Would I be crazy?
We were together a couple of years.
Both divorced and both have kids.
Late 40's
We communicate differently.
He shuts down when I pull him up on anything. He wont speak to me for days and ignores me. He returns when I convince him to talk.
He can get very down, like a low level depression. He can take to the bed for sometimes weeks on end and rings in sick from work very often.
He can be kind and attentive. Was very very attentive for the first year of our relationship and very generous. Not t so much anymore.
He is fundamentally selfish as a person.
Selfish in bed at times.
He can present as a different person on the company of my family and friends.
As in, charming, chatty and funny.
He can be entertaining to others but I've found him to become increasingly sarcastic, sneery and vindictive in the last six months.
He can punish me and then apologise profusely.
His behaviour doesn't change though.
I enjoy his company and we have shared interests.
Sometimes I think he is jealous of the attention I give my children.
He can be a bit sarcastic towards them.
He is like a mix of two men.
I just can't make sense of him.
I'm
In the process of ignoring him as I'm
Sick of his latest bullshit carry on.
Would you bother with him.
We don't live together.