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Mocking Christianity

603 replies

Ihatepcos · 21/02/2023 20:45

I am so sick of people thinking it's okay to ridicule Catholicism and Christianity. This is especially apparent on Mumsnet. Every time there's a thread about religion I can't even read the replies because they're so awful.

The same doesn't seem to apply to the Muslim, Jewish, Hindu faiths etc.

If you don't believe in God that is your choice. But purposely mocking someone's faith and calling it a load of bullshit (and worse) is just not acceptable. So many people turn to faith to help them through extremely tough times in life and you are mocking the only thing that is keeping them going.

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Idkrealorfake · 22/02/2023 00:03

ZenNudist · 21/02/2023 21:00

I agree but i just don't read the threads. I have wondered before why mumsnet HQ allow such hate speech and yet will police homophobia, racism etc.

Much more respectful to other religions here.

It's not like that IRL. I work with lots of people from different cultures who were really interested today asking me about the religious significance of pancake day. No one felt the need to castigate me or share opinions about my faith. Even though I know one colleague is observant Muslim and another Hindu.

Have you asked any Buddhists if they find your username respectful of their religion?

Seems a bit like mockery to me.

Idkrealorfake · 22/02/2023 00:06

RampantIvy · 21/02/2023 22:49

Christians have inflicted enormous damage on people of their own and other faiths and continue to do so.

That has never ever been the sole preserve of Christians. What about all the Islamic terrorist groups? Stalin? Putin? The Khmer Rouge, Kim Jong-un and other dictators?

I agree with you@Ihatepcos. I'm not religious, but I don't mock people who are. It says more about the people who sneer at people who have a faith than the people they are mocking.

So... You're suggesting no one should mock terrorists, Stalin or other baddies either?

Or, maybe we can criticise them all for the damage they've done?

Notwavingbutsignalling · 22/02/2023 01:03

What I struggle with is the personal attacks rather than the criticism of an aspect of a faith.

so, someone up thread has talked about bishops in the House of Lords, others mention school worship, etc.

I don’t understand why it is ok to lash out at Christian’s because of the clergy when Christianity is a bout a relationship with God and many Christians themselves have issue with the rules.

it is like punishing those who are trying to do their best often under huge personal difficulty for the association with the wider Church hierarchy - and Christianity is a huge umbrella term that has Catholicism, Quakers, Baptists etc all under the one roof.

Surely most adults know that the mature thing to do with something they are angry about is to look at what is under their control? To lash out in such spiteful and rude language in such petty ways as we see on here makes me think that instead of confronting the senior figures in the Church over issues they don’t like, people instead satisfy their anger by trying to score intellectual points over those they think are stupid because they believe.

I just don’t get why you are so bothered by someone else’s faith if you don’t believe in God. What does it matter to you? And if you say it’s organised religion, abortion rights, something specific why take that one thing or several things and attack a persons faith over specifics? Do you think they haven’t thought of those things too? Just focus your wrath on doing something proactive about those things not someone’s faith. It’s bullying and it makes me want to completely withdraw sometimes.

Kingoftheroad · 22/02/2023 01:08

Thank you so much for having the courage to say this. I have raised this issue withMNHQ in the past. Also, it has become the norm/acceptable to take our Lords name in vain. The usage of this type of language towards any other faiths leaders would be seen as abhorrent but because it’s Christianity it just seems to be a fair cop

StrawHatOnTheParcelShelf · 22/02/2023 01:13

I just don’t get why you are so bothered by someone else’s faith if you don’t believe in God. What does it matter to you? And if you say it’s organised religion, abortion rights, something specific why take that one thing or several things and attack a persons faith over specifics? Do you think they haven’t thought of those things too? Just focus your wrath on doing something proactive about those things not someone’s faith. It’s bullying and it makes me want to completely withdraw sometimes.

I can only speak for myself - I have a problem with people who support, through their words, actions or money, the institutions which perpetrate these injustices and who deliberately infiltrate governments around the world to push their agenda into public policy and inflict it on everyone.

People can believe what they like - but if they're donating money to a church, they're complicit.

Idkrealorfake · 22/02/2023 01:20

Kingoftheroad · 22/02/2023 01:08

Thank you so much for having the courage to say this. I have raised this issue withMNHQ in the past. Also, it has become the norm/acceptable to take our Lords name in vain. The usage of this type of language towards any other faiths leaders would be seen as abhorrent but because it’s Christianity it just seems to be a fair cop

Are you arguing to reinstate blasphemy laws or something?

Jesus Christ.

GodisLove0 · 22/02/2023 02:01

@ZenNudist you're welcome.
There's also Proverbs 9: 7-9.

Wishing everyone a good week. 🙂

Whyisegg · 22/02/2023 02:18

The UK is officially a secular country not a 'Christian' country. If you want to experience the suffocation of growing up under the thumb of the church go back to 1930s Ireland or Italy and see how much fun that was. Corrupt priests, social control, abuses of power etc. Religion served a purpose throughout human history which is poorly understood today. Belief in God or a higher power is possible without adherence to pointless rules such as not eating prawns, relevant in the 13th century perhaps but not so essential now.

Mercurial123 · 22/02/2023 04:47

Ihatepcos · 21/02/2023 20:45

I am so sick of people thinking it's okay to ridicule Catholicism and Christianity. This is especially apparent on Mumsnet. Every time there's a thread about religion I can't even read the replies because they're so awful.

The same doesn't seem to apply to the Muslim, Jewish, Hindu faiths etc.

If you don't believe in God that is your choice. But purposely mocking someone's faith and calling it a load of bullshit (and worse) is just not acceptable. So many people turn to faith to help them through extremely tough times in life and you are mocking the only thing that is keeping them going.

I have many issues with the RC Church, and as I live in a democracy I get to say what I think. I'm thinking of getting ex communicated.

RampantIvy · 22/02/2023 06:42

I see religious tolerance is alive and well on this thread.

OMG12 · 22/02/2023 07:05

Idkrealorfake · 22/02/2023 01:20

Are you arguing to reinstate blasphemy laws or something?

Jesus Christ.

you’re only making it worse for yourself

Jehovah Jehovah Jehovah

or

YHVH YHVH YHVH

But we already live in a country where blasphemy exists- it’s just not Christianity’s God. Or any of the Gods of the old testament

it’s the God of the Brave New World.

All of it is about control - controlling peoples words is controlling the expression and ultimately creation of thoughts

of Muslims can’t handle a cartoon and think it’s ok to stab someone because of it they’re cunts

sane with someone objecting to someone saying Jesus Christ.

stop trying to make everyone think like you and accommodate you.

I’ll respect all religions but not people behaving like dictators about it..

OMG12 · 22/02/2023 07:12

TheDogthatDug · 21/02/2023 22:35

Any religion is fair game to have the piss taken out of for me. Believing in a supernatural entity that has some influence over our lives is irrational imo. If God is real then so is Father Christmas.

Presumably you are someone who believes in logic? Or is that another false inference?

BrightYellowDaffodil · 22/02/2023 07:18

I was going to say YANBU when I saw the title but having read your comments, YABU.

I’M from a Catholic background and was raised vaguely Christian. That’s not my religion now, I have a different faith. I can absolutely see why religions can be seen as they are, they make no sense, logically speaking, and that’s before you get to the horrendous abuses and crimes carried out in the name of religion. I don’t think any religion should be above criticism, and I sure as hell criticise Catholicism, the church and its behaviour.

You seem to think you shouldn’t have to hear an opinion you don’t like on the subject and that’s tough. Religious belief IS a protected characteristic, but only in the sense that you can’t be discriminated against on that basis. It’s not a protective little bubble.

Kingoftheroad · 22/02/2023 07:27

Not at all: I always try to go by the bible principle “strive not to give offence and strive not to take offence”. Have a great day

Againstmachine · 22/02/2023 07:30

Religious belief IS a protected characteristic, but only in the sense that you can’t be discriminated against on that basis. It’s not a protective little bubble.

Indeed, If the religious want to keep chucking this little nugget out, you also can't be discriminated against for your lack of belief eitheir.

JassyRadlett · 22/02/2023 07:32

so, someone up thread has talked about bishops in the House of Lords, others mention school worship, etc.

I don’t understand why it is ok to lash out at Christian’s because of the clergy when Christianity is a bout a relationship with God and many Christians themselves have issue with the rules.

I raised both those things, and I certainly didn't say it was 'ok' to lash out at Christians for their faith.

But I've been on plenty time of Mumsnet threads where I've been accused of attacking Christians, or asked 'why don't [I] just leave Christians alone, why aren't you focused on other faiths' when the focus of my arguments is on 'attacking' the role of the main Christian sects in public life, particularly the established church and the role of the CofE and RC churches in state education.

I'm not going to call individual Christians names or attack them for their faith. But I'm not going to smile sweetly and just suck up a deeply unfair and divisive situation. And if in those discussions people quote the Bible at me, or argue Christianity as fact rather than faith I'll use my knowledge of the Bible and how it was formulated, the rise of monotheism and other historical sources to point out the problems with their argument.

Nowt as annoying as a former Christian with a degree of historical knowledge, I know. I know a lot more about Christianity than I do about, say, Islam or Judaism. But then, Islam and Judaism aren't shoving themselves in my face. Christianity (nb NOT individual Christians) seems determined to keep itself in my life, and so it's fair game for criticism and debate.

cakeorwine · 22/02/2023 07:34

Just a reminder that our values are not Christian based.

Unless those values were not around before Christianity existed. I am sure some people thought that killing others was immoral. And you should try and do good.

Can someone who does believe our values and laws are Christian based give some examples and explain why they think they are Christian based - instead of ways of behaving that people have tried to follow before the 10 Commandments (And it's a bit hypocritical of the Judeo Christian God to command "Though shalt not kill") *

*Unless they live in Sodam and Gomorrah

ThisNameIsNotAvailable · 22/02/2023 07:47

OMG12 · 21/02/2023 23:14

Islam or probably more specifically Sufism had quite an impact late medieval, to the beginning of the very early early modern period intellectual movements in Europe. Some of the most important works of Hermeticism translated by Ficino appear to have come from Muslim areas (although they are likely to predate Islam they themselves were probably influential on Sufism)

The expulsion of the Jews form the Iberian Peninsula in 1492 was important in the spreading of Kabbalah esp when adopted by people such as Richelieu et al.

neo platonism was also influential during the reformation period

people like Bacon, Dee and the Elizabethan court circle were doing their thing.

obviously all of this was underpinned by concepts and mythologies going back to Mesopotamia, Babylon, Egypt, prob some Far Eastern influence.

Ancient greek philosophy and work on mathematics obviously had an impact.

in truth everyone has had an impact, growth never came from those trying to maintain the status quo. Many of those who did push the boundaries eg Bruno, aggripa suffered.

todays culture and even the cultures we claim were its bedrock were in turn influenced by a wide variety of other cultures. It’s why cultural appropriation is a joke! There was an article the other day in one of the broadsheets of some idiot flogging himself about how he felt terrible about teaching yoga and appropriation- didn’t even stop to think most of modern yoga poses are Scandinavian gymnastics/British military exercises nicked during the days of Empire.

There’s never one right answer. Even if accepted Christianity as a bedrock there’s hundreds of different influences that have shaped Christianity.

what Christianity has been of over 1500 years in Europe is the filter through which Europeans have viewed all other cultures

This is a brilliant post, so interesting

electricmoccasins · 22/02/2023 07:58

“your right to swing your fist ends where my nose begins”

triforcetotem · 22/02/2023 08:33

Kingoftheroad · 22/02/2023 01:08

Thank you so much for having the courage to say this. I have raised this issue withMNHQ in the past. Also, it has become the norm/acceptable to take our Lords name in vain. The usage of this type of language towards any other faiths leaders would be seen as abhorrent but because it’s Christianity it just seems to be a fair cop

You want mumsnet to stop people saying oh my god? JFC good luck with that.

Brefugee · 22/02/2023 08:36

Agreed. People would do well to remember that Christian values are the bedrock of civilisation as we know it.

(Have not RTFT)
It is this kind of daft comment that makes me mock it. I'm an athiest. I don't need a deity or a book written 2,000 years ago by men living in a completely different society to the one i inhabit to tell me what "civilisation" is.
The Greeks and Romans and Chinese had very well developed civilisations and cultures way way before Christ turned up.

So you can keep your "moral selves" to yourselves, and the rest of us will get on with our lives. And if you do stupid, silly thing? we will point and laugh.

Lentilweaver · 22/02/2023 08:44

Lol at the idea that Christian values are the bedrock of civilisation. White civilisation? There were other civilisations, you know. Look up the Indus Valley civilisation.

All religions should be made fun of. Especially by women. Because all religions are shit for women.

Xol · 22/02/2023 08:46

RampantIvy · 21/02/2023 22:49

Christians have inflicted enormous damage on people of their own and other faiths and continue to do so.

That has never ever been the sole preserve of Christians. What about all the Islamic terrorist groups? Stalin? Putin? The Khmer Rouge, Kim Jong-un and other dictators?

I agree with you@Ihatepcos. I'm not religious, but I don't mock people who are. It says more about the people who sneer at people who have a faith than the people they are mocking.

How does the fact that others have inflicted enormous damage make it OK that Christians have done so?

SerendipityJane · 22/02/2023 09:09

The UK is officially a secular country not a 'Christian' country.

Has anyone told our Head of State ?

OMG12 · 22/02/2023 09:09

electricmoccasins · 22/02/2023 07:58

“your right to swing your fist ends where my nose begins”

Obviously if you are a non- dualist there’s no such concept as your fists and my nose - bloody western centric philosophy!