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AIBU to think the UK is more tolerant of dogs than children

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playgroundwarrior · 14/02/2023 13:55

This morning an entitled dog owner shouted at me for pointing out that she wasn't allowed her (offlead) dog in our local playground. The dog was nosing around in our pushchair and hurtling around. The owner said she had seen the notices to say 'no dogs allowed except assistance dogs' but that hers was a puppy and that I needed to get a life! She genuinely thought her dog was as important as our children (she didn't have her own child and was with a friend)

This made me think about all the threads I've seen here about noisy toddlers in cafes and small children blocking the stairs. Last night I read someone moaning about the sounds of Peppa Pig on the bus.

I appreciate that the above examples of toddler behaviour are objectively annoying (mine frequently annoys me) but I'm beginning to think there's greater tolerance of dogs in this country than toddlers.

I've seen so many toddlers knocked over by offlead dogs and our 3 year old neighbour was pinned down by one last year, which was sort of just accepted as something that happens.

Since the pandemic, everyone seems to have a dog and the culture feels much more dog orientated than child oriented. I'd love a nice cafe or pub with a sign welcoming kids and a nice play area for them but have never seen one in my area, yet there are many signs welcoming dogs with treats and bowls.

Fully appreciate there are inconsiderate parents of toddlers and great dog owners who have perfect recall etc! I quite like most dogs but am
starting to feel the UK has its priorities very muddled.

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OP posts:
Flossflower · 25/07/2023 15:10

TifT · 14/02/2023 21:16

I’m in my 50’s and I’ve never seen a toddler knocked over by a dog yet you have seen loads.

It happened to me as a toddler. It knocked me over and then started licking me! Despite the owner telling my mum ‘it was just being friendly’ ( I hate that phrase!), I still have a lifelong fear of dogs. This is despite me growing up with a dog! Since I rarely walk alone and usually with my husband my fear has just made me cross with with owners of dogs that let them approach me.
I always tell owners to get their dogs out of children’s playgrounds.

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