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To think a crowd of people all wearing black coats is depressing and dreary?

177 replies

PurpleParrotfish · 12/12/2022 14:11

School Christmas concert this morning. Kids all in cheery Christmas jumpers. Parents looked like a funeral.
Why, nowadays does almost everyone wear black winter coats? It’s dreary enough in the dark days of winter, there’s no law against having a bit of colour.
In the row of 23 adults in front of me, I counted one cream / light beige coat, one brown, one emerald green, one dark khaki - and the rest all black, maybe with the odd dark navy among them. No cheery coloured scarves or anything like that.
Anyone else agree that it makes winter more depressing when commuters or even Christmas shopping crowds are wall to wall black (with occasional navy/dark grey if you’re lucky) and wish colourful coats were fashionable again?
Yes, I know, first world problems, bigger things to worry about etc…

OP posts:
earsup · 12/12/2022 14:29

I have lots of bright colours...wear all year round...hate the dark winter and the sheep all wearing black and grey....same with those who paint houses black and grey...looks awful....

ermmm · 12/12/2022 14:29

I actually feel the same with children’s coats. They all seem to be in darker shades and with the darker evenings I really worry about them being invisible to cars.

ABrotherWhoLooksLikeHellMugYou · 12/12/2022 14:30

I have a bright green coat, but my warmest, smartest one is a floor length black wool coat I got from a charity shop. It's black because I had a choice of one! It was only twenty quid though, do that's nice, and I wear colourful scarves and hats if I fancy it

TheLittlestLightOnTheXmasTree · 12/12/2022 14:30

I find jeans to be dull dreary and depressing....

Eyerollcentral · 12/12/2022 14:30

@PurpleParrotfish if you don’t see why having a matching coat matters then you are not going to get it. I may have a coat mania (mainly 2nd hand/sale!) but a coat that doesn’t go to me just makes you look underdressed and unkempt. Many people like to look nice especially for an occasion when all the other parents in the school are going to be there, it makes a good impression to be nicely dressed, even in jeans and shows respect to the event you are attending. Also given it’s Monday I imagine most of the adults are in their work coat, which is often black because it goes w everything, hides dirt and is not inappropriate

BeggyMitchell · 12/12/2022 14:30

Bright red here. My favourite colour and coincidentally feels Christmassy Xmas Smile.

HotDogJumpingFrogHaveACookie · 12/12/2022 14:30

I wear black because I like it. Whether strangers find it cheery enough doesn't matter a single iota to me.

PurpleParrotfish · 12/12/2022 14:30

The concert was lovely, thanks for those asking. Short and sweet and I did the coat counting before it started!
I’m sure lots of people would criticise my own wardrobe, and I would never think any one individual in a black coat looked dreary. But a crowd of them all dressed alike - I can’t help thinking it’s depressing and yearn for colour.

OP posts:
DrMarciaFieldstone · 12/12/2022 14:34

I like black, it matches many things and it’s elegant.

Whether or not it might make someone else feel depressed is not a factor

Eyerollcentral · 12/12/2022 14:35

What colour is your coat?

RaRaRaspoutine · 12/12/2022 14:35

@YouScumbagYouMaggotHeresKevinTheCarrot massive LOL at your username. Love it.

Brightstarowl · 12/12/2022 14:36

If people wearing Black coats is enough to depress you than you must have it very easy!

TheLittlestLightOnTheXmasTree · 12/12/2022 14:37

I think this was a mean spirited thread to start

Some people don't have the funds for anything other than a plain 'match every outfit and occasion' BLACK coat.....a washed robe basic

To do school run,shopping,dog walking,funerals ....whilst hiding as many marks and as much dirt to delay laundering for as long as possible.

Nasty op!

sunflowerdaisyrose · 12/12/2022 14:38

Mine is dark green and I love it, the one before that was turquoise- I don't think I've had a black coat since school! I much prefer colour!

thelobsterquadrille · 12/12/2022 14:39

Black goes with everything, it's practical and easy to clean.

TheLittlestLightOnTheXmasTree · 12/12/2022 14:40

People can't afford multiple coloured coats!

chappysays · 12/12/2022 14:42

Don't see why people don't just buy Navy. Much nicer but still dark and goes with everything pretty much

maximist · 12/12/2022 14:42

I tend to wear brightly coloured coats - if I wore a black one it wouldn't be black, it'd be black with accents of cat fur...

Ginmonkeyagain · 12/12/2022 14:42

I had a colleague who always used to wear cream or white winter coats. Given she lived and worked on London and commuted on the tube it was a bit of a power move - look at all the dry cleaning I can afford! 😆

WaddleAway · 12/12/2022 14:43

I wear black because I like black. I assume the other people who wear black coats do so because they like black. Unless you’d rather we wore coats of a colour we don’t like, just because someone who is sitting near us prefers to see people wearing colours other than black? How odd.

WaddleAway · 12/12/2022 14:43

chappysays · 12/12/2022 14:42

Don't see why people don't just buy Navy. Much nicer but still dark and goes with everything pretty much

I don’t like navy. I like black. If I liked navy I’d buy a navy coat.

Ginmonkeyagain · 12/12/2022 14:43

@chappysays My thoughts exactly and what I do, but then again I took me ages to do that as my school coats had to be navy.

mondaytosunday · 12/12/2022 14:44

@Burgoo - wow love that!
I do agree OP. My daughter just said this morning that everyone was wearing dark coats (as I was, but with a bright scarf. She was wearing red).

NoelNoNoel · 12/12/2022 14:44

I have three black coats.

midsomermurderess · 12/12/2022 14:45

A few years ago I came back from India in early January and was waiting in a big train station to be collected. I was so struck by all the black, grey coats, such a contrast to the bright colours of saris etc in India. And by what seemed almost like silence. A large station in India is a very noisy place. It looked almost like national mourning here. Quite striking.