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Shops have been de-Christmassed

361 replies

CharityShopChic · 27/12/2022 13:21

And it's WONDERFUL. They must have had the elves in over the last couple of days because in both the Asda and Waitrose I was in this morning had no decorations, no festive aisles full of tat, no screeching Noddy Holder on the tannoy.

Fabulous. At last back to normal.

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Weepachu · 28/12/2022 12:13

adriftabroad · 28/12/2022 11:53

Thread in DFail.

Yay! Can you link pls?!

xogossipgirlxo · 28/12/2022 12:13

they will get mini eggs delivered soon. My husband already saw them at work.

Weepachu · 28/12/2022 12:14

DappledThings · 28/12/2022 11:58

Absolutely.

There are also extortionate fines (5 figures) for ever allowing music to leak out of headphones. 2nd offence is a 6 month ban from public transport.

And Yorkshire Puddings are only served with roast beef, no other roasts.

Hope you're still in!

I was with you until the Yorkshire Pudding business. I want them with any and all roasts!

CharityShopChic · 28/12/2022 12:17

Of course Christmas is a money grabber for retailers. What exactly do you think retailers are for? To make money. Not to be a social space, or a religious observance space, or any other sort of space. They are there to sell stuff and make money.

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WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 28/12/2022 12:21

Is it this actual thread that the DM has pilfered paid tribute to?

I can see this very similar one: www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-11577107/When-right-time-Christmas-decorations.html

They've really started to whatever the opposite is of excel themselves by how much content they rob from MN. It used to be the odd article now and then, but there are at least five MN articles currently in Femail that have been 'reported on'. Sounds almost like mentionitis to me - maybe they secretly really fancy us!!!

They save themselves a lot of time by just adding a new tab at the top next to/in place of the 'Femail' one called 'Nicked from Mumsnet' and putting a link to the Talk homepage.

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 28/12/2022 12:23

I was with you until the Yorkshire Pudding business. I want them with any and all roasts!

I was with YOU until you suggested severely limiting the eating of YPs only to when you have a roast Grin

CharityShopChic · 28/12/2022 12:24

yeah that’s a different thread.

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dutysuite · 28/12/2022 12:25

They constantly want us to rush through our life…I will be ignoring the Easter eggs, I like to take the slow pace through my life thanks.

Weepachu · 28/12/2022 12:26

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 28/12/2022 12:21

Is it this actual thread that the DM has pilfered paid tribute to?

I can see this very similar one: www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-11577107/When-right-time-Christmas-decorations.html

They've really started to whatever the opposite is of excel themselves by how much content they rob from MN. It used to be the odd article now and then, but there are at least five MN articles currently in Femail that have been 'reported on'. Sounds almost like mentionitis to me - maybe they secretly really fancy us!!!

They save themselves a lot of time by just adding a new tab at the top next to/in place of the 'Femail' one called 'Nicked from Mumsnet' and putting a link to the Talk homepage.

Yes, they seem to be focussing on when individuals take down their decs rather than the thrust of the discussion which centred around grabby retailers.

Tuilpmouse · 28/12/2022 12:31

CharityShopChic · 28/12/2022 12:17

Of course Christmas is a money grabber for retailers. What exactly do you think retailers are for? To make money. Not to be a social space, or a religious observance space, or any other sort of space. They are there to sell stuff and make money.

Of course shops are there primarily to make money... But they do that by tempting people to purchase from them in competition with online retail.

Shops have to be welcoming and enticing... And for me, their crass over-eager marketing and attempt to dictate the rhythm of the seasons by unnaturally accelerating everything puts me off, and less likely to want to go. I don't want to feel like they're desperate to grab my money (even if they are) - that's not going to work.

Weepachu · 28/12/2022 12:39

Tuilpmouse · 28/12/2022 12:31

Of course shops are there primarily to make money... But they do that by tempting people to purchase from them in competition with online retail.

Shops have to be welcoming and enticing... And for me, their crass over-eager marketing and attempt to dictate the rhythm of the seasons by unnaturally accelerating everything puts me off, and less likely to want to go. I don't want to feel like they're desperate to grab my money (even if they are) - that's not going to work.

You’ve articulated it beautifully.

We all understand that shops need to make money, but ripping down any last vestige of Christmas on the Eve before the big day itself, and wheeling out the hearts and eggs for the next big commercial pushes is just overplaying their hand a tad.

dutysuite · 28/12/2022 12:40

Because of social media people seem far too concerned about what other people do - when they put up and take down their tree etc. Thankfully I don’t live my life being dictated to by social media, zlisters and nobodies on instagram living a fake instagram life.

LouisCatorze · 28/12/2022 13:41

We need to learn to be more 'present' in life rather than always chasing the next 'hit' (usually involving retail!). I'm quite organised but it kind of sucks to be so far ahead in planning that one isn't enjoying the moment one is currently in!

Retailers have it made with Valentine's Day, Mother's Day and Easter usually falling in the first quarter of the year. They could at least give us a week or so to recover from Christmas and NYE before being onto the next 'big thing'.

Dullardmullard · 28/12/2022 15:00

Tuilpmouse · 28/12/2022 09:12

It's not "over" for most. Christmas has 3 phases... that are analogous to good sex

  1. The pre-Christmas build up through December. This is equivalent to the foreplay...

  2. The event itself, focussing on Christmas Eve and Christmas Day. This is equivalent to the orgasm...

  3. The wind down from Christmas Day afternoon into Boxing Day and stretching out for many to New Year. This is equivalent to the post-coital cuddle.

"Retail" Christmas is the equivalent of your partner asking you whether the gas bill's been paid before he's pulled out or even orgasmed, followed by him leaping immediately out of bed to start vacuuming the bedroom.

Well that’s a different take on it 😂 😂

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 28/12/2022 16:23

Retailers have it made with Valentine's Day, Mother's Day and Easter usually falling in the first quarter of the year.

I'm no retail psychologist, but I wonder if they deliberately get the stuff for each season out very early in an attempt to make people feel pressured - even though they claim it's to provide a choice for those (who, granted do exist) who like to have everything planned well in advance.

Even if they don't expect to sell that much Easter stuff in January, the fact that it's already been out for a few weeks can make customers fearful of how late they've apparently left it - and concerned that others will beat them to get the stock and it will all sell out. Plus, with things like Easter chocolate, I bet loads of people do plan to buy it early to be well organised - then eat it/give it to the kids early and have to replace it several times!

I'm just thinking of the tactics used by a certain well-known sofa company (among others), that has constant 'sales' on. It obviously works for them, otherwise they wouldn't bother keep making themselves look a ridiculous laughing-stock by urging customers to hurry and buy now as the 'sale ends soon'.

Then again, I'm aware this may be controversial, but I see all the perfume adverts for bottles costing £50+ and not a single one I've seen has ever told me what it smells like, much less how it can possibly be worth such a high price for such a small amount of liquid; so I suppose retailers know exactly what they're doing!

Tiggwiggs · 28/12/2022 17:42

When you work in retail you get used to de-christmasing the store on Christmas eve so that everything is ready for the store to reopen on Boxing day!

Oscarbravo · 28/12/2022 18:11

CharityShopChic · 27/12/2022 13:31

MN is the only place I come across this attitude that Christmas starts on 24th/25th December, and goes right through to 6th January.

This is not something I see reflected in my life or my friends' lives, "Christmas" is basically 1-25 December with parties, nativity plays, shopping, planning, pantomime visits etc, all culminating in Christmas Day.

By now, it's over.

It’s not an ‘attitude’. The first day of Christmas is 25th December and the following 11 days make up the twelve days of Christmas.

Parker231 · 28/12/2022 18:21

Oscarbravo · 28/12/2022 18:11

It’s not an ‘attitude’. The first day of Christmas is 25th December and the following 11 days make up the twelve days of Christmas.

Why make it sound like your opinion is the only way - for some of us Christmas Day is the end of the Christmas celebrations. No Boxing Day so back to work straight away. Our first Christmas ‘do’ was in November - only date everyone was free.

tigger1001 · 28/12/2022 18:33

"Why make it sound like your opinion is the only way - for some of us Christmas Day is the end of the Christmas celebrations. No Boxing Day so back to work straight away. Our first Christmas ‘do’ was in November - only date everyone was free."

I agree. Back to work and kids are back to school before the 6th most years too, certainly where I am.

Lincslady53 · 28/12/2022 18:39

We had a high st shop selling pictures and picture framing. Our Christmas would start the day the children went back to school in September, we would put small signs on every picture saying it could be reserved for Christmas with a deposit. The shopping centre we were in had a garden of Remembrance so we would put our decs up on the Monday after Remembrance Sunday. Shop de Christmassed on Christmas Eve afternoon and got ready for the sale. which we started on Dec 27th. Black Friday messed it up a bit as people expected sale prices in December.

Luckydip1 · 28/12/2022 18:40

@Tuilpmouse I agree, we are in the post coital cuddle stage of Christmas, which can be enjoyed until the 6th.

Oscarbravo · 28/12/2022 18:40

It’s not an opinion. The end of Christmas is Epiphany or Twelfth Night when the Magi or ‘Three Kings’ came upon the realisation of the Christ-child as the Son of God.

CharityShopChic · 28/12/2022 18:43

Oscarbravo · 28/12/2022 18:40

It’s not an opinion. The end of Christmas is Epiphany or Twelfth Night when the Magi or ‘Three Kings’ came upon the realisation of the Christ-child as the Son of God.

And here we go again round in circles about how Christmas might have originated from a christian celebration (hijacked from the pagans) but now for most people means a few days off work, loads of food, and giving presents. Religion does not factor in many people's festive celebrations.

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MarieIVanArkleStinks · 28/12/2022 18:44

Oscarbravo · 28/12/2022 18:40

It’s not an opinion. The end of Christmas is Epiphany or Twelfth Night when the Magi or ‘Three Kings’ came upon the realisation of the Christ-child as the Son of God.

Actually, it is.

What else is any spiritual belief predicated on but the written belief and opinions of others? It certainly doesn't have its basis in empirical fact.

Parker231 · 28/12/2022 18:44

Oscarbravo · 28/12/2022 18:40

It’s not an opinion. The end of Christmas is Epiphany or Twelfth Night when the Magi or ‘Three Kings’ came upon the realisation of the Christ-child as the Son of God.

And if you don’t believe in this ?