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To think we cannot afford to support Ukraine anymore

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Saysomething1234 · 04/01/2023 21:38

This may be an unpopular opinion but it is annoying me to no end and NC

We have a littany of issues crying out for funding domestically - NHS broken. Economy going down the drain. Pound down 20% in one year. Public services collapsing, Education system requiring re-investment, high taxes driving talent out. We can keep blaming our politicians but someone needs to prioritise where money goes - and no one is willing to talk about this

Yet we are spending hundreds of billions in supporting Ukraine in a war which has nothing to do with us. Yes we are morally supporting them but is there no amount which will be too much? We are paying both directly (through weapons and aid) and indirectly (through huge energy subsidies - last totalling north of £200bn) - we need to stop this spending, reduce energy prices, stop this craziness

How is this war something we can afford on the basis on principles and why aren't we more aggressively pushing for a negotiated settlement?

We cannot afford this. It sucks for Ukrainians but this is not UK's bill to foot.

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ChungusBoi · 05/01/2023 02:00

To the OP: there are numerous reasons for the UK to support Ukraine, but also, follow the money. Yes it costs to support Ukraine but don’t forget that the UK’s defence industry is benefiting financially from the war. The share price for BAE systems leapt up when Putin declared war in Feb 2022 and has remained high.

The damage that Russian forces have inflicted on Ukrainian infrastructure if Ukraine win, will at some point need to be repaired. The support the UK is offering may open doors to lucrative opportunities for British engineering and construction companies, and companies in other sectors when it is time to rebuild. And once rebuilt, Ukraine is potentially an exciting trading partner, with rich soils, natural resources and an educated population, quite a few of whom will speak English.

For Ukrainians reading, I am happy that the UK is offering significant support to help your nation defeat Putin and his army. It is the only morally acceptable course of action. I want very much for you to have your lives and country restored. 🇺🇦

Autumnnewname · 05/01/2023 02:20

ImAvingOops · 04/01/2023 22:27

I'm all for helping refugees but I agree that we shouldn't be committing money we haven't got to Ukraine, beyond the humanitarian aid.
Our own country is coming apart at the seams. It would be lovely if we were able to right injustice throughout the world but this requires all countries that value human rights, to behave as one cohesive unit and it also requires many more resources than the UK currently has available.
The EU countries seem very quiet compared to the UK on Ukraine - I wonder why.

the EU countries are not "quiet"

Even Macron has come up trumps today

Autumnnewname · 05/01/2023 02:26

theworldhas · 04/01/2023 22:40

Many predicted NATO expansionism would lead to war.

Strobe Talbott, deputy secretary of state, similarly described the Russian attitude. “Many Russians see Nato as a vestige of the cold war, inherently directed against their country. They point out that they have disbanded the Warsaw Pact, their military alliance, and ask why the west should not do the same.” It was an excellent question, and neither the Clinton administration nor its successors provided even a remotely convincing answer.

George Kennan, the intellectual father of America’s containment policy during the cold war, perceptively warned in a May 1998 New York Times interview about what the Senate’s ratification of Nato’s first round of expansion would set in motion. “I think it is the beginning of a new cold war,” Kennan stated. ”I think the Russians will gradually react quite adversely and it will affect their policies. I think it is a tragic mistake. There was no reason for this whatsoever. No one was threatening anybody else.”

He was right, but US and Nato leaders proceeded with new rounds of expansion, including the provocative step of adding the three Baltic republics. Those countries not only had been part of the Soviet Union, but they had also been part of Russia’s empire during the Czarist era. That wave of expansion now had Nato perched on the border of the Russian Federation.

Moscow’s patience with Nato’s ever more intrusive behavior was wearing thin. The last reasonably friendly warning from Russia that the alliance needed to back off came in March 2007, when Putin addressed the annual Munich security conference. “Nato has put its frontline forces on our borders,” Putin complained. Nato expansion “represents a serious provocation that reduces the level of mutual trust. And we have the right to ask: against whom is this expansion intended? And what happened to the assurances our western partners made after the dissolution of the Warsaw Pact?”

www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2022/feb/28/nato-expansion-war-russia-ukraine

Russia’s invasion is wrong, but the West deliberately broke its promises and continually pushed Russia’s buttons and here we are.

Ah right. We made them do it

It's fuck all business of Russia what sovereign nations choose to do.

Findingmypurposeinlife · 05/01/2023 02:38

Britain's cold War with Russia has always been on the radar, even if (superficially) it looked to have thawed.
But that certainly never stopped the Government encouraging almost £2 billion worth of Russian investment in the UK. (Separate from the donations to British Political parties)

And you really don't need to be a Political analyst to raise an eyebrow and question the integrity of such 'investments' especially considering the fragility of British / Russian relations is historic.

The Government has just annouced an increase in investment in Security and Intelligence Agencies to £3.7 billion over the next three years, and current defence budgets are set at £48billion.

Meanwhile 14.5 million people are estimated to be living in poverty in the UK.

End of life charity Marie Cure recently published the findings of a research report stating that 90,000 people die in poverty each year in the UK and have subsequently launched a campaign to give dying people early access to their state pension. Let's see how that pans out.

Autumnnewname · 05/01/2023 02:57

jeannie46 · 05/01/2023 00:48

The situation in Ukraine is complex. I have been trying to fathom the positions of all parties.

There has been a civil war going on since 2014 when the elected President Yanukovych who wanted Ukraine to be non aligned, was deposed. The Donetz People's Republic was set up in the Russian speaking Donbass and been recognised by some 7 states. Ukraine has been fighting 'the terrorists' from their point of view, ever since, defending the integrity of the Ukrainian State.

Ukraine is split between Russian speakers ( largely in the East and South ( Crimea eg ) and those who speak Ukrainian largely in the North and West. Historically I think Kviv was founded by the Rus who gave their name to the country Russia.

From the Russian point of view they and the Russian speakers in Ukraine are concerned about a hang over from WW2 when some Ukrainians supported the invading German Nazis. Some Nazi Organisations eg Azov Battalions have been adopted into the current Ukrainian armed forces. (These organisations have eg organised pogroms against the Roma, broken up meetings organised on International Women's Day etc. )

The Ukrainian Government has banned all opposition political parties and has banned all Trade Unions and confiscated their assets.

The US do not appreciate that using the Azov Battalions etc will only help Putin to play on the memory of the trauma of WW2 to keep the Russian population supporting him.

Putin claims that the US broke the agreement with Gorbachev at the end of the Cold War 1989-90 that Nato would not expand further East. He feels that it was betrayal of International Law.

Somewhere there has to be a peace negotiated for the sake of the people of the Ukraine.

I'm betting you're an anti vaxxer too

Everything you have posted is just wrong. Every bit of it

Delorestormborn · 05/01/2023 03:28

If the west doesn’t continue to support Ukraine then the likelihood of China invading Taiwan increases considerably. If that happens we are all f*ed. It might happen anyway but the wests response to Putin has at least made the Chinese pause.

You should study history and politics a bit more. Knee jerk reactions have massive implications.
When Bush (1st) withdrew funding for education in the Middle East that gap was taken up by Islamic extremists which resulted in the rise of terrorism. So the short term financial gains resulted in long term pain.

LeccyBillShill · 05/01/2023 03:58

The sanctions regime against Moscow has hurt Europe much more than Russia. Germany is on its knees. The West made a huge blunder when it tried to turn Ukraine into an anti-Russian stronghold, leaving Moscow no other choice than to intervene.

The Ukraine conflict has changed the global geopolitical map - as the West introduced new sanctions against Russia, European political elites for some reason, became enthusiastic about destroying Russia economically and politically while separating it from the EU by creating a new iron curtain.

The West had been pushing Moscow back from its old imperial borders for several decades and Moscow fears that this is not enough for the West. Parts of Ukraine, such as Sevastopol have very strong ties with Russia. Its naval base is vital to Russia as it offers all year access to the Mediterranean and beyond. Compare that to other bases that sit frozen for much of the year and the strategic value it has to Russia. After the collapse of the Soviet Union, Ukraine 'allowed' Russia to maintain its base in Sevastopol to 2042 in exchange for discounted natural gas. This was the Kharkiv Pact.

The West made a strategic mistake when it tried not only to remove Ukraine from Russia’s sphere of interest, but also to turn it into a large population and military base against Russia. It is no wonder that when Ukraine looks Westwards towards the EU and NATO membership that Russia sees this as a red line and those that ignore this have done so at their own peril.

Russians have genuine and justifiable anxieties about this and could not be expected to sit idle in the face of these threats.

vera99 · 05/01/2023 04:03

We were told it would be over in days.It wasn't we were told Putin is ill and dying he isn't. We were told Russians would rise up and get Putin out they haven't. We were told Russians are running out of missiles they aren't. We were told the ruble and economy would collapse they may be having difficulties but the Russians seem impervious to pain. Since the US and NATO seem unwilling to give Ukraine game changing munitions and tech it seems our involvement is just prolonging the agony. The difference in WW2 is we declared total war and fought the aggressor to the bitter end and that ultimately in the case of Japan involved nukes.At the moment its looking like Ukraine is getting destroyed and Russia is just shrugging and doubling down. Something has to give.

Nat6999 · 05/01/2023 04:27

Greenshake no it isn't the money saved could be used to provide arms & other support for Ukraine.

knittingaddict · 05/01/2023 05:46

We have no choice. The alternative is unthinkable and the stability of the world at stake.

Listen to a few podcasts and you might think differently OP. Ukraine the Latest is a good starting point and I highly recommend it.

vera99 · 05/01/2023 06:03

From the US point of view they degrade a historic enemy,get to dump surplus munitions and test in depth the Russian military capability and pivot Europe to US LNG and get Europe to up their defence spending which was a big bug bear of Trump. As a quid pro qou come the eventual peace American corporations get their hands on the potential economic prizes all without losing a single US citizen. Compared to their other wars its their best deal ever. Sadly we are all the losers our old world order of cooperation, peace and prosperity is probaly lost for a generation.This war will probably go on for years sometimes hot and sometimes in abeyance and in essence started back in 2014.

ittakes2 · 05/01/2023 06:17

Sorry but you have your head in the cloud. This is nothing to do with helping Ukraine and everything to do with stopping Russia becoming more powerful and thinking it’s ok just take over other countries. It’s a security risk.

DownNative · 05/01/2023 06:19

Saysomething1234 · 04/01/2023 21:57

Ukraine is not in NATO. we have no obligation to defend it. sucks for ukraine but pretty simple.

The UK, France and USA promised Ukraine in 1994 or so we'd protect them from Russian aggression in exchange for them giving up their nuclear weapons.

If we hadn't promised this, Ukraine would not have given up their nuclear weapons and Russia wouldn't have dared to invade.

NATO member or not, we have an obligation to help Ukraine.

MysteriesOfTheOrganism · 05/01/2023 06:19

I think we should be doing far more for Ukraine. I'm sure Putin would be willing to do a deal of ceasing hostilities in return for land. But after a pause to re-arm he'd be back for the rest of the Ukraine - and other countries too. No, this is a conflict that Europe has to take a strong stance on. Appeasement didn't work in World War 2, so it's not worth considering now.

Northernsouloldies · 05/01/2023 07:12

I will cut to the chase op other posters have explained the ins and outs to you. Your op was a crass and selfish perspective of the war. The wot about us guvnor attitude is a despicable view to hold considering the emerging war crimes the Ukrainian population have and still enduring.

AWaferThinMint · 05/01/2023 07:18

The pain we are feeling now as we support Ukraine would be nothing compared to the pain we might feel if Russia stomped across Europe in our direction, and don't for a second think that is in impossibility. Improbable, possibly, but not impossible.

We have a moral duty to support our neighbours. And, if we must be selfish about it, why would anyone help us if we were threatened and attacked, and we'd not shown solidarity and allyship with others.

SirMingeALot · 05/01/2023 07:20

MysteriesOfTheOrganism · 05/01/2023 06:19

I think we should be doing far more for Ukraine. I'm sure Putin would be willing to do a deal of ceasing hostilities in return for land. But after a pause to re-arm he'd be back for the rest of the Ukraine - and other countries too. No, this is a conflict that Europe has to take a strong stance on. Appeasement didn't work in World War 2, so it's not worth considering now.

Yep.

This is solely a war of aggression by Russia and the only way the west is remotely culpable is because we didn't push back earlier.

The choices are to deal with this now or later, when it will be worse. It follows that any argument we can't afford to is bollocks. Actually, we can't afford not to.

Herroyal · 05/01/2023 07:21

Here’s what we can’t afford - Russia trampling all over its neighbours, maybe Finland or a country further West next? While we stand by and watch, then end up fighting in WW3.

our government is destroying our NHS because they want to privatise it. Not because we’re training the Ukrainian army.

Kokeshi123 · 05/01/2023 07:29

I'm all for helping refugees but I agree that we shouldn't be committing money we haven't got to Ukraine, beyond the humanitarian aid.

This is literally the worst of all possible worlds - paying oodles of money to help refugees while doing nothing at all to deter the aggression that leads to the exodus of refugees in the first place! It guarantees that ever-increasing sums will need to be shelled out to support the growing numbers of people who will flee when Russia decides to invade this country, and then that one, and then another one...

BoredofEducation · 05/01/2023 07:37

Saysomething1234 · 04/01/2023 22:18

because of short sightedness of politicians to fight a ruinous war - also because diplomacy doesn't sell in the public's eyes, aggressive right wing bravado macho-ism does (as can be seen clearly in this thread) where everything is black and white

A little late to this, so apologies if this has been addressed, but I’d welcome the OP’s views on where the shades of grey are in this situation? What potential legitimacy of the invasion we may be overlooking? Where the room for compromise is?

Untitledsquatboulder · 05/01/2023 07:40

we were told it would be over in days

No we weren't. Hmm

Pinkflamingogo · 05/01/2023 07:41

AlmondBake · 04/01/2023 21:51

Do you really think if we stop supporting Ukraine and they lose the war, that Putin will stop there? Seriously?

Yes actually.

He hasn't done that well with Ukraine has he? He doesn't have the man power, morale among soldiers, resources (etc) to invade further countries. It just wouldn't happen.

MarshaBradyo · 05/01/2023 07:42

Untitledsquatboulder · 05/01/2023 07:40

we were told it would be over in days

No we weren't. Hmm

Yeh agree that’s not true

Some posters aren’t really listening to what’s going on

Roselilly36 · 05/01/2023 07:44

Always money for war.

EndlessRain1 · 05/01/2023 07:45

yeah, you are right. Let them die and let Russia continue to break international law without consequence, let's not waste our money.