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Teacher dialect

237 replies

MaverickGooseGoose · 08/02/2023 18:22

No doubt I'll make a mistake on this, Sod's Law and all that...

All the SLT and from what I've heard a lot of the teachers speak is sard east London dialect.

Free / three / roof / ruth / we was etc.

It's grating on me, if Roof was on the roof and needed free pounds to get off but her mum was coming to get her where was she going?

I understand dialect / colloquialisms but some of what they say/write doesn't make sense.

Anyone else as irritated as me? It's the same
on the radio now, the guy on capital is giving away free fousand pounds for free. Argh.

OP posts:
wonderstuff · 08/02/2023 20:22

How dare people with working class accents be in leadership positions! Without even disguising themselves!

SilentNightDancer · 08/02/2023 20:27

watchfulwishes · 08/02/2023 20:17

But you are worrying about your accent, because you're worrying enough to pronounce t 'properly'...

Regional accents are just as proper, they are just different.

On the contrary, employing the glottal stop is a bad habit I picked up with my friends. I grew up with an RP accent, thanks to my parents.

I always use RP in a professional environment. I just need to avoid lazy speech at home (and yes, I know that glottal stops apparently take more effort than just saying the 't' - to me it still feels like lazy speech.)

Darkdiamond · 08/02/2023 20:28

nosyupnorth · 08/02/2023 19:50

All this talk about accents and class and I can't help but notice that the OP and many others are very specifically picking at the 'th'/'f' pronounciation which is a really common minor speech impediment and can come with certain dental positioning.

Are we suggesting that anybody with a minor speech issue (that is still perfectly understandable if you apply even the slightest bit of common sense) should be forbidden from the teaching profession. Mandatory braces and speech therapy for everyone who doesn't meet pronounciation standards?

And don't forget that the 'th' phoneme doesn't exist in many languages and phonetic contraction means that it is very unlikely that people picking up a language after early childhood will be able to perfectly produce phonemes which don't exist in their native language. I assume you want all immigrants banned from teaching as well?

Are you actually serious? What an absolutely disingenuous post. If I was a betting woman, I would put money on the fact that the vast majority of people who mispronounce th as far, do so as a bad habit and not a speech impediment. Furthermore, while many other languages don't have the 'th' sound as we have it in English, they are generally able to put their tongue between their teeth and make the sound when they have to. Just as many Brits and Irish learn to roll their 'r's when speaking certain foreign languages. I think this is the silliest thing I have read in a long time.

ocdisrubbish · 08/02/2023 20:29

I believe it can be both! Children don’t usually acquire the ‘th’ sound until a bit later, after the ‘f’ sound. But for some children this may be part of a speech delay/disorder, but for some children that’s just the accent their parents speak in 😊

PitYerTapOan · 08/02/2023 20:29

Correcting regional variations leads to depletion of language, ultimately.

Check out YouTube videos of the old buddies talking eg Yorkshire or lowland Scots dialect. None of us even know what those words mean now, because we've lost them. They used to exist and we had the benefit of them, but now they don't, because words don't exist if people don't use them. They especially don't exist if people are told to stop using them on pain of being economically/financially penalised.

So I am wary of attempts to make us all sound the same.

Puffalicious · 08/02/2023 20:30

Girlswithgoodbodieslikeboyswithferarris · 08/02/2023 20:18

I think I read the same one - after I highly offended an American by calling my partner a “cunny funt”

🤣😅😅

ocdisrubbish · 08/02/2023 20:30

Best wishes for your daughter, I empathise greatly with the long wait lists!

Treaclemine · 08/02/2023 20:36

I get quite wound up about the f for th argument - I don't use f myself, but I know its origin goes way back. I did a place name course once, and it had an example. In East Kent there was a local lord, known in Old English as a "thengel". That is, received Old English pronunciation. However, after Hastings, the posh speakers of OE had disappeared, eaving only the common folk to tell the scribes of Domesday the name of his place, Thengelsham, so it got recorded as "Finglesham". (Look to see what one thengel lost. Iwww.danegeld.co.uk/uploads/6/5/6/2/65621811/s749518301978605088_p220_i2_w640.jpeg)
So the Kentish accent was doing the "f" for "th" back in the 11th century. And if it had become the default accent, "f" would be standard, and folk would be nit-picking about "th" instead.

PAFMO · 08/02/2023 20:38

SilentNightDancer · 08/02/2023 20:27

On the contrary, employing the glottal stop is a bad habit I picked up with my friends. I grew up with an RP accent, thanks to my parents.

I always use RP in a professional environment. I just need to avoid lazy speech at home (and yes, I know that glottal stops apparently take more effort than just saying the 't' - to me it still feels like lazy speech.)

You're an RP speaker? One of the 2%?

www.cambridge.org/elt/blog/2022/05/25/received-pronunciation-old-new/

Not even the younger generation of royals are RP speakers now.

MissMaple82 · 08/02/2023 20:40

Fir crying out loud, I don't think people can help their accents

garlictwist · 08/02/2023 20:42

I can remember coming home saying "ta" as that's what my teacher used to say. My dad was not impressed.

Where do people say "we done"? I've never heard that before.

samsmum2 · 08/02/2023 20:42

It's nothing to do with their accent, it's mispronunciation and/or grammatically incorrect. Teachers (I am one) should be modelling correct grammar. YANBU.

carbon60 · 08/02/2023 20:43

OP , you're a snob.

Puffalicious · 08/02/2023 20:44

PitYerTapOan · 08/02/2023 20:29

Correcting regional variations leads to depletion of language, ultimately.

Check out YouTube videos of the old buddies talking eg Yorkshire or lowland Scots dialect. None of us even know what those words mean now, because we've lost them. They used to exist and we had the benefit of them, but now they don't, because words don't exist if people don't use them. They especially don't exist if people are told to stop using them on pain of being economically/financially penalised.

So I am wary of attempts to make us all sound the same.

But we DON'T want to all sound the same! I'm very, very proud of my language and the dialect of it that I speak. I don't want to lose the words my mammy spoke that I now teach my children. I also don't want to lose accent. What I do want is my children to be able to speak their language and dialect as WELL as Standard English. I also want this for the kids I teach who will be disadvantaged if they don't learn Standard English: they don't learn it at home, so it's my/ the wider school's role to teach them this.

AnuSTart · 08/02/2023 20:45

I'm a Scot who speaks with a very middle class accent southern Englisjh accent at work as I work only with foreigners. They understand me and all is well. If I am speaking with Scots I sound completely different. To communicate according to what the listener needs to hear and understand is very important. Always. I don't think it undermines me or my colleagues. Nevertheless there is a difference between accent/dialect and grammar. Some grammar is just plain bad and in schools children should be taught, for their sake, correct grammar.

Oblahdeeoblahdoe · 08/02/2023 20:47

When I worked in teacher training I would highlight it whenever I observed a lesson. It's basic subject knowledge. Nothing to do with accents.

Puffalicious · 08/02/2023 20:48

carbon60 · 08/02/2023 20:43

OP , you're a snob.

ODFOD

I agree with OP. How can I be a snob when I want to furnish my pupils with the ability to communicate with everyone/ not be disadvantaged by not being able to speak in Standard English? I can assure you you wouldn't understand a word of the Scots my pupils speak in the East End of Glasgow. It's not snobbish for me to want to give them every opportunity I can.

Go check your privilege.

Darkdiamond · 08/02/2023 20:53

Puffalicious · 08/02/2023 20:48

ODFOD

I agree with OP. How can I be a snob when I want to furnish my pupils with the ability to communicate with everyone/ not be disadvantaged by not being able to speak in Standard English? I can assure you you wouldn't understand a word of the Scots my pupils speak in the East End of Glasgow. It's not snobbish for me to want to give them every opportunity I can.

Go check your privilege.

Hear hear!

Georgeandzippyzoo · 08/02/2023 20:54

I don't think OP is questioning ehat us being said. If children hear that, and write like that, the school is failing them!

teezletangler · 08/02/2023 20:54

My 5 year old was referred to speech therapy when she started school because she still wasn't able to make several sounds, th being one of the most challenging sounds for her (she would say free for three). She needs speech therapy because it is fundamentally incorrect and a mispronunciation of a standard English sound. It isn't an accent!

Floofyduffypuddy · 08/02/2023 20:54

Is saying " we done good work" etc accent it just pooor grammar?.. Surely Someone educated wouldn't say that

Eyeroll85 · 08/02/2023 20:56

ChildminderMum · 08/02/2023 18:51

So you live in south east London and you are upset that the teachers at your child's school sound like they are from south east London Confused

This!
absolute snobbery.

Floofyduffypuddy · 08/02/2023 20:56

@WhatTrophy "

We get that also lots of" we was going " etc.

Floofyduffypuddy · 08/02/2023 20:58

I've lived all over UK and never experienced that we was thing... Is it rylan on the radio?

MyOldCaravan · 08/02/2023 20:58

Whyisitsososohard · 08/02/2023 18:48

You just sound like a snob. It's not really so bad you can't understand what they mean, is it?

But they're teachers! They're supposed to be teaching you how to pronounce words correctly.

And accent is predominantly vowel sounds. Dialect is different words for things eg bread roll/bun/