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AIBU to remove all the bins and cones reserving parking spaces?

82 replies

PinkPrimroseSky · 28/01/2023 12:03

I'm getting thoroughly fed up with drivers in my area 'reserving' space outside their houses with cones or bins. The bins create awful obstructions on the pavements for people who are pushing buggies or are disabled. But personal grump is it means I can't park anywhere near my own house even though there are 5 spaces nearby being 'reserved'.

I've reported to council, nothing happens. I moved a bin out of desperation the other evening and a woman come out of her house and shouted at me not to touch her bin as she was keeping the space for her husband.

My only idea at the moment is to dress in black with hood up, face covering on and take all the bins and cones to one end of the road when it's dark. AIBU or do you have any other crafty ideas for me?

OP posts:
QuertyGirl · 28/01/2023 12:54

CatJumperTwat · 28/01/2023 12:52

An entitled attitude of expecting to store your private property on a public road?

That's all you can think of?

Why? Does it make you uncomfortable, it being reality?

HelpIcantfindaname · 28/01/2023 12:56

I thought you weren't meant to leave your bins outside of your property unless it's bin day.
So they are at fault for that too.
If the council won't take any notice of you could you ask your local Councillor?

DeadDonkey · 28/01/2023 12:56

QuertyGirl · 28/01/2023 12:44

Why do people with cars not buy/rent houses with parking?

You cannot be that dense...

WhereYouLeftIt · 28/01/2023 12:56

PinkPrimroseSky · 28/01/2023 12:34

Yes, this is my worry. People in my road would know it was me who moved their bins and I'm concerned about damage to my car.

Aren't there dashcams that can record anything around your car, as well as the road ahead/behind? I'd consider fitting that.

QuertyGirl · 28/01/2023 12:58

@DeadDonkey

Straight to the insults!

ArtVandalay · 28/01/2023 12:58

My old job used to involve me having to park in residential streets.

I would always make a point of moving wheelie bins and cones out of the road. I used to quite enjoy it 😂

DeadDonkey · 28/01/2023 12:59

QuertyGirl · 28/01/2023 12:58

@DeadDonkey

Straight to the insults!

To be fair it is an incredibly stupid question.

CatJumperTwat · 28/01/2023 12:59

QuertyGirl · 28/01/2023 12:54

Why? Does it make you uncomfortable, it being reality?

It makes me puzzled that you're pretending to be so thick, but it takes all sorts.

PonkyPonky · 28/01/2023 13:04

I live without off road parking and I feel your pain!! No one does cones here but the space outside my house is the most precious because it’s at the end so doesn’t involve parallel parking. Everyone fights for it as far as 8 doors down. I’d love to put a cone out and come home to a space outside my front door every day but I would never do that! 1. Because it’s ridiculous and 2. Because I have no right to. It’s a public road, I chose to live here so I just sigh and park further away. If I were you, I would move the one cone or bin that is in your way every time and park there rather than starting a war by moving all of them. I would think if you were persistent they might get the message that they can’t continue. If they come out to have a go then calmly and politely explain the relevant laws.

CharlotteStreetW1 · 28/01/2023 13:06

QuertyGirl · 28/01/2023 12:44

Why do people with cars not buy/rent houses with parking?

When we bought our house on a road like this 20 years ago there was ample parking. And we had a massive estate car. It was never a problem. Next door had three young children then and one car. Now they all have cars and their dad now has a work van. That's just in my immediate vicinity.

Vinorosso74 · 28/01/2023 13:06

I don't see anything wrong with moving them at all. You can't reserve spaces.
Where we live we pay for resident parking permits and the house next door has had building work going on for ages; at the start they kept putting bins in the street reserve space for skips. Us and others moved them as you need to apply for a parking suspension but the millionaire landlord is too tight to pay for them.

QuertyGirl · 28/01/2023 13:06

@CatJumperTwat @DeadDonkey

Starter for ten:

Who was it that said, that when the opposition run out of arguments they make it personal?

QuertyGirl · 28/01/2023 13:07

@CharlotteStreetW1

Did you own the parking space?

DeadDonkey · 28/01/2023 13:08

Just how do you think this would work in the UK with our terrible public transport system? Is this seriously the best you can do to back up your argument as to why bins in the UK shouldn't be used to reserve parking spaces in the UK? Dear oh dear..

DeadDonkey · 28/01/2023 13:12

QuertyGirl · 28/01/2023 13:06

@CatJumperTwat @DeadDonkey

Starter for ten:

Who was it that said, that when the opposition run out of arguments they make it personal?

I asked you if you 'were that dense?" It was an opportunity to back up your discussion point - so far you've managed to say nothing of relevance.

QuertyGirl · 28/01/2023 13:15

@DeadDonkey

No, it was a personal attack and you know it

QuertyGirl · 28/01/2023 13:16

People are wierd about cars, just the slightest suggestion that the use of it might be curtailed slightly and they act like you're holding a knife to the throat of their newborn baby.

LavenderLewis · 28/01/2023 13:18

@DeadDonkey asking someone if they are 'that dense' really is not offering yhem an opportunity to back up a discussion point.
Also you are on a thread about parking 😄

DeadDonkey · 28/01/2023 13:20

QuertyGirl · 28/01/2023 13:15

@DeadDonkey

No, it was a personal attack and you know it

You need to toughen up. If you are going to ask such ridiculous questions then you need to expect challenge.

Out of interest, other than some random link to Japan can you think of any reason why people without driveways buy cars? Any reason at all?

DeadDonkey · 28/01/2023 13:22

LavenderLewis · 28/01/2023 13:18

@DeadDonkey asking someone if they are 'that dense' really is not offering yhem an opportunity to back up a discussion point.
Also you are on a thread about parking 😄

Maybe I was a bit flippant but the air of superiority niggled me.

DeadDonkey · 28/01/2023 13:24

QuertyGirl · 28/01/2023 13:16

People are wierd about cars, just the slightest suggestion that the use of it might be curtailed slightly and they act like you're holding a knife to the throat of their newborn baby.

You've lost me...

Time to do something else.

megletthesecond · 28/01/2023 13:26

Yanbu. Move them.
I regularly move bins that either the waste team or neighbours have left in parking spaces even when I don't need to park in them.

RichardHeed · 28/01/2023 13:26

Who’s betting @QuertyGirl drives one of these?

AIBU to remove all the bins and cones reserving parking spaces?
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