I do see both sides to this in a way, but that could be because I’m trained as a mental health nurse and try to withhold judgement when I don’t have the full facts.
In no way am I posting this for sympathy or “poor me,” but I really do think some people have no idea what nurses/ambulance staff go through on a shift daily..
Starting from the beginning, when I started training all financial support for nurses was scrapped (no worries, it’s the career I wanted anyway as I wanted to care for people, plus, most other degrees you have to pay for etc so can’t moan!) during my degree I worked part time in ‘high street shops’ in order to fund myself as much as possible, as well as working on placement for free (approx 2500 hours in 3 years - still, fine by me, I’m getting qualified in what I want to do!).
Qualified 6 months early to ‘opt in’ to working on the front line during COVID (deers in headlights a bit) - but there you go - that’s what you did the degree for, plus you learn very quickly when you need to.
I regard myself as having thick skin, but I must admit I wasn’t prepared for the physical, mental, sexual abuse that comes with being a qualified member of staff. I’ve been punched, pinched, spat at, held hostage, called every name under the sun, death threats, hair pulled, slapped, scratched, sexually assaulted etc. Unfortunately, this became something of the norm and something to expect on most shifts - and I get why people would say “so why do you stay and do it” but I was doing what I loved and was caring for people. It wasn’t all bad, there were moments that made it so so sooo worth it, yet I would not encourage my future children into this profession that I am so proud to be a part of. I have sat with multiple people as they take their last breaths during covid, trying to make their death as person centred as I can, singing to them, putting hymns on, holding their hands and reassuring them and I used to think, all the things this individual has seen and done with their lives, all the memories they have and all the life they have lived.. and I am privileged enough to be here with them at their last moments.. as someone who really truly cares.
I understand at the moment that the NHS is in dire need of fixing or a different pathway needs to be put in place as it cannot go on like this.
As for the ambulance strike, when I worked in a care home over a year ago, a resident fell and broke their hip and we waited for 8 hours for an ambulance, unfortunately this is not a new issue, however I see how it is easier said than done when it is someone you love needing the service to be angry about the strike.
anyway, that’s enough from me, sorry for the long post!