"It’s only ‘free’ if you place zero value on a woman’s labour. Which, sadly, lots of people do.
Views on breastfeeding and formula feeding in this country are so messed up, it’s just used as yet another tool to bully and control women. Often by other women which is the most messed up part of all ☹️"
Couldn't agree more with this. I formula fed three babies (won't bore anyone with the story, but couldn't with the first, didn't want to with the second and managed about 6 weeks with the third but breastfeeding is just not for me) and I'm not really sure what the answer is. Yes, formula is expensive but formula feeding is, in many many ways, easier than breastfeeding. People like to say that breastfeeding is so straightforward but for lots of people it isn't, and the 'doing' of it is all on one person. Everyone says 'oh just make a nest on the sofa and watch a box set' for the cluster feeding nightmare days - but people with multiple kids or other responsibilities can't do that. Breastfeeding is hard logistically, mentally and physically for lots of women.
So I don't think it's as easy as saying 'formula feeding is expensive and breastfeeding is free' because it's not a straight choice between the two anyway.
I do think formula is 'too' expensive though, and there simply aren't enough budget options like there are with, say, nappies and clothes and other baby stuff. And even if there was 'Tesco value' baby milk - nobody is going to want to buy that or be seen buying it are they?