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Pringles in the packed lunch

672 replies

Pennecrayon · 18/01/2023 11:02

This feels like an odd question but I wanted to ask here in case I am missing something. We have a few tubes of Pringles left over from Christmas and I've been putting a few in a Tupperware for DS's packed lunch. He's 7.

Last night, I got a WhatsApp from a parent who I don't know very well to ask me if I would stop putting Pringles in DS's packed lunch because it's making her son jealous. I was a bit taken aback and I didn't respond.

I think I'm entitled to put whatever I want in my DS's lunchbox (within the rules) and that's what I want to tell her. We're new to the school this year though so I don't want to upset anyone and cause dramas.

AIBU?

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CaramelMach · 18/01/2023 15:44

This is daily Mail fodder if I've ever seen it ! She might not be on MN but she might be on the DM site regularly 😮

Tricolette · 18/01/2023 15:45

When I was at school my packed lunch was 2 slices of cheese sandwiches or a pasty if dm was flush.
Nothing else.
I was jealous of every other packed lunch.
I hung round my friends shamelessly for a bit of spare cake.
I never told my dm it wasn’t fair because if she could have magicked up extra food she would have done.

Life's tough and unfair. Her ds will learn that eventually.

jtaeapa · 18/01/2023 15:50

I'd reply saying that you've checked the policy and crisps are OK to send.

And not engage with her bullshit further.

Staryflight445 · 18/01/2023 15:54

I would simply reply ‘Sorry, perhaps you can elaborate since telling someone not to give their child crisps because their child is jealous is a bit strange and im wondering what im missing here?’

Back2Back2t · 18/01/2023 15:55

I personally wouldn't even reply and continue on adding the pringles to my DC packed lunch. She's a nutter.

Beautiful3 · 18/01/2023 15:57

How ridiculous! I would just ignore it. Carry on with your pringles. What next, please stop giving your child cadburys chocolate/walkers crisps?!

Nanny0gg · 18/01/2023 15:57

Roundaboot · 18/01/2023 11:33

Absolutely! My best pal in primary school had a chocolate biscuit (the good 1980s ones, Trio, Club, United etc) in her lunch everyday. I rarely did. Of course I was jealous but it was a good lesson in not always being to have what you want. I don't think it's caused me any lasting damage.

Well... you've never forgotten!!

😂

ifoundthebread · 18/01/2023 16:01

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Expensive but worth it, i envied all children who had one of these when i was at school! Im petty and love to add fuel to the pettiness 😂

Ihatepcos · 18/01/2023 16:03

Hilarious and so embarrassing for her.

I wonder how many other parents she has texted and about which items?

OhMaria2 · 18/01/2023 16:04

WoofingUpTheIncorrectShrub · 18/01/2023 11:16

I imagine she's on a budget and Pringles are expensive so they don't buy them in her house and her child is jealous because they get own-brand crisps. But messaging you like that is very weird behaviour.

One of DS's friends takes sushi to school. He's jealous. I just told him that sushi is a treat for us because it's expensive and way out of my budget.

Different people have different budgets/priorities. That's life.

Wow, I bet that's fresh come lunchtime!

Jackieweaverslobsterphone · 18/01/2023 16:07

I'd have to message back 'what a weird message to send someone you barely know"

crosspusscrossstitcher · 18/01/2023 16:11

stop putting Pringles in DS's packed lunch because it's making her son jealous

Really? Good God, shove the whole tube in and tell her to mind her own business manage her sons expectations and buy him his own pringles

🤯

DrMarciaFieldstone · 18/01/2023 16:11

Ugh, these are the worst kind of parents. The ones who don’t want their kids to do/have things, but can’t say no to the little darlings, so expect everyone else to avoid the same instead.

Ignore her, she’s batshit.

DrMarciaFieldstone · 18/01/2023 16:12

ifoundthebread · 18/01/2023 16:01

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Expensive but worth it, i envied all children who had one of these when i was at school! Im petty and love to add fuel to the pettiness 😂

These were the holy grail in your packed lunch at primary school!

Mommabear20 · 18/01/2023 16:12

Hello, will I don't wish to make your DC upset, I will be continuing to make my DC lunch as I see fit, as I know he will eat them.
Kind regards

Tricolette · 18/01/2023 16:13

You could reply with Darling Pennecrayon jr only eats Pringles. I couldn’t possibly subject him to inferior crisps!

Justalittlebitduckling · 18/01/2023 16:14

Tell her your child has a very specific dietary requirement that’s he’s extremely sensitive about and could she please help her son to be more inclusive.

Fairylightsandstuff · 18/01/2023 16:16

I think I’d just send a load of laughing emojis or maybe just LOL.

What a weirdo!

starfishmummy · 18/01/2023 16:16

Pennecrayon · 18/01/2023 13:36

(a) I'm now really terrified she's on MN.
(b) I'm going to reply 'now we've popped, we can't stop'. Too good.

Have you replied yet, and what has she said?

Girliefriendlikespuppies · 18/01/2023 16:16

I'd say okay thanks I'll put a few extra in so he can share with your child next time and then block her.

WonderingWanda · 18/01/2023 16:20

Bonkers! Just send a laughing emoji back as if you think it's a joke, that'll wind her up!

FedUpWithEverything123 · 18/01/2023 16:20

If your school doesn't have a policy on foods like that (ours does: no crisps, chocolate, pastries, a few other unhealthy things) then it's up to you what you send. Personally I wouldn't send crisps, as it sets a bad example - I think crisps should be a treat, not part of a regular lunch.

Murdoch1949 · 18/01/2023 16:21

What an entitled mum she must be. Who would even think to message another parent with such a ludicrous demand? Respond and tell her you'll put food in your child's lunch box that you have decided is appropriate, that is enjoyed, and that abides by the school guidelines. Tell her you'll put an extra one in for her child. It's not as if Pringles are high end fodder.

azlazee1 · 18/01/2023 16:22

Tell her the truth - your son enjoys Pringles and you will continue to include them in his lunch. Suggest she gets some for her own son's box.

ArrrMeHearties · 18/01/2023 16:22

Hahaha that's made me laugh. Why doesn't she buy pringles for son if he's that jealous