupil.
Budgets are stretched but I would take it up with the school as she shouldn't miss out. You won't be the only parent in this situation.

WeepingSomnambulist · 25/02/2023 12:37

This is really terribly planned by the school and such short notice for so much money each money.

My son's residential is in April. We were given the info back in August and the payment plan was handed out just giving dates when each part was to be paid. I think it was £100 by October, £100 by January and £100 by March.

We had loads of notice and the cost was spread out.

Your school screwed this up. Sorry to hear they've put you in this position.

WombatChocolate · 25/02/2023 12:39

I’m sorry you’re in this position OP and that the school haven’t foreseen this will be an issue for people and got measures in places already to deal with it, which are made clear to people, so the anxiety you’re feeling can be avoided.

It’s such a difficult one. School budgets are struggling and schools often get burned when running trips with not enough income. It makes them very cautious with organising these as they can’t afford to run them without sufficient parental contributions. You will pay, even if afterwards, but some families will say they will pay afterwards …..and then won’t. And the tight school budgets can’t cope with that. And it’s so difficult with telling everyone that financial help is available, when funds are very tight, and people could pay might apply for it and there then won’t be enough parental payments. In a sense, schools can’t win. They want to help people, but by advertising help too widely, it can mean so many ask it’s not viable. But then, by not advertising any help, those who really need it can miss out on accessing it.

However, even though they’ve out in place a payment plan, as you say, it’s not over a long enough period for people at the moment. It’s sometimes difficult for schools to book far enough in advance and get info out to parents to allow for a bigger window, but it’s something they need to work on.

I think you’ll find that having contacted the school, they will be sympathetic to you and do what they can to help….and really won’t want your DC not to go. Please rest assured that your DC will be on the trip. They might be able to offer you some financial help with the trip (have you asked for it? - no shame in asking. They will be honest about if they have money for that or not) or at least adjust the payments to help you.

I’d bet money on the fact your DC will be on this trip and the school will be prepared to do stuff to make that happen. Please try not to worry…although I know that’s easy to say.

Iyjd · 25/02/2023 12:42

On the letter it should have said voluntary contribution, when I organised a trip I wasn’t allowed to send out my letter with it phrased as “the cost of the trip is….” Because as my headteacher explained to me as a school we cannot discriminate based on a parents earnings, we sometimes might put if we don’t get enough contributions then it won’t go ahead but that means if 40% of parents don’t pay we won’t be able to afford it! I would work out what you can afford, without too much of a struggle and offer that as your contribution. Before you offer it though budget for anything you might need to buy your child for the trip so you can still afford that. You won’t be the only parent I promise. I took 30 students on a trip and about half paid, some contacted to say they couldn’t afford it and some signed the consent form but then just didn’t pay.

Whiteroomjoy · 25/02/2023 12:46

Singleandproud · 25/02/2023 10:27

Does your child receive pupil premium? You may not have received a response yet because they are looking into different funding avenues.

The child who is going on the trip gets trip things as birthday presents this year, wellies, waterproofs, wash bag etc. Any family who might normally give cash gifts ask to contribute to the trip instead.

Another option would be to suggest and organise a fundraising event that could be used to decrease the price of the entire trip for everyone. At DDs school the year 6s were given £20 per group (£2.50 per child in groups of 8) to make a hamper and they could use donations from home, they then sold raffle tickets before and after school and at the Easter fayre where they did the prize draw which decreased the price by a fairly large amount.

I hate this kind of fund raising at schools

baiscally there is a sub set of parent who organise it, the same set donate prizes, and then the same set buy the raffle tickets. It’s just moving stuff from one house to another or one person bank account to another, while that recipient is doing the reverse

save everyone the work in orgnasaing it and just ask for donations.

alternatively, stop being so blinkered with fund raising concepts and go outside the school community .we had a very enterprising school that put on the local fire work display. It grew and grey until it was attended by people for. Villages in a 5-6 miles radius. They used a local hall that donated their parkland as the site they used, couldn’t normally go in so that alone would draw a crowd. They put on hog roasts , and other food and drink, and they’d raise £1000s per year. It was their only fund raising event and the majority of money they made came from families and people outside of their school catchment .including us 🤣

stop with the circulating money “fundraisers “ pleas. It’s a waste of effort, time and frankly the parents who are contributing get fed up becuase the others don’t/can’t/won’t

reesewithoutaspoon · 25/02/2023 12:52

Could you ask your parents for some of it and pay them back instead over longer period?

LoveQuinnOhDearyMe · 25/02/2023 12:52

I’m rather shocked it’s so little warning. My first school I worked at started the Y6 residential payments at the start of Year 4 to ensure everyone has the greatest chance to go, plus an annual non uniform day to raise money for the PTA which the PTA then put in the residential pot to help those in need of financial help.

Poscapen · 25/02/2023 12:56

Confusedteacher · 25/02/2023 12:20

At my school all students who qualify for PP automatically only have to pay half for trips. And in particular cases the school will pay more than that. I would keep asking the school and if they don’t give a clear answer maybe contact the governors?

People are assuming that the school won't help, but Op hasn't contacted them yet.

Re contacting the governors - that would be follow the school complaints procedure, the first stage of which will be to formally make a complaint to the HT. Governors get involved at a later formal stage if needed.

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