DH has agreed to be someone's guarantor for a rental property even though I asked him not to. Am I right to be annoyed?
For context. We run a construction company, I say we as I do all of the paperwork side and he does the physical work. Everything we have is joint in terms of finances etc. He is self-employed and he has two men who also work with him self employed. One of the guys is struggling to get a rental property, his wife is heavily pregnant. Weeks ago when he first mentioned it, I said look we can provide a reference that he's been working x amount of time and is paid x amount and work is ongoing. However don't agree to be a guarantor.
My reasoning is anything can happen unforeseen and we are then left with the responsibility of paying the rent which we just wouldn't be able to afford. Secondly DH has been let down by previous people who have worked with him. He is currently owed thousands by someone who worked with him previously and has basically done a runner.
Over the years there has been other situations where DH has helped colleagues, friends, relatives and they've let him down and it's brought a lot of stress to us.
DH won't go back on his word to this guy now.
Am I right to be annoyed that DH has gone against what I've said and not even discussed it with me first that he agreed to do it? I only know because the email from the agency came to our work email.