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AIBU?

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To be terrified of the coming summer?

970 replies

screamingbanshees · 10/02/2023 07:49

Last year there were 24,000+ heat-related deaths due to the heatwave, and the temperatures here were astronomical. It was the worst summer I've ever experienced, sweating constantly, sticking to every surface, always dehydrated, warm water coming out the cold tap, and sweating as soon as I stepped out of the bath. I also had a very unhappy, sweaty, screamy 1.5 year old!

AIBU to be absolutely dreading this year? Apparently the Met Office has claimed 2023 will have an even hotter summer. I don't know if I can bear it again. DP and I are thinking of booking a holiday just to be somewhere liveable. This is also the first winter I've actually enjoyed because of the relief from the heat.

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pteradactyl · 11/02/2023 19:47

I'm in the Midlands and we had several weeks of alternating unbearable and slightly bearable hot weather. I do despise the heat though, but whilst I don't feel as strongly as you, I can understand dreading it!

I agree with pp's, save the holiday money and buy an ac unit

Pardon44 · 11/02/2023 19:48

Just be thankful you'll be able to turn the heating off. The bills are astronomical. Even in the hotest days last year we didn't have a fan on.

OntarioBagnet · 11/02/2023 19:49

lionsandwhales · 11/02/2023 19:47

picnics, splash parks, late evening meals in the garden, splashing in the sea.
Just get prepped: shades for windows, fans, ice packs for everyone at bedtime (really…in a pillow case and put under your feet..lush) Iced water to hand, face wipes or cold flannels stored in the fridge , ice pops, salads. Create a shady area in your garden, get a small paddling pool ( easy to empty and clean and more environmentally friendly then a big pool). It can get too much when there are too many super hot days and nights in a row …head to the coast ( for breeze) or local woodland park (shady and cool) loads of free splash parks around. Evening walks by the river. Tire everyone out and the sleep will come, even to the most irritable of beings.

Or go to work and spend the day in a boiling building!

MysteryBelle · 11/02/2023 19:50

You’re terrified? You should be terrified of the people who tell you for global warming’s sake you must suffer and restrict your air conditioning and heating and water usage and food and electricity and oil and travel etc and pay extra high costs yet they don’t abide by those restrictions. In fact they flaunt them. Because they are in a special category unlike you. That’s what you should be terrified of.

mia778 · 11/02/2023 19:51

Live in Dubai then you will feel heat

NewNovember · 11/02/2023 19:53

Yabu it doesn't get above 31/32 in the U.K. and that's very rare. It's really not that hot just pleasantly warm. Pleased to see it will be hotter this year though I love nice weather.

QueenCamilla · 11/02/2023 19:53

I loved it.

I only understand that being in London or Bristol would be unpleasant (but it always is and has been on a hot-ish summer's day)

It was only a week or so that I noticed people not clamoring to get the sunny side seats in the outdoor cafés.

Longleggedgiraffe · 11/02/2023 19:58

I'm struggling to come to terms with the fact that there are people who hate the heat. Hsving lived in Italy and worked in 40° heat I just get on with it. I stay out of direct sun and avoid exertion when it's too hot, otherwise I'm embracing it.
Unfortunately, the weather is outside anyone's control, so you have to find ways of coming to terms with it. f it's really bad for you, why not get a portable AirCon unit?

Timeturnerplease · 11/02/2023 19:59

It was painful in the South East. I normally love the heat, but had a couple of weeks where work was pretty unbearable. I am a primary teacher, and our poor children were in stifling classrooms for six hours a day thanks to our playground only having one strip of shade.

I sympathise OP, I hated it. However, looking back it was only two really bad weeks a few more that were just very uncomfortable.

OhYouBadBadKitten · 11/02/2023 20:01

Those headlines were a misinterpretation. The Met Office were predicting that the global average temperature this year could be higher than last year.

Last year the UK recorded the warmest average temperature ever. Every single nation in the UK smashed its summer record. 40c was a hypothetical possibility that was actually seen for the first time ever.

So while we dont know if this coming summer will see similar temperatures, what we do know is that we are more and more likely to see these temperatures moving forward. Climate change is here. As well as trying to minimise it going forward, we all need to find ways of mitigating the effects and to learn to live with extremes.

Ihavedogs · 11/02/2023 20:03

Op I am sorry to hear that you are dreading the prospect of a hot summer.

Sadly a lot of people on here appear to have I am alright Jack attitude and perhaps were also not in one of the parts of the country where there was extreme weather. There is certainly a lack of appreciation as to how heat afffects the very young, pregnancy, the elderly or those with health conditions exacerbated by extreme heat.

The summer of 2022 was one of the four hottest on record and it was also the first time where a daily temperature of over 40 degrees was officially recorded.

I used to love the heat when I was younger and had a bring it on attitude. I don’t feel the same now that I am older. Personally I found chunks of last summer quite miserable due to the heat; nausea, dizziness and completely drained. That is despite knowing how to keep the house as cool as possible and the use of a portable air con unit and fans. I felt like we were living in a cave for a period of time as the curtains were constantly shut to keep the heat out.

MarshaBradyo · 11/02/2023 20:03

OhYouBadBadKitten · 11/02/2023 20:01

Those headlines were a misinterpretation. The Met Office were predicting that the global average temperature this year could be higher than last year.

Last year the UK recorded the warmest average temperature ever. Every single nation in the UK smashed its summer record. 40c was a hypothetical possibility that was actually seen for the first time ever.

So while we dont know if this coming summer will see similar temperatures, what we do know is that we are more and more likely to see these temperatures moving forward. Climate change is here. As well as trying to minimise it going forward, we all need to find ways of mitigating the effects and to learn to live with extremes.

Just reading this I’m not convinced purchasing air con is the answer, reading pp

It just increases the impact of climate change

Sandinyourshoes · 11/02/2023 20:06

I’ve been thinking about this as well, as the days are getting longer again. I’m in east Scotland and last summer there were dire warnings of water shortages with footage of near empty reservoirs. The heat inside the house was terrible even with windows and curtains closed all day. I wonder if leaving the loft hatch open to let heat escape upwards and out the soffit vents would help? Certainly it was breezy up there when i was brushing it out.

I wouldn’t recommend the west coast either unless you want to be eaten alive by midges on summer evenings, and the roads are awful.

bettybear21 · 11/02/2023 20:08

My DD was six months old when it was so hot last year and both of us couldn't bear it.. went to curry's and bought an air conditioner for £350 and it was the best purchase I had ever made! I would suggest getting one! (I hate summer, I'm an autumn girl)

SoftSheen · 11/02/2023 20:09

NewNovember · 11/02/2023 19:53

Yabu it doesn't get above 31/32 in the U.K. and that's very rare. It's really not that hot just pleasantly warm. Pleased to see it will be hotter this year though I love nice weather.

It was above 32 C for many weeks last year in the South of England, including several days 35C+, peaking at 40C for two days. Very far from pleasant, especially for people living in tower blocks with no garden or air conditioning.

Tomasinabombadil · 11/02/2023 20:09

I must admit that I’m dreading a heatwave again. I live in the South East with no option to move North and have never liked so called normal Summer temperatures let alone what we had last year. I have always preferred Winter weather however that’s changed to being milder & wet now. I was in my element before Christmas with the snow & ice. During the daytime last summer my dog & I stayed indoors with doors & windows shut & curtains closed & fans going full blast, but we still had to venture outside during the day for my dog to toilet, our main walks were 11pm & 6am even then it was still too warm.☹️🥵

jewishmum · 11/02/2023 20:13

Purplepepsi · 10/02/2023 07:59

We have an air con unit in one room. It's so good and we can all cram in there to sleep if we need to! We got it really cheap. It was only on for about a week though!

Where from please? Or, which one to buy? Thanks

OutDamnedSpot · 11/02/2023 20:13

I’m baffled. I can’t really remember it being hot.

lionsandwhales · 11/02/2023 20:19

all the comments about air con are freaking me out…it is too hot because of climate change. This ain’t gonna help

oosha · 11/02/2023 20:22

We are in the midlands and it was horrendous last summer, I hope to god it’s not worse this year. We invested in an air con unit which is absolutely amazing but we have to blast the place while the toddler isn’t here as they like to try and climb out of the windows that we have to put the hose out of.

loz1979 · 11/02/2023 20:25

I feel like you. It was so hot. I was teaching and sweat was dripping down my back. I don't know why people are so horrible on here. You just said it was horribly hot. And for me, I can't stop worrying about climate change

CurlyhairedAssassin · 11/02/2023 20:29

I'm with you, OP (and incidentally also in Liverpool). Cities on the coast in the UK without any proper sea breeze are particularly humid in very hot summers like 2022. I can only think that the people on here saying it was only a few days and it wasn't that bad don't live in a humid or hot part of the country. Or perhaps they don't have to work, or if they do they work in nice conditions in air-conditioned offices with proper break times and flexitime so they can come in early and go early if they want.

I work in a school. July was hell last year. My office is tiny and only has room for 2 desks. THe windows only open a crack. There is no air conditioning. No air flow. We're on a corridor with windows so that we have the sun on our office windows in the morning and then the corridor windows in the afternoon. There is no relief. I take a fan in but it just fans hot air onto me.

I don't do well in heat at all, I have hyperhidrosis (excessive sweating) and humid conditions and temps over about 23 degrees has me sweating excessively (I mean so that my shoes can start rotting after a couple of weeks of it!). Hands slip off my keyboard. I absolutely hate it and am just thankful that we finished at the end of July for a few weeks. Even getting into the car at the end of the working day, I could barely touch the steering wheel.

We flew to West Coast USA a couple of days after breaking up and it was lovely and fresh, even down in Southern California because there was more of a breeze off the ocean. Most places were air conditioned but half the time I was laughing to myself thinking "It's not hot enough here for that - they need it more in England at the moment". I've also holidayed in SW France and while that does get very hot in summer, it is a much drier heat, the humidity is way lower than Liverpool and so sweating really does help you to cool down even if you're active.

Our house faces South and we keep the curtains shut during the day when we are out but still come to a house that is 29 degrees upstairs. And it doesnt' cool down much at all overnight. Maybe about 3 degrees. I would stay up till 2am if I could, when it gets bearable, but when you have to be up at 6.30am to go to work every day then it's just not feasible. School gets shut up overnight so there is no cold night air flowing in to cool the building down slightly.

Most of the plans in our garden didn't grow properly because of the weeks and weeks of drought. They flowered very very early like it was a last hurrah and that was it. Some of them died off completely. I was trying to conserve any rain water in buckets etc and would find dead frogs in them, they were obviously so desperate for water that they just launched themselves in and then couldn't find a way out. I've never seen that before in the 20 years that we've lived here. Like others have said, we mowed the grass at the end of May and then it wasn't needed again till the autumn because it went dormant and brown.

So yes, it was bad in Liverpool, but I was grateful for not living in London as I've done that and in summer being on the tube or in a flat is like nothing else.

The weather WAS vv unusual. Because if you remember we then had weeks upon weeks of rain around September/October time. I mean, constant. Flooding. Then the temperatures dropped and there were quite a few threads on here complaining about mould growth and fungus gnats in their house. Hardly surprising with the weather patterns....

Climate change must be doing this. And that is a scary thought.

CurlyhairedAssassin · 11/02/2023 20:32

Pe55yP00 · 11/02/2023 18:05

Love it. 40 degrees in my garden at times and the sea only 20 mins away.
Roll on summer.

Nice if you can sit in your garden all summer. Most people have to work, and don't work in their gardens.

AnnieSnap · 11/02/2023 20:33

MaureenSowerbuttsCardi · 10/02/2023 11:00

"sweating as soon as I stepped out of the bath"

Well having a bath in 40 degree heat probably didn't help. Have a cold shower surely?

Oh FFS! Have you never heard if a cool, or even cold, bath?
Why do so many people just post to say something patronising? 🙄

thetrees · 11/02/2023 20:34

YANBU OP. I love the heat but London last summer was absolutely unbearable. It felt really dead, I don't know what the figures are but I know lots of wildlife didn't survive.

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