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To wonder how my Aunty Margaret is still alive?

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Marie2023 · 12/02/2023 06:54

My Aunty Margaret has just turned 70. She’s 15 years older than me and all the time I’ve known her she has been an alcoholic. She hasn’t been invited to any family gatherings since the 90s because she always gets drunk, causes a scene and ruins the event. She hasn’t had a job for years but has a partner who looks after her financially.

Aunty Margaret currently drinks a litre bottle of vodka during the day and more drinks when her partner gets home from work. She also smokes around 60 cigarettes a day. She rarely eats and is stick thin.

Recently Margaret wasn’t feeling very well so her partner took her to the doctor. The doctor ordered some tests which came back fine. His summary of the situation was: “Margaret is as fit as a fiddle, although should probably consider drinking and smoking a bit less.”

🤔

I am honestly amazed she’s still alive, let alone “fit as a fiddle”. Why is it that some people can abuse themselves like that for years with no consequences?

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LindorDoubleChoc · 14/02/2023 19:52

I think this is very interesting.

I read a study (prob very small) about high achieving Californians vs working class rural French people. Although the French smoked and drank a whole lot more than the Californians (probably 100% more in many cases) they lived longer - it was thought due to lack of stress.

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