At the weekend we went out for something to eat, me, husband and two children (son 7 and daughter 8). When we got into the resturant there was a little argument between kids on where they were going to sit. Son raised his voice a little and refused to sit down, I dealt with it and after 30 secs he did sit where I had told him to. Nothing so bad it needed anymore said.
Husband came back from the bar and grabbed son off his chair and took him outside, I am not sure all of what was said. Son came back and after husband had gone back to the bar son told me his Dad had called him a little girl! He said Dad said girls moaned and that was what he was doing! He was upset about it.
I have spoken to husband about it as i think its disgusting he is saying that but he doesn't see anything wrong with it.
Have I overreacted?