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How much do you have left over after paying it all?

79 replies

Thewinterofillness · 18/01/2023 19:54

After paying all essentials-mortgage/rent, bills, car, petrol and food…how much do you have left over to do what you want with? Put in savings, buy clothes, meal out, takeaway etc..if anything?
Mn always seems to be full of incredibly high earners..I find it unusual as in real life, it’s a real mix in my friendship group etc

OP posts:
Dinneronmybfpillow · 18/01/2023 21:53

About £100. But when I go back to work and DTs in nursery it'll be negative numbers for a few years. We'll use savings to buffer us as we can't afford to lose the career progression (me) and pension contributions (both), nor any income as we need to re-negotiate mortgage at some point.

ThreeLittleDots · 18/01/2023 21:55

£1.3K per month for spending/ saving / overpaying mortgage.

Joint household income £42k, but only small mortgage

Wiluli · 18/01/2023 21:55

About £700 that are out towards summer holidays and Christmas

VeronicaFranklin · 18/01/2023 21:57

Cost of living crisis? What crisis? based upon some of these answers...

whataboutsecondbreakfast · 18/01/2023 22:00

About £500 after everything, including all four animals.

I spend it on riding lessons, meals out, the odd coffee and cake, and wax melts. The rest goes into savings.

Passivhaus · 18/01/2023 22:01

It always seems like there are proportionally way more high earners on MN than in real life. Its like a distorted reality.

pompei8309 · 18/01/2023 22:02

Cuddlywuddlies · 18/01/2023 20:09

incoming 6k ish after pension etc
outgoings-
120 electricity (bimonthly)
100 childcare per week (term time)
130 food per week
120 - broadband, tv and 2 phones
65 to fill my car for approx 10 days
50ish to fill dh’s car I think
dc activities 90 per month

approx 1700 in outgoings so 4500 left over

So you have no council tax , no water rates ? i assume you’re mortgage free as you didn’t mention anything about that or rent ?

SugarQills · 18/01/2023 22:02

mrsbyers · 18/01/2023 21:51

£2,000 but I’m trying to save £1,666.66 of that each month

Very specific Grin

nokidshere · 18/01/2023 22:09

Wow

Until recently (mortgage ended thank goodness) I could account for every penny. And we never had any left, and we didn't have savings. No overdraft or credit cards either. There were literally pennies left over. And I borrowed from friends/family on more than one occasion.

Having no money and no credit line is a very stressful way to live

WaddleAway · 18/01/2023 22:13

happyfeet5 · 18/01/2023 20:26

Approx 1k. Pre DC (TTC soon), small 2 up two down home where costs are thankfully minimal. If we moved to a 3 bed, which we would ideally before having kids, we’d have a couple of hundred left over each per month. Fine in principle but nothing for days out and how on earth would we afford childcare if I return to work after having kids, which I want to do as I love my job. Essentially means we can’t move to a bigger house in the country’s current economic state / or till future DC gets free hours of childcare as if we did we will have significantly less money.

People with more disposable income usually make other life choices ie no abroad holidays, shop in cheaper supermarkets, compromise on house size and so on and so forth.

A lot of us make all of those ‘compromises’ and still have no disposable income.
We had a decent amount of disposable income until our third child was born. He’s disabled. So I can no longer earn what I used to (as he cannot access childcare or education out of the house) and the extra costs involved in caring for him took all of our savings.

BHRK · 18/01/2023 22:15

About £4K

Cuddlywuddlies · 18/01/2023 22:23

@pompei8309

yes, mortgage free as we are paid off.
we are in Ireland where we have no council tax or water rates.
but earnings are similar to U.K. I suppose

Nightmanagerfan · 18/01/2023 22:26

We have a high household income but our outgoings are enormous due to massive mortgage, living in London and two in nursery. I'd say we have about £200 left after bills and food, and about £100 goes on children's activities, so we have hardly anything left. If something breaks in our house we panic as we have no spare cash. It keep telling myself it will be better once our childcare bill reduces

Yellowcakestand · 18/01/2023 22:29

0 struggle month to month. That's with working in the NHS for 20+ years at 30 hours, universal credit and very very cheap HA rent.

JaceLancs · 18/01/2023 22:40

£500 of which I try to save £250

MotherHaryy · 18/01/2023 22:58

I'm curious to know what everyone does for jobs on here now...

hadntbeen · 18/01/2023 22:59

£300-£500 left over depending on the month.

Create10 · 18/01/2023 23:05

I earn £57k and my bills are around £900 a month, so with petrol and bills I'm left with £2300 or so. I've never counted how much I spend on food because it's only me in the house so tend to buy as I eat rather than do a weekly shop. I do try and save £5-700 a month too very unsuccessfully.

OhamIreally · 19/01/2023 00:09

Cuddlywuddlies · 18/01/2023 20:09

incoming 6k ish after pension etc
outgoings-
120 electricity (bimonthly)
100 childcare per week (term time)
130 food per week
120 - broadband, tv and 2 phones
65 to fill my car for approx 10 days
50ish to fill dh’s car I think
dc activities 90 per month

approx 1700 in outgoings so 4500 left over

See I look at this list and think blimey where am I going wrong- that's a short list! Don't you also pay:
Council tax
Water bills
Gas/oil
MOT
Car insurance
Car tax
Car service ?

I also pay:
Mortgage
Service charge for my flat (includes building insurance and gardeners)
Contents insurance
Resident's parking fee
Life insurance
RAC
Travel insurance
Charity donations
Gym membership

I pay into savings and a private pension (additional to work) but I would say it comes in then all flows out again...

Cuddlywuddlies · 19/01/2023 00:18

@OhamIreally

Council tax- no (in Ireland we don’t have this)
Water bills- no (same as above)
Gas/oil- (house runs on electricity only)
MOT- (NCT here) every 1-2yrs depending on age of the car but I gave a general run down of costs- it costs €55
Car insurance- I pay all at once €500
Car tax- same as insurance
Car service - maybe once a year before my nct. I dunno it depends on work needed €100-200

Mortgage- I don’t have one

Service charge for my flat (includes building insurance and gardeners)
Contents insurance- nope I live rurally and we do our own gardening

Resident's parking fee- nope
Life insurance- yes I forgot this! We pay €70 per month!!

RAC- what is this?
Travel insurance- paid through my health insurance which is paid by work

Charity donations- nope

Gym membership- nope

we save about 2-2.5k per month

Desiredeffect · 19/01/2023 05:19

Nothing

Anamechangeisnotjustforchristmas · 19/01/2023 05:24

Between £1100 and £1600 depending how many hours I work. My husband has probably a bit more. Ashamed to say nothing goes into saving. It all gets frittered away. Glad I read this thread as it’s made me want to change.

Butitsnotfunnyisititsserious · 19/01/2023 05:27

Around £400, I'm a lone parent so shift it into my and my sons savings accounts.

BackT · 19/01/2023 06:57

I'm chuffed if I break even at the end of the moment. Income around £2500pcm.

I think the majority of my friends, family and colleagues are the same.

Snarf23 · 19/01/2023 07:53

VeronicaFranklin · 18/01/2023 21:57

Cost of living crisis? What crisis? based upon some of these answers...

Not everyone is in a cost of living crisis. If they are on higher wages but low outgoings they have a buffer.

I’m on a low wage in comparison to many according to here. But our outgoings are low. Mortgage is fixed low rate for 5 years as from last year. Low mortgage due to high deposit. We are careful with energy esp heating. No debts. No massive materialistic nature of buying I’d rather go on holiday or day trips etc. Yes costs have risen but we are still managing ok.

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