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Should I correct a teacher?

498 replies

Sadgirlonatrain · 18/01/2023 13:17

In my son's recent geography homework, one of the questions on the sheet referred to the decline of coal mining in the North East.

"How would this of effected the area?"

No wonder the use of 'would of' is so widespread now, never mind the incorrect use of 'effected.'

Would you say anything to the school?

OP posts:
PAFMO · 18/01/2023 15:19

AtomicRitual · 18/01/2023 15:02

I wouldn't label it as a complaint, but I would drop the teacher (or HOY if it's less awkward) an email. Even put some humour in to it:

"I'm so sorry to be that parent, but I believe the sentence in this piece of homework should have said "How would this have affected the North East?". I know it's pedantic, but there are many children that take their lead from their teachers and I'm sure this would be frowned upon in English Language class."

That's the way a normal person would do it. In real life.
Sadly, this is MN, so half the posters are banging their heads against the roof and making placards to get the teacher sacked, while the other half have decided the teacher has a disability.
I'm the first (as many roof hitters on this thread will know) to call out twattery regarding grammar correction- when posters do it on here, on a thread, just to show us how clever they are, and how thick the poster who's made the mistake is- but sure, as a teacher and parent, I'd point out that these materials were wrong. Without harming heads, roofs, or placards.

Excusemegreentea · 18/01/2023 15:21

sorrynotathome · Today 13:42
I know a TA who always writes “know” when she means “now”. It’s so confusing!!

Know

Tidsleytiddy · 18/01/2023 15:22

if any howlers like this were brought home from school by my children I used to correct it in red pen and return it. It’s disgraceful

StephanieSuperpowers · 18/01/2023 15:22

Tidsleytiddy · 18/01/2023 15:22

if any howlers like this were brought home from school by my children I used to correct it in red pen and return it. It’s disgraceful

There is something worse than being wrong...

IsItThough · 18/01/2023 15:23

TBH I have seen worse

I would simply ensure my child's work was grammatically correct though

There are many things wrong with the education system, someone dropping the ball and using poor grammar isn't by any means the thing people should be getting het up about

IsItThough · 18/01/2023 15:23

Tidsleytiddy · 18/01/2023 15:22

if any howlers like this were brought home from school by my children I used to correct it in red pen and return it. It’s disgraceful

What an unpleasant and futile thing to do

Thereisnolight · 18/01/2023 15:23

RealBecca · 18/01/2023 14:46

My point is that you'd be better off investing your time in equipping your child to navigate a world full of imperfect spelling and grammar.

What about the children whose parents can’t or won’t do this?
Children who will trust the teachers to teach them correctly but will sadly be let down.

Tidsleytiddy · 18/01/2023 15:24

Poor grammar and other English skills are rife with today’s teachers.

Crabo · 18/01/2023 15:26

As an ex teacher I have had a parent write a polite note which corrected a spelling mistake I had made. I just owned up and told the pupil ‘well done. Apologise to your dad!’

Passthechocolatesplease · 18/01/2023 15:29

Much ado about nothing, I doubt any of the kids would give it a second glance. Teachers have enough do without petty parents picking up on minor mistakes.

Lovelysausagedogscrumpy · 18/01/2023 15:30

Bellaboo01 · 18/01/2023 13:31

Of course not, you will sound like an absolute idiot.

What an odd thing to complain about.

Why ? A teacher has demonstrated a really bad grasp of grammar, which is being passed on to the students. She’d be an idiot not to complain.

saraclara · 18/01/2023 15:31

ohdearydearieme · 18/01/2023 15:13

It's not a typo. The 'effected' error could be at a push. But 'would of' is not a typo. It's a grammar error that demonstrates that the teacher is actually ignorant of the correct structure

Grammatical error is correct. If you want to use 'Grammar', then it should be 'Grammar mistake'; not 'Grammar error'. Of the phrases above, Grammatical error is correct because error is a noun and the adjective grammatical qualifies it.

Thank you. You're right of course. Sloppy of me. But at least I'm just lazing in the sofa with my phone, and not working!

Lovelysausagedogscrumpy · 18/01/2023 15:32

Passthechocolatesplease · 18/01/2023 15:29

Much ado about nothing, I doubt any of the kids would give it a second glance. Teachers have enough do without petty parents picking up on minor mistakes.

And this is the reason such mistakes are commonplace. Do you not attach any importance at all to correct grammar and spelling of the English language ?

Bananallamarama · 18/01/2023 15:33

Tidsleytiddy · 18/01/2023 15:22

if any howlers like this were brought home from school by my children I used to correct it in red pen and return it. It’s disgraceful

Yes, I’m that parent too! I wouldn’t be able to let that go 😳

Tidsleytiddy · 18/01/2023 15:33

Lovelysausagedogscrumpy · 18/01/2023 15:32

And this is the reason such mistakes are commonplace. Do you not attach any importance at all to correct grammar and spelling of the English language ?

Hear, hear

saraclara · 18/01/2023 15:34

Passthechocolatesplease · 18/01/2023 15:29

Much ado about nothing, I doubt any of the kids would give it a second glance. Teachers have enough do without petty parents picking up on minor mistakes.

Would of is not a minor mistake. As someone else said, 'would of' in a letter of application, would probably see it binned. It speaks of a larger level of ignorance than a typo or a spelling mistake.

ohdearydearieme · 18/01/2023 15:34

saraclara · 18/01/2023 15:31

Thank you. You're right of course. Sloppy of me. But at least I'm just lazing in the sofa with my phone, and not working!

I am not working either. I am having a pajama day. There is no comma after phone either. Just to let you know.

Nanny0gg · 18/01/2023 15:34

Bellaboo01 · 18/01/2023 13:31

Of course not, you will sound like an absolute idiot.

What an odd thing to complain about.

Expecting correct grammar and spelling from a teacher is 'odd'?

And it's not the OP who's the idiot. Children copy what they see and the teacher should be modelling correct English.

It's not as though it's a typo.

saraclara · 18/01/2023 15:34

Oops! Higher level of ignorance!

Cometcamellia · 18/01/2023 15:34

So tricky. You have to keep it light. They may be teachers but with bad grammar so widespread they have maybe been similarly affected by a poor education system. So I think if you get on well with the head of department a light conversation is due. Pointing out the error with "emerge" will keep it from getting too heavy, perhaps. The problem is that given the support that society rightly gives to dyslexia it is important not to shy away from using the correct word in the correct way. We forgive spelling mistakes, but language is to communicate even the mostt subtle and complex of ideas, and does so by being used correctly.

Nanny0gg · 18/01/2023 15:36

Passthechocolatesplease · 18/01/2023 15:29

Much ado about nothing, I doubt any of the kids would give it a second glance. Teachers have enough do without petty parents picking up on minor mistakes.

Well if the children aren't being taught correctly then they wouldn't know to question it, would they?

And it's not petty.

Tulipomania · 18/01/2023 15:37

Of course you should let them know. In a polite and tactful way.

If it was one mistake I might leave it, but two in the same sentence ...

Tidsleytiddy · 18/01/2023 15:37

It’s not petty. It’s incredibly important

MatildaJayne · 18/01/2023 15:39

ohdearydearieme · 18/01/2023 15:34

I am not working either. I am having a pajama day. There is no comma after phone either. Just to let you know.

Good example of Muphry's Law! In the UK it's spelt pyjamas. 😉Just to let you know.

Riu · 18/01/2023 15:41

You will achieve absolutely nothing by complaining. This is a direct result of teaching not being a particularly desirable job at the moment. The Dept of Education could write a White Paper on teacher recruitment. They should call it ‘You get what you get and you don’t get upset’.